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What should college students pay attention to when they fall in love?
What problems should college students pay attention to in love? Nowadays, many college students want to find a partner as soon as they arrive at college, so as not to look at others in pairs and feel lonely. Sometimes I ask my brothers and sisters to play, and then my brothers and sisters have to accompany their partners or something. Actually, I don't think it's necessary to cough. This is beside the point. Now that college students are in love, I think the most important thing is to pay attention to the following questions:

1. Don't neglect your studies because you love your brain. Some college students care about love very much, and feel that they have met the dying person all their lives, and even their studies have been abandoned for this reason. This is obviously a very stupid idea. If you really like ta that much, you should study hard. Can't you enjoy your love career? I was fortunate to read a teacher's advice to female college students. He said, "If you can't fall in love, please don't fall in love. You must know the truth. After a few years in college, you will break up. Then why should I spend my time in love? " It is not easy for parents to train us. It's not a bad thing for boys to fall in love more, but for girls, if you fall in love more and spend all your experiences in love, you will learn nothing and only make us feel that you are very cheap. This society is equality between men and women and equal exchange of values. When you spend all your time in love, you have to go out for a job interview. Therefore, it is really recommended that you grasp your academic qualifications and improve your professional skills before falling in love. It was not too late then, and there was really no need to fall in love in college. It's a waste of time, youth and energy. The most important thing is that you are sorry for your parents. "It is true that what the teacher said makes sense. Many schools ruin their future because of love, love wholeheartedly, and finally get nothing (of course, it doesn't mean everything). My suggestion is that rational love is easier to harvest.

2. Don't pay unilaterally. Most of the love given unilaterally has no good result, because if it is given unilaterally for a long time, others will take it for granted and regard their own good as a habit. One day, when the other person is tired, everything will come to nothing.

3. Treat rationally and learn to protect yourself. Especially girls, don't put yourself at a disadvantage because you love each other too much. Now he will say "I raised you", and later he will say "I raised you". A word difference, a world of difference. Girls don't give up their bright future for love, and boys don't give up their future for love. Love is only the spice of life, not the whole thing, so there is no harm in meeting and getting used to it, but don't lose yourself.