However, the hospital is not something you can never go to if you don't want to. I remember the first time I went to a big hospital, three years ago, because my heart rate was too fast, I was insomnia and thin, so I felt I needed a check-up. At that time, I went to the Provincial Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine and hung up the number of "Chief Physician". As soon as I sat down, the doctor asked me what was wrong. After I briefly described the symptoms, he "looked and asked" and decisively said that I was hyperthyroidism. Then, he ordered me to draw blood, and I'll call him when the results come out. I didn't ask much, just said "yes" a few times and went out.
I got the results and showed them to him. He also told me casually that it was hyperthyroidism, and it was very serious. This disease needs two years of medication. Then, he printed the medication information on the medical record and told me to take medicine on time and in quantity, not to eat seafood, but to eat non-iodized salt; He also wrote me a proof of non-iodized salt's purchase demand with the official seal of the hospital, telling me where to buy it.
Because hyperthyroidism is a chronic disease and needs regular follow-up, I go to the hospital more and more times. Every time I go to see him for a follow-up visit, the door of the clinic is almost crowded. Doctors have to see so many patients a day. I think as a cultivated patient, they should not waste too much time, so I will be brief every time I see a doctor. I believe in the medical ethics and level of the doctors I see.
Later, when I made more contacts, he remembered me. After several visits, he expressed surprise: "Little X, why are you here again?"? What's wrong with you? " Probably because I saw a cold, gastroenteritis and backache in several follow-up visits, he thought I was ill again.
There is another thing that makes me sit up and take notice of doctors. That is, one morning, I went for a follow-up visit as usual. When I was waiting in line, several old people cut in line to watch first. When it was my turn, the doctor apologized to me: "Sorry, someone just cut in line, it's hard to get rid of it!" " "I quickly replied with a smile," it doesn't matter ... I'm not in a hurry, I'm not in a hurry! "
Doctors in big hospitals are too busy to face all kinds of patients and cope with all kinds of situations every day. Where is it so easy to laugh? You know, if they often joke, it means that they often talk nonsense to patients, and the patients behind them have to wait longer. So in order to save time, just finish what you should say. Smile service can't cure the disease.
Doctors always do. Ten years ago, I went to see a doctor in Zhongshan No.1 Hospital in Guangzhou. Before that, I was optimistic about stubborn rhinitis for two years through the introduction of others. I really recovered after a night, and then I went to see gastritis. This time, I praised the experts, but this time, I was disappointed in the two female experts. As soon as I went in and sat down, the first thing she said was, "You came to see a doctor so young?"
Although this is not a big deal, in fact, the attitude of many doctors is really not so good. There have been many medical incidents and major events in recent years, but in fact, we can't completely blame those people, because