Love is two of a kind's and romantic. As long as there is love, it can overcome everything.

Marriage is a matter for two families. Besides love, there are responsibilities, responsibilities for partners, responsibilities for children, responsibilities for the elderly at home, and responsibilities for family morality.

If a man loves you for many years, but he doesn't want to marry you, will you still insist on going with him, or will you break up and find a new partner to marry?

Before making a decision, let's analyze the reasons why men are willing to fall in love but don't want to marry you. There are roughly the following points:

1. Unstable study or occupation In today's society where the cost of living is getting higher and higher, it is not easy to support yourself, let alone support the family.

Then, there will be such a phenomenon: I met a girl who wanted to take care of her life when she had nothing.

Many men are independent and responsible. Maybe their family is not rich, and their parents gave everything they had for him to go to college. So he hopes to create a world, create a beautiful life, give love to parents and girls.

In this process, he may study very hard and work very hard. He may ignore you at work and take care of your little thoughts and emotions, but he is preparing for the future.

Girls want to get married, but boys think the conditions are not yet mature. He wants to fight for a few more years, and he doesn't want you to have a hard time with him.

But many couples break up at this stage, many girls want their boyfriends' care and care, and busy boyfriends may not have time to chat with you and go shopping with you at all.

Girlfriends who feel left out for a long time will choose to break up and wait until the day when men want to get married.

Second, the cost of divorce is too high. Nowadays, men just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, largely because the cost of divorce is too high.

Aunt Wang's son Qiqi has been with his girlfriend for three years. Every New Year, his girlfriend lives in Qiqi's house. The neighbor asked Qiqi why she didn't get married. Qiqi replied: "I can't afford it!"

It turns out that Kiki's girlfriend wants a bride price of 300,000 yuan, not a penny less, and Kiki's family is a very ordinary peasant family and can't afford so much money. Besides, they have to hold banquets and buy houses and cars.

Even if you are in free love, the uncertainty of choosing your own girlfriend is still too high for men. Giving his girlfriend a bride price of 300 thousand may be his parents' savings for most of their lives. Now the divorce rate is so high that my girlfriend is from other places. When there is a contradiction, it is easy to draw water with a sieve, lose your daughter-in-law and lose money.

So Qiqi would rather get along first than get married, depending on their feelings and future development!

Excessive bride price is a mountain over men, which blocks many men who want to get married. If girls don't compromise, men can't climb mountains. Therefore, they have to spend it until one of them can't afford it, either reducing the bride price or breaking up.

Except the bride price, the car and the house. Many girls want to buy a house before marriage and ask to add their own names. Most men in their twenties still need their parents' help to buy a house. Once divorced, half of the house will be owned by the woman, which is a great loss for men.

So more and more men are afraid to get married for economic reasons.

Third, the fear of marriage Some men from unhappy families are prone to fear of marriage. For example, Huang Xuan, a famous actor, divorced when he was very young, because his parents always quarreled. Huang Xuan has never been warm since he was a child. So, on the one hand, he longs for a woman to take care of him and give him warmth. On the other hand, he is afraid of marriage, fearing that the failure of marriage will hurt both parties.

The mode of parents' getting along with each other has become a nightmare for this type of men, which also affects their views on mate selection and marriage.

There are also some men who are immature and think that marriage is a kind of bondage, even a "grave of love". They feel that once they get married, they are trapped. From then on, they can only work to earn money. The family and the company have to bear the expenses of the whole family, which makes them panic and want to escape.

Even women now hold up half the sky. They can work to support their families and go home to take care of their children. There are still many men who are unwilling to assume the responsibilities of husband and father after marriage, fearing being bound, managed and controlled.

When you meet the first man, you can try to influence him with love, but when you meet the second man who is unwilling to be responsible, even if you get married, his shoulders will not be strong. Would you like to marry such a man?

Fourth, you are not his ideal perfect wife. A former female colleague, Liang Xiao, talked with her boyfriend for five years. From college to graduation for two years, her feelings entered a stable period from passionate love.

During this period, Liang Xiao once put forward the idea of engagement to her boyfriend, who was not prepared to politely refuse because of his unstable work.

Later her boyfriend was transferred to Suzhou by the company. My female colleague is still in Beijing, and she talked about a long-distance relationship for another year. Boyfriend broke up, tell her that she likes someone else.

At this time, Liang Xiao realized that her boyfriend was "not ready" and she was not ready to marry her.

Therefore, when you have been in love for many years, the man has no intention of marrying you. Even if you make it clear, he won't agree. Maybe you are not the right wife in his mind, he is still looking for a girl who meets his standards, and you are just his ex-girlfriend who has been with him for some time in his life.

However, Liang Xiao finally found true love. She is the boss of her unit and loves her to the bone. Liang Xiao always shows love in her circle of friends. She has been married to her male boss for less than a year, and she is still very happy after marriage.

This is the so-called, a don't two happy, each in his place. Say goodbye to the wrong one and meet the right one again.

My boyfriend just wants to fall in love with you, not to get married. For you of school age, it is a kind of entanglement. For women, marriage is a destination and insurance, while men who don't marry are more like time bombs, which may make a mess of a woman's life one day.

Therefore, women must find out why men don't want to get married, whether they don't want to get married temporarily, or they don't want to get married at all, or they just don't want to marry you. Only by finding out the specific reasons can we make our own accurate judgment.

Don't give up on a man who really loves you, and don't cling to a man who doesn't love you at all. The man who loves you will give you a wedding sooner or later, while the man who doesn't love you may miss your wedding forever.

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