I have been with my boyfriend for more than three years, and I am getting married recently. He is one year younger than when I was 24.

Both parents agreed, and we were discussing marriage, but he told me that his family had no money. In fact, I knew from the beginning that his conditions were not very good, and I didn't think he would buy a car or house, but now there is no wedding, let alone a bride price, and I don't know what to do at the moment.

Let me briefly talk about the family situation first. Boyfriend has a heavy burden at home. There is a sister who is only 12 years old, and her mother is not at work. Only her father is at work, with an average monthly salary of seven or eight thousand. And grandma and grandma. Two uncles don't give her living expenses. One uncle's son is only 4 years old. His mother cares about her family and subsidizes her with all his father's money. His father also defends his mother's fault, so he stays at home every month.

I am an only child. Both my parents work in the company. After I bought social security, I got a retirement salary. My old man is at my uncle's house. Because relatives are very close, I pay for the living expenses every year. Now I have used all my savings to buy me a suite. The current house price of my family in our current city is about one million, but I borrowed 250,000 from my relatives (according to the current situation at home, I can pay it back in two years), so I have no money at home.

My boyfriend is usually nice to me, because I haven't been in contact with others and I don't know if he is a good person. He doesn't have any plans. We often quarrel. Maybe because he is younger than me, I take care of him more. He has never cooked, but my parents or I have. I feel that he can't do anything. He occasionally washes clothes, but he washes dishes that day, but his monthly salary is dominated by me except car loan and living expenses.