Don't think that you can easily marry a bride by waiting for a long time on a cold night. Whether you can enter the woman's door is still a question. When you walk to the woman's door, you will never see the scene of people warmly welcoming you, only her door is closed. It turns out that this is the last test that the woman gives you. They sent several children to watch the door. When you knock on the door, the children will ask some mean and strange questions to make things difficult for you. In ancient times, there were talented people who thought they were great, but they couldn't get in after being frozen at the door for an hour or two. Modern people are much smarter and don't say much. Prepare a few small red envelopes, put them under the door and call out, "open sesame!" The closed door will slowly open for you. Hehe, after all, children are easy to coax. However, it is much more difficult if there is adult guidance. A few red envelopes are not enough. After all, everyone is just having fun.
If you think the woman is not enthusiastic enough before you enter the door, you are all wet. After entering the door, you will find that the woman is very enthusiastic about you, just like steaming food on the table. They prepared a sumptuous banquet for you and invited your relatives to drink with you. In this way, eat and drink until dawn, you can marry the bride and leave with a suona sound.
If this is the completion of the whole wedding ceremony, it can't be regarded as having the characteristics of Linxiang. The fun is yet to come. Drinking tea after dinner will push the wedding atmosphere to a climax. The so-called tea drinking means that after the wedding reception, relatives and friends of both men and women gather in the class, and the bride and groom carry tea together and deliver it one by one. Of course, when you send tea, you don't say, "Sister, you drink tea" and so on. You have to say, "menstruation is coming, aunt of the child, please have tea." -This means that the couple will have a child early. Of course, more friends of the man want to see the bride's shy expression. Of course, relatives and friends don't drink tea for nothing. When returning empty teacups, you should put some tea money in, ranging from hundreds to tens of thousands, and some even put bank cards directly. More money and less money is just a mind, and there is no hard and fast indicator.
If the man is also from Linxiang, then the next morning, you will also send tea to your neighbors. At this time, the tea party will be more casual. Tea is porridge made of rice and red dates. When you return the teacup, you should also add happy money as you like, five yuan and ten yuan.
Happy is happy, happy is happy. It's not over yet. Three days later, take the bride back to her family, commonly known as "returning to the door."