I didn't think it was necessary before, just to cope with my parents and delete all the processes I thought were unnecessary.

Site layout, camera photography, wedding car, everything is simple, and the expenses are used in hotels, banquets and accompanying gifts to the maximum extent. We just want everyone to stay and have fun, and we don't care about the wedding ceremony at all. The simpler the ceremony, the better. We hosted it ourselves, without any sensational links. Crosstalk is also a funny route, trying to make everyone laugh happily.

But when I stood opposite the stage, my husband stood on the stage. The night before the wedding, he made music in the Internet cafe, and the opening words I wrote staying up late came from the microphone. We can't hold back more than three sentences, so we can't control our tears any more. Many friends in the audience also cried. Applause is accompanied by everyone's tears, mixed with blessings. At that moment, I understood the meaning of the wedding.

It took us to relive the beauty of the past, the throbbing of the first meeting, the nervousness of the first date, and the sweetness of warming up feelings. At that moment, we had been in love for five years as if we had just been together, young and ignorant, but full of expectations. More importantly, at that moment, my family, friends, people I love the most and people who love me the most were on the scene. Everyone cried and laughed together and shared me.

Before the wedding, we held a mobile banquet without ceremony in my hometown. I have been licensed for half a year and have known each other for seven years. Feeling atrophied in the corner, making people ignore its existence. The pressure of marriage made us quarrel for the first time, and we no longer restrained our emotions. But after the wedding, we returned to the way of love, without uncontrollable emotional outbursts, quarrels and resentment. From the moment of the ceremony, we really realized. We want to build a family like two adults, in the form of a family. We are still independent individuals, but from that moment on, we will be engraved in each other's lives forever.

After the wedding, my husband regretted not being able to prepare the venue layout for the wedding. He hired a sloppy wedding company and took care of nothing. The wedding arrangement is even more sloppy, which leads to ugly wedding scenery. Although we remedied it in time, we still have regrets. Still, I feel very happy. We ignore the importance of ceremony, and even the process and string words are improvisational. But when that moment came, the happiness of that moment was enough to make people ignore everything on the scene. I only remember the tears in my husband's eyes, the hugs of my parents, and the way my friend waved at me with his mobile phone and gently wiped his tears.

If I do it again, I will still spend money on hotels, restaurants and gifts. It is such a delight to have friends coming so far. I still don't care what the wedding is like. I will try my best to keep it simple, but this time, I will definitely make the puff thicker, because I will definitely cry.

The preparations for the wedding are really tiring. Even when we gave up the wedding, my husband and I didn't have a good rest for a week. We began to study the customs and habits of both sides very early. Two days before the wedding, we hardly had a good meal. The night before the wedding, we had no rest, no tension, no time to rest, and too many things were unprepared. The economic pressure is really great, especially if we want everything, which makes the pressure even greater.

I am grateful for such an opportunity to bring my closest relatives and best friends together. I love them, appreciate their company and enjoy their blessings.