At marriageable age, it is normal for a man to marry a woman. There are many marriage customs in China, the most interesting of which is to block the door when getting married.
Bridging refers to the behavior that when the man goes to the woman's house to pick up the bride on the wedding day, the woman's relatives and friends will pretend to block the door and prevent the person who picks up the bride from picking up the bride directly.
Blocking the door when getting married not only expresses the woman's attention to the bride, but also tests the groom's determination to marry the bride. Sometimes, blocking the door is also to adjust the "auspicious time" of marriage.
Blocking the door is the last retention of the bride by the woman's family, which is full of warmth and auspiciousness.
Bridesmaids who block the door often "embarrass" the groom with puzzles or games. It is certainly good to solve these "difficulties". If you can't solve it, you must save the country by curve, and send red envelopes to block the door and ask the bridesmaids to let go.
You know, they don't really want to embarrass the groom, so at this time, if you say something nice while blushing, you are likely to enter the bride's door.
Generally speaking, it is enough to wrap a red envelope with five pieces and ten pieces, not the weight, but the quantity, which is the most important thing. This is also in case the bridesmaid's problem is too difficult. The red envelope in hand is used up in the first few customs, and then it is embarrassing.
If it really doesn't work, you can also give the red envelope to the best man and scatter it hard. The groom will try his best to rush into the bride's room, and it may not be unsuccessful.
Don't care too much about the size of the red envelope. The main purpose of blocking the door is to enliven the atmosphere. The size of the red envelope really doesn't matter.
If you really feel embarrassed, you can also give each red envelope a different amount, some big red envelopes and the rest are small red envelopes. The advantage of this is that it can make the atmosphere more active, and it will not make people feel that the groom is stingy.
Of course, if the man's family economic conditions are good, it is best to wrap the red envelope a little bigger, which can express the attention to the woman to a certain extent.
The red envelope is the "chip" for the groom to take away the bride, and it is also a sharp weapon to adjust the atmosphere. Without red envelopes, it is much more difficult for the groom to marry the bride.