1. Parents of both parties meet.
Engagement usually takes place in hotels. If there is a matchmaker, the matchmaker will be invited to join us. Upon arrival, there should be a meeting between parents at the beginning. If parents haven't met, then the matchmaker or couple need to introduce themselves so that parents can get to know each other.
Step 2 welcome guests
If relatives and friends of both parties are invited to the engagement ceremony, then the second part of the engagement is for the couple and their parents to greet the guests. In some places, if guests attend the engagement ceremony, they will also give gifts, usually to the newlyweds or their parents when they enter the venue.
sit down
After all the guests arrive, the engagement ceremony will begin, so both parents, newlyweds and guests should be seated.
4. The matchmaker spoke
The matchmaker is an important person who witnessed the emotional development of both sides. If there is no matchmaker, you can also invite the couple's friends to talk about their emotional experiences and blessings.
Step 5 give a bride price
Generally, when engaged, the man should first prepare the bride price and give it to the woman at the engagement site.
Engagement is very important
1, select the time
Before engagement, parents of both parties should meet to discuss the engagement time and related matters.
Step 2 pay attention to etiquette
When parents are talking, both men and women should bring tea and water to each other's parents and leave a good impression on each other's parents, so that the other party will think that they have found a good wife and son-in-law.
3. Agreed place
The engagement place is usually in the hotel or the woman's home. Holding an engagement party at the woman's home can show respect for each other.
4. Number of participants
Engagement parties usually invite their relatives and friends to witness their marriage.
Step 5 know each other's hobbies
Since we want to be a family, we should get to know each other, especially our parents' living habits, manners and eating habits.
6. Parents should avoid talking.
Before getting engaged, both parents need to discuss the details of marriage. Boys and girls had better avoid this time.