In the mountain village area of Guilin, in fact, many villages will have their own temple fairs. On that day, people will go to the temple fair to kill a pig, and each family will take turns to slaughter it. Every year, a family will go there to kill pigs, and it is best for couples to get married on the same day. So if they decide to get married in that year, they will also arrange for a couple to get married on that day. This is also a custom that has been circulating for many years, but if no one got married in those days, a mage should be invited to do a special Dojo.
Many people may say that no couple wants to get married on this day, because it is a custom and they can't follow their own plans, but the reality is just the opposite. If you decide which year to get married, many couples will choose that day to get married, because in our opinion, couples who get married on that day will get the blessings of many people and generally can grow old together. In the 20 years I grew up, almost all the couples who got married on that day had really good feelings and never divorced.
Actually, in our village, we don't want a lot of bride price when we get married, it's just a formality. No matter how much it costs, it is a kind of heart, but our parents will give our married daughters a bottle of daughter red. This bottle of daughter red has been hidden in the soil for more than a year, all in the temple fair. Daughter red hidden in the temple fair is also refined through some special and mysterious processes. Therefore, if any family has a daughter, it is usually 18 years old to brew her daughter's red wine until she gets married.
Maybe two people prepare the wedding together until the wedding day, but when they get married in the countryside, the bride and groom can't meet three days before the wedding. If they want to prepare for the wedding, they can only prepare before this time. They can only meet after the groom comes to marry the bride on the wedding day, especially the night before.
Nowadays, people are more willing to get married in the countryside in the form of photography, and then film the wedding process, carve it on a plate and get married in the countryside. In the evening, the couple did not enter the bridal chamber, but sang a folk song. Because many people in rural areas prefer to listen to local folk songs, when they get married, everyone sings together, records this moment, and then takes out the plates and carries them out.