Editor’s note: #birthstory# comes from #我Caesarean section diary# shared by @M_onroe__. I always wanted to have a natural birth, but finally had a caesarean section. The birth record of the little fat baby born in the Zodiac sign at 40 weeks and 1 day, eight Jin, the discharge summary said "macrosomia", which is a bit exaggerated [show hands]

I have nothing to do, and my confinement sister-in-law helps to take care of the baby, so I can record my cesarean section diary!

The expected date of delivery was October 12, and there was no sign of the attack until the day of the expected delivery, and then she was hospitalized decisively to wait for delivery. The doctor asked me to do an ultrasound on the morning of the 13th to check the condition of the fetus. But you have to know that you have to queue up at 3 a.m. for a B-ultrasound, and then your mother-in-law decisively queues up in the dark. After the B-ultrasound, the doctor said that the baby's belly is a bit big and there is probably a lot of fat on the body, so he carefully considered the method of delivery and suggested a cesarean section! WTF?! I always wanted to go smoothly and insisted on going to work until one week before the due date. I'm on maternity leave. I either walk for more than half an hour or do yoga every day. I start taking two packs of raspberry tea every day at 36 weeks. Now I want to have a cesarean section?

But then she said: If the fetal abdominal circumference is 35, you can try it. , your child is now 38.5, and weighs an estimated 8 pounds. Your cervix has not shortened, your cervix is ??not dilated, your pelvis is relatively narrow, your cervix is ??relatively soft, and your vaginal delivery score is relatively low. If you just want everything to go smoothly, you may have shoulder dystocia, which is the head. It came out, but if the shoulder cannot come out, there will be risks!!!

I was shocked at that time!! 8 pounds! 8 pounds! Are you really kidding? Then give up immediately, then Let’s do an operation! So I hurriedly arranged the operation on the afternoon of the 13th! As a Virgo, I don’t want to have a wound on my stomach, but who makes me timid? I can’t bear the doctor sister to scare me, so as not to hurt me. I have to have a caesarean section, but I am worried that the baby will have some condition when the time comes. Safety must come first. If it is not perfect, it is not perfect!

Someone came from the operating room to transport me away at 3:30 in the afternoon, and then I lay down alone in the waiting area and watched an episode of the Journey to the West cartoon. After watching it, I asked the doctor outside when he would send me in. The doctor said that you can go in after the mother is out. Then I waited for almost an hour. I didn’t understand why I was sent in so early! At nearly 4:30, I was finally sent in. I lay down and moved to the operating bed. The nurse sister praised me for being a flexible pregnant woman. .

Next comes the anesthesia. Here I really want to complain about the intern girl who gave me the anesthesia. After a long time of injecting, the injection was not accurate, and they said that there was too much flesh on my back and I could not aim accurately. The anesthesiologist next to me was extremely anxious and kept saying that your technique was wrong. Did you really not consider my feelings? I really feel like I’m at the mercy of others! Then I couldn't bear it and told the anesthesiologist that you had planned it for me, but the doctor disgusted me and told me to stop talking and that I would be fine soon! Do you know how much you suffer from having a big belly bent like a shrimp for 20 minutes?

At 16:45, I saw from the glass of the cabinet next to me that my belly was turned into a lump by the iodophorus. Egg, then the nurse sister called the obstetrics department and asked them to come down and pick up the baby. WTF! Before it even started, I asked someone else to pick me up. It was like fun! Then my Virgo disease came over. In order to prevent them from opening my incision too big and sewing it up unsightly, I asked: Who can give me this? An autopsy? A female doctor who looked more professional said: I, what’s wrong? I said: Can you make the opening smaller for me? I also want to wear a bikini. When I sew, the stitches will look better. I am a Virgo!

Then all the sisters and brothers in the operating room laughed, and the female doctor said: OK, no problem! In the end, she really prescribed too small a prescription for me, and I also suffered because of too small a prescription. !

At 16:50, I felt that my stomach was being cut open layer by layer. The doctor asked me if I had the habit of exercising? I said, she said you don’t have any fat layer, it’s all muscle. ! The anesthesiologist said in my head that it must be, her oxygen tolerance is very high and she is in good health! I said what oxygen tolerance is, but he probably didn't bother to explain to me and said it was nothing! Then I guessed that the baby's head was coming out. They started shaking me violently and pulling on my belly. A thin doctor jumped up and pressed my belly. So later my mother said that the thumb-like bruise next to my incision was probably caused by her. Then the two doctors started to complain about me: Your child is so big, and you still ask us to make a small incision for you? I said how do I know? How big is it?

It was taken out of my belly exactly on time at 17:00. It should have been squeezed out, ending the days of being integrated with me!

