First of all, if the bride and groom are the masters and people come to the guest house to attend the wedding, then on this occasion, this passive scene can become active. For example, don't wait for guests to propose a toast to the bride and groom, just walk over and invite the guests attending the wedding to propose a toast. In this case, you are active, so you can throw a message that we express our wishes, which is impolite.
Secondly, we can deal with guests, for example, guests come to propose a toast, and we can find a polite excuse to cleverly avoid his opportunity to propose a toast. When they're almost drunk, you can go over there and say no, it was urgent.
There are also some clever ways, such as putting the wine in your mouth when drinking, secretly spitting it out when no one is around, or adding a certain amount of water to the wine to make yourself less likely to get drunk.