It is often said by men that it is not easy to be a man, and some people are shouting that it is even harder to be a man in China. So, compared with men from other countries, especially Japanese men, is it easy to be a man in China? Work contrast: General Manager Ito Ichi of Beijing Sakura Wedding Co., Ltd. said: In China, if a man has changed several companies within five years, we can think that he is enterprising and constantly pursues higher goals, and we can also regard this as an experience and a job-seeking capital. In Japan, job-hopping after working in a company for two years will be considered long-term, and even if you change companies, you will not be promoted. They pay more attention to qualifications there. When a man enters a company, as long as he is willing to work hard, he will have a chance to be promoted and his income will increase steadily with age. When their performance exceeds that of their predecessors, they will be transferred to other branches for higher-level management. But if you don't work hard, and your new colleagues keep getting promoted, but you always stand still, it will be embarrassing. Not only in the company, but also in the society, it will not satisfy the wife at home, and even let her leave. Stress comparison In Japan, 70% of women work until they get pregnant, and then they start to go into the family and have children. When the children go to primary school, some people start to work again, but at this time, except for the special profession of nursing, it is unlikely to find a job with the same income as before They work at this time in order to be able to integrate into society and not be eliminated by society, so their income is of little help to their families. At this time, the main income of the family depends on men. If a man's career is unsuccessful, he will have no economic status and social status, and his family will be greatly affected, so they usually work hard. Related topics: women, give men some face! Comparison of family life In terms of family, Mr. Ito Ichi said: In Japan today, male chauvinism is not as obvious as advertised in the past movies. Men actually respect their wives. They are very polite to their wives. When they need their wives to do something or get something for themselves, they will use polite expressions such as "please". When they finish, they will also thank their wives. The wife controls all the economic expenses in the family, such as buying a house and a car. It is the wife who makes the decision. Men's wages will be remitted to their accounts regularly, just like the salary passbook we issue now. Their monthly pocket money will be distributed by their wives according to their needs, such as eating, smoking and drinking. When you have extra expenses, you should apply to your wife. Reading: A comparison of when China men learned to kiss and get married; Nowadays, unmarried women in Japan have a much more open attitude towards sex than in China. Some girls even show off the number and frequency of premarital sex as a kind of capital. They think they should give their first sexual experience to a man they don't like. And if a man finds out that his wife is still a virgin on their wedding night, he will feel very unlucky. Because this girl must not be excellent and has not been liked by others. But when they get married, especially women, they will become very strict, and they will devote themselves wholeheartedly to their families. Of course, they are very rational about their husbands' extramarital affairs outside. When they know that such a thing happened to Mr. Wang, they will first ask him whether he and another woman are emotional or for fun. Most men are for fun, and the wife will give her husband some time to make up; If the two sides are mainly emotional, that is another matter. Japanese men generally do not take the initiative to choose divorce, or it may be because if divorced, men have to pay a lot of expenses such as insurance money and child support. As a Japanese wife, if she finds that her husband is not good enough to meet her own requirements, she will take the initiative to break up. Related reading: China men don't deserve China women.