When the doctor took me out, the doctor on my head sighed: Oh my god, what a fat son! Then I said disappointedly, it’s a son? The doctor said the son is not good? I said it’s a lot of pressure and I want a girl~ Then my fat son was carried to a bed next to me and started sucking amniotic fluid, playing the soles of his feet to make him cry. . He cried unceremoniously and even pooped on someone else's bed for the first time in his life... Haha, the child's birth picture was really ugly! It was just a red and purple ball of flesh!

The nurse aunt wrapped it up in a few strokes. After he came out, I watched him the whole time, so I didn’t feel much pressure on my stomach or anything else.

Before Manman was taken out, the nurse came over and touched my face. Oh my god, my face was covered in rashes, probably because my mother had eaten crabs several times in the past few days. I'm really sorry for you, causing you to stay in the neonatology department for a few days~

Manman was taken to the obstetrics ward for a bath, and I was still lying in the operating room waiting for the doctor to slowly stitch me up. , I thought to hurry up! I wanted to go out to see my child as soon as possible, so I urged the doctor several times. After I urged him several times, the little doctor became impatient and said, "You said you wanted to sew it up to look good, but you urged me again. Don't say anything. I'll sew it up quickly for you." One o'clock, please hurry up and go back to see the child! Then I shut up...

I was finally pushed out of the operating room at 18:00. My family was waiting for me outside, and my mother ran away Come over and tell me, I’m quite fat, 8 pounds, but luckily I’m not in trouble! I’m serious, it’s really that heavy, 8 pounds is too scary! Anesthesia will make you tremble non-stop. In fact, when I was doing the final stitches, I already had sensation in my right leg, and I could feel the needles being stitched, but I didn't ask the doctor to increase the dosage for fear of harming my nerves. Including the subsequent painkiller sticks, I didn’t increase the dose when the pain started.

After returning to the ward, I started lying on my back for 8 hours. I had a great time chatting with my family the whole time. The patient next door came to see me and asked me why you are in such good spirits. Does it hurt? In fact, you are really fine. , I think it’s always the kind of pain that my aunt feels, and it’s an acceptable pain. After 8 hours, the confinement nanny said that I could turn over, so I turned sideways and tried to breastfeed. The wound hurt, but it was okay. Breastfeeding brings so much happiness that you can ignore the pain!

At 14:00 the next day, the nurse sister came to pull out the urinary catheter, took away the painkiller, and asked me to get out of bed and use the bathroom in 2 to 4 hours. So I got out of bed impatiently. To be honest, apart from the pain when getting in and out of bed, walking was actually fine. The best thing was that I felt relieved the moment I peed on the toilet [laughing][laughing][laughing] Then I got out of bed for the second time and went to the scale. I was 70kg during the pregnancy and had gained 30kg in total. On the second day after delivery, I weighed 62.8kg. I thought I would lose 20kg, but I was overthinking it! This is the day that hurts the most, and every day I wake up I feel better.

The most painful thing for me was when the doctor came and pressed my stomach to check the recovery of the uterus. As a person who is not afraid of pain, I felt the pain was as high as heaven. I was pressed twice on the night of the surgery and once on the second day. On the third day when the doctor checked the ward, I sat directly. They asked me to lie on the bed. I refused directly: I don’t want to be pressed on my stomach! The doctor said he understood and left. Oh, hahahahaha, it really hurts!

I was hospitalized for 6 days, expected to give birth on the 12th, had surgery on the 13th, and was discharged from the hospital on the 18th. Facts have proved that cesarean section is not that scary, and I must get out of bed and walk more. I recovered quickly with more exercise, so many patients thought I had a natural birth. The more you fear pain, the less immobile you are, and the slower your recovery will be, so be sure to move more!

Colostrum must be given to the child, and if it is not available, the child should suck it!!! But having said that, it is better to have it go smoothly!!! Exercise before pregnancy, during pregnancy and after delivery! I am now on my 12th postpartum period. Oh my god, I don’t have a weight scale, but my belly is much flatter than it was just after giving birth. The person who came to take photos yesterday thought I had a natural delivery and said I recovered quickly!

I have self-tested that the rectus abdominis is separated by one and a half fingers. I am using abdominal breathing to improve it. I will try to see if it helps. I will increase the amount of exercise after the confinement period.

Well, that’s the whole process! I hope it can give some encouragement to pregnant mothers~ #清风计划Theme Health Week is launched, participate in the essay competition to win a thousand yuan prize# #呩 Zero Zero Plan# #Marriage Cultivation Guide#

Review of past issues

Natural delivery diary 97: The whole delivery process is very painful! But I feel very happy when I see the baby

Caesarean section diary 35: Internal examination cannot enter the basin. It is very difficult for the baby to enter the basin with a small head, okay?