1, the choice of the first meeting place: According to the custom, the man takes the initiative to make an appointment for the time and place. Generally speaking, the man should take the initiative to visit the woman's house, which is a respect for the woman's family. If both parties agree, it is no problem to choose to meet at the man's house.

The specific meeting places are restaurants, private rooms, hotel rooms, tea restaurants and cafes, all of which are good choices. Personally, I think it is most appropriate to arrange the meeting at home if conditions permit. Because at home, the relationship between the two sides will be closer and more cordial. And there will be no interruptions when eating, more like a big family enjoying happiness together.

2. The meeting ceremony must be prepared.

After all, it is the first time for parents of both men and women to meet, so it is appropriate to bring some gifts. One is to attach great importance to them, the other is to respect them, and the third is to show your mind. Fourth, show sincerity.

Choice of meeting gifts: health care products and fruits, local specialties, especially local brands, skin care products or cosmetics, good tea or coffee, etc.

3. Bridal gifts and betrothal gifts.

First of all, make sure whether this first meeting is a direct engagement. If it's not an engagement, you should be prepared to give the girl a small gift. If you are engaged, then this betrothal gift is also called betrothal gift and betrothal gift, which is still generally required now, so be prepared. The amount is generally given according to the local customs of both parties or the parents' prior agreement.