In "Disqualification in the World", there is this sentence:

"In the so-called human world, the only thing I am willing to accept as truth There is only one sentence: everything will pass."

I like it very much.

The pain will pass

Each of us has to go through some hardships.

But you have to believe that there will be a rainbow after the storm.

Those who cannot defeat you will eventually make you stronger.

There is a line in "Pumping Heart" -

I watched it a few days ago "Actors Please Take Your Place", 44-year-old actor Huang Yi once again entered people's attention.

With her mature acting skills and natural line skills, she successfully won the S card from director Er Dongsheng.

The four words "Huang Yi's acting skills" immediately became a hot search topic on Weibo, and received a lot of praise.

I think she has been waiting for this moment for a long time.

In the past, she was famous and at her peak.

She has created many classic roles. Li Yuhu in "The Wrong Sedan Marry the Right Man" and Xiao Yanzi in "My Fair Princess 3" are both deeply memorable.

But for many people who don’t know her, when they think of her, they think of all black stuff.

She had two failed marriages, and the divorce lawsuit with her second husband Huang Yiqing lasted for six years.

During those six years, the overwhelming negative news had an extremely negative impact on her career.

All her work was forced to stop. Advertisers demanded compensation from her, and her life fell to the bottom.

Huang Yi admitted that during that time, he was extremely panicked, suffered from insomnia and hair loss for a long time.

She was confused and didn’t know how long it had passed until her father came and asked her:

"Huang Yi, do you want to ruin a moment or a lifetime?"

This sentence deeply stimulated her. She looked at the 70-year-old father on the left and the crying child on the right. daughter.

She decided to create a better future for the people she loved, the people who loved her, and herself.

She started a business, but within half a year, she spent all her money and was desperate again.

But she did not give up, but returned to the place where she fell and continued to fight.

After four years, she finally achieved some success.

In recent years, although she has not taken on the role of the female lead, she has secretly worked hard and honed her acting skills in every small role.

In "Actors Please Take Your Place", she said firmly——

I have finished walking through the dangers before, and from today onwards I start walking in the sunshine.

So you see,

All experiences are the best arrangements.

Love is not everything in life, and marriage is not the destiny.

Your destiny is in your own hands, don’t give up no matter what you go through.

Please believe that those obstacles that you think are difficult to overcome will eventually pass.

The suffering will pass

During the National Day, I went back to Wuhan.

When I walked out of the station, looking at the flowers, trees and pedestrians around me, tears immediately filled my eyes.

Many vendors are making fried noodle nests, fried tofu skins, and hot dry noodles. There is a dazzling array of delicious food, and the streets are crowded with people. Everything is full of vitality and vitality.

I know that the city’s fireworks are back again.

But who would have thought that eight months ago, this place would be shrouded in the haze of the epidemic.

The daily rise in COVID-19 infection cases and severe mortality rate are disappointing.

At that time, getting together with good friends, let alone having a meal, even meeting them was a luxury.

For Wuhan and even the whole of China, the days more than eight months ago were an extremely difficult time.

Fortunately, from the cold winter to the golden autumn, we survived all the way——

Many people in Hubei have survived hardships and ushered in happiness.

Wang Zhiqi, a 32-year-old Wuhan native, works as a deputy project manager at China Construction Third Engineering Bureau. He has a two-and-a-half-year-old daughter.

On January 26, the company called to support the construction of Huoshenshan Hospital, and he signed up without hesitation.

During the epidemic, he devoted himself to the frontline work of fighting the epidemic and participated in the construction of Wuhan Huoshenshan Hospital and two makeshift hospitals. Later, he worked non-stop to promote the resumption of work and production.

In December last year, my wife took the child back to her parents’ home in Shangqiu to recuperate due to health reasons.

This separation lasted for 9 months.

On National Day this year, he finally brought his wife and daughter back to Wuhan and reunited the family.

Wang Zhiqi said that he would spend more time with his family in the future and make up for all the time lost before.

I saw a happy smile on Wang Zhiqi’s face, warm and firm.

Fortunately, those nine difficult months have passed.

Fortunately, the despair shrouded in the epidemic has passed.

Fortunately, that bright and warm light has arrived.

Maybe in the past nine months, you have experienced separation, troughs, regrets and despair.

As long as you don’t fall, everything will eventually dawn.

Thousands of words, finally condensed into one sentence:

Those who thought they could not survive it The suffering will pass.

The past does not mean forgetting

Some things will pass, but some people will not Will not forget.

During the National Day, I attended the wedding of my friend Liangliang.

When serving tea to his parents, he and his wife knelt down and handed the tea to their parents.

There is an empty seat in front of where Liangliang is kneeling. We all know that it was reserved for his mother.

With a choked voice, he put the tea on the seat and said loudly:

"Mom, I'm married. , Don’t worry, I will live a good life.”

I still remember that on October 1, two years ago, he posted on Moments. The sad content of the article - the wedding originally planned for October 7 was canceled due to the death of my mother.

Liangliang’s mother died unexpectedly, a week before his upcoming wedding.

During that time, he went from great joy to great sadness, and his mood almost collapsed.

The mother was busy preparing everything for the wedding. She said that the happiest thing in her life was watching her son get married and start a family.

Unfortunately, this has become a lifelong regret that my mother has not been able to complete.

This regret has also become Liangliang’s regret.

During that time, Liangliang felt regretful all day long.

As long as he thought that his mother was still quarreling with him on the day of her death, he hated his ignorance extremely.

He couldn't figure out why fate was so unfair?

He often locked himself in his room, had no intention of working, and had no contact with the outside world. He could not forgive himself.

Until one day, he cried himself to sleep and dreamed of his mother——

His mother looked at him with a smile, cooked a table of food, and said that she was going on a trip and asked him to take care of himself.

He began to try to let go of those obsessions and learn to reconcile with himself.

He began to work hard, live a good life, and cherish the time with the people around him.

He slowly changed and it took him nearly two years to gradually let go.

Finally, those days of inner suffering passed, and everything slowly became calmer.

Those things in the past will eventually be let go.

Letting go does not mean forgetting, but letting go means obsession.

What cannot be forgotten is that person or time with special meaning.

Good things and bad things will eventually become things of the past

Share a short story:

The yard is full of flowers, but when winter comes, they all wither.

The young apprentice saw the master cleaning up the fallen flowers and asked sadly: "Master, aren't you sad?"

The master said calmly: "I already shed tears for it yesterday."

Spring has arrived, and the courtyard is full of flowers and hundreds of flowers are blooming.

Seeing that the master was indifferent again, the young apprentice was very confused: "Master, don't you like flowers? The flowers in the courtyard are all blooming, why don't you see me? How happy are you?"

Master smiled and said: "I was already happy for it yesterday."

Flower. There is no joy in blooming, and there is no worry in the fall of flowers.

Accept the arrangements of life calmly, do not indulge in pain, learn to let go, and look down upon everything.

Love and hate are all experiences; good and bad things will eventually become things of the past.

The suffering before you will pass.