In fact, historically, the ancients were more particular than us. So what did ancient marriage need to go through? In the general costume drama, when there is a contradiction between the first room and the concubine room, it will be said that my mother was married through three books and six gifts. There is also a saying behind, who carried the big sedan chair and married the door? Who are you?

"Three Books" refers to the documents used in the process of "Six Rites", including appointment books, ceremony books and welcoming books. "Six Rites" refers to the whole marriage process from marriage proposal to marriage. "Six Rites" means accepting gifts, asking names, concubinage, accepting gifts, inviting parties and welcoming relatives.

Now, marriage proposal is essential.

Why did you propose? It's an ice lotus, and the combination of lianlizhi is definitely not smooth sailing. If two people get married in a daze, I will think later, why on earth should I marry him and why should I marry her?

Wedding photos are also essential.

I only intend to get married once in my life. The sweet moment of two people, the promise of vows of eternal love, is bound to have something superficial besides memories. Then the best way is wedding photos, of course, not to say that the more expensive the better. Let's just say, if necessary. It is very important to be able to leave your best and sweetest moments behind.

betrothal gifts/presents (from the bridegroom's to the bride's family)

Why the bride price? It is not easy for the woman's parents to work so hard to raise their daughter. Moreover, this bride price is not an act of selling your daughter, but your sincerity in marrying her. Regardless of the size of the bride price, as long as the woman feels sincere.

In addition to the bride price, it is the wedding scene.

In fact, this is also a sense of ritual, as if a devout believer had been baptized by his soul. Basically, marriage is for life, so the sense of ceremony will become an indispensable highlight in future life or memories. Even if there is a life conflict.

When Master Huang of Huang Xiaoming, whom we are familiar with, got married, the momentum was not great.

Then your marriage must be blessed by relatives and friends. The more people witness it, the more it means to you.

After marriage, even if there is something missing in the family. Look at the wedding photos hanging in the bedroom, look at a few carats of diamonds in your hand, and even recall the scene of proposing marriage.

Although we can't decide the future direction of life, it is like a lubricant after all. No matter what happens, we will cherish it more and more when we think of various difficulties.

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