Chongqing wedding custom 3354 Tujia people cry to get married.
In ancient times, Tujia women cried to get married before they got married. In order to prepare for crying marriage, girls should learn to cry marriage if they are sensible. Watch and learn to cry, and I will cry with you at an early age. When you cry to get married, what you say is called a wedding reception. When you get married, girls from relatives and friends in the same village come to cry with you.
Now the times are changing, young people yearn for freedom and happiness, and marriage and love are all decided by themselves. Tujia girls don't have to follow the old marriage customs when they get married. Although some remote cottages still retain this custom, they will not. I don't like getting married crying. Even if they cry, they often cry three or five times, and some people joke to make the bride laugh. This is a kind of crying.
Chongqing wedding custom 3354 noisy bridal chamber
China has the custom of getting married since ancient times. In our city of Chongqing, apart from young people teasing new people now, the old custom of teasing bridal chamber has gradually declined. However, this wedding custom still exists in some places in Chongqing, such as Tongliang County in Chongqing.
There is also the custom of disturbing the bridal chamber. Not only the bride and groom were badly played, but also American parents were frolicked by relatives and friends. Lift with baskets, wear shoulder skirts, make faces, put ash at the bottom of the pot, put beggars, tie red ropes, carry bamboo poles, etc. They are very excited, and some parents can be punished even if they are nearly old. They didn't stop until the bride and groom were disturbed, went out to smoke with their elders and friends and gave them red envelopes.
Chongqing Marriage Custom 3354 Marriage Taboos
1. On the eve of the wedding, you should find an underage boy to sleep in the bed with the groom. This is because traditional people think that both husband and wife will not die if they sleep in an empty bed.
On the wedding day, before going to bed at night, everyone should try to make a new bed to avoid someone sitting on it. Especially the groom must not touch the bed, which will be unlucky. The bride should not lie on the bed at will, or she will be ill in bed.
3. people who get married and avoid the zodiac tiger watch the ceremony.
When the bride goes out on the wedding day, her aunt and sister-in-law may not send her.
There should be no pockets on the bride's clothes, lest she take away her wealth.
On the third day after marriage, the newlyweds go back to their parents' home with gifts, that is, to visit relatives in the province. But remember to go back to your husband. Don't spend the night with Don before dark.
7. Within four months after marriage, the bride should not attend any wedding and funeral ceremony to avoid celebration.
Don't lend other people's mirrors to the bride.
9. In the first four months of marriage, the bride should also avoid staying out for the night unless it is necessary.