What is a heartbeat? In my opinion, heartache is almost the same as love at first sight, because heartache means that a person's heart beats faster at the moment he meets another person, and somehow there is an inexplicable heartbeat; And love at first sight is also a kind of inexplicable love at first sight, and there will definitely be a heartbeat.

so do you have to feel heartbroken when you fall in love? In my opinion, the heart-pounding feelings are not as real and secure as the feelings that have been born for a long time.

My ex-girlfriend and I fell in love at first sight. The first time I met her, my heart was pounding. At that time, I felt my heart was about to jump out and I was flushed and at a loss. Up to now, I still remember the corridor where I met her. The two of us looked at each other with four eyes, and there was a feeling of ecstasy, as if we suddenly jumped into the picture from reality. She and I no longer belonged to the real world, but were in a picture space outside a multi-dimensional space. How I wanted that moment to be fixed forever!

Soon after, we were together because of mutual affection. I thought that the feeling of love at first sight and heartache would keep us together for a long time, long enough to resist the coming of the end of the world. But it wasn't long before I found out that the so-called heartbeat was just a short-term sexual hormone. After that place and time, it was impossible to find the original feeling.

So we became calm soon after we got together, and the two sides no longer felt like meeting for the first time. For two months at most, love at first sight between us came to an end, and the silent ending brought me deep reflection: the original heartache does not mean that you must fall in love, and it is likely that you will not feel that way after falling in love, and the original heartache will probably be found to be just a hormonal contest in the days when you get along with each other.

Compared with this experience of mine, I have a high school best friend who seems to be very successful in love. He and his girlfriend have known each other since junior high school, and they have always been good friends. In high school, in order to continue to be classmates with girls, my buddy did not hesitate to use his family connections, and finally got his wish. After high school, my buddy felt that the time was ripe, and the two of them had experienced many ups and downs together, so he confessed to the girl. By now, their children will call me uncle.

So now my view on love is: falling in love doesn't have to be heart-pounding, even the feeling of heart-pounding is not suitable for falling in love, because it comes and goes quickly, or the feelings after getting along for a long time can stand the test more!