First, don't set too high performance requirements for children. Many parents want their children to get ahead, get a high score, then go to a good university and have a stable job, so that they can live up to their efforts and feel that there is a way out. So parents ask their children to study hard every day, give them remedial classes, ask them to take many art classes, and ask them to get full marks as much as possible. Therefore, many children are depressed and feel that they have not done well in the exam and are ashamed of their parents. But I really don't have the ability to get high marks, so I am under great psychological pressure and simply don't study.
The second is to take children to travel. Many parents are too busy to play with their children. Moreover, even if these parents are aware of this problem, they are still unwilling to change. They feel that they are paying for their families and how to raise their children without money. This makes sense, but it does affect children's lives. They also think that parents only care about money and grades, but not their emotions. Children can only live a depressed life. They were unhappy at school and at home, so they finally got tired of learning. Faced with this situation, parents can spend more time with their children, observe their emotions, take them to play, go to the mall to let them enjoy food, or take them close to nature to relax their mood.