Marriage is a major event in life, and according to our custom in China, no matter whether you marry yourself or someone else, once you are invited to the wedding, the people who attend the wedding will pay for it with money. And the money, in fact, is a kind of human relations, I received the money myself, and I have to return it in full to attend other people's weddings. This is a normal thing for many people, but a man in Chongqing was reported for accepting a gift from a colleague when he got married and was punished by the company. What is the reason?

This man is Mr. Yang, an employee of a company with many stores and employees. Mr. Yang is the inspector of this company. As we all know, the inspector is the supervisor, and any shop that does not do well can be punished. Therefore, in order to prevent the store manager from bribing the inspector, the company has introduced various rules and regulations, including the store manager inviting the inspector to dinner. Inspectors can't attend. But it is such a rule that Mr. Yang lost his job.

During the Mid-Autumn Festival, Mr. Yang invited many people from his family to attend the wedding because of his marriage. At the same time, he also invited many colleagues in the company. Most of these invited colleagues are colleagues who have been with him for more than two years. By rights, this is a very normal thing. Inviting colleagues to your wedding will not only make your wedding more lively, but also bring the relationship between colleagues closer. On the same day, according to the custom of paying bills with money in China, Mr. Yang received a gift of 4389 yuan from his colleagues. Unexpectedly, because of this money, Mr. Yang was inexplicably reported by his colleagues.

The company believes that Mr. Yang seeks illegitimate interests on the grounds of marriage, and then asks him to return all the gift money of his colleagues. Moreover, the company leaders also asked Mr. Yang to explain this matter in the group and apologize. Moreover, the head office also made a notice on this matter, saying that Mr. Yang violated company discipline and should be given a warning and transferred from Chongqing Branch.

Therefore, Mr. Yang feels very wronged. Although he asked the company to cancel the decision, the company did not adopt his opinion. From the company's point of view, it may be because of the particularity of Mr. Yang's post that the company punished him, but I think the company is too strict with the rules. Getting married with money is not an individual phenomenon, but a common phenomenon. Besides, I have received other people's money, and I have to pay back other people's weddings. How can we identify it as seeking illegal interests?

Therefore, I don't think it is appropriate for the company to do so. If so, do you dare to invite your colleagues to the wedding as a special person? Colleagues went to attend, dare to pay with money? If you go without money, then you go to other people's weddings. Do you want to go with money? The company didn't investigate the reason clearly, so it gave Mr. Yang such a charge at will. Such a company is too impersonal.