In some places, parents should prepare steamed buns in return, and the number of steamed buns is also stipulated. It takes a long time to return 99 steamed buns normally. Or preparing pillows may be a problem that parents consider for their children. If children miss their parents, they can sleep on the pillows given by their parents.

Some places will return shoes, because the heels are homophonic, and parents want their children to grow old together after marriage. If you give shoes, you must give them two pairs, one for your daughter and one for your son-in-law.

Introduction of the door:

The time to return to China varies from place to place. In ancient times, it was the third, sixth or seventh, eighth and ninth day of marriage, and there were also full moons to visit relatives in their hometowns. There was a custom of Huimen in the Spring and Autumn Period, which has been inherited by later generations. Because the "double door" is the double door of the newlyweds, it is called "double door", which means auspicious in pairs.

When returning to the door, the old custom stipulates that the bride should go ahead, and when returning to the man's house, the groom should go ahead, because this return to the door is the first time for the daughter to return to her family after her wedding, and some of them are also called "decapitation". After crossing the "Second Gate", it is generally not allowed to spend the night at Yue's house, but must return to the man's house on the same day, because in the old society, it was a custom not to leave the house for one month after the wedding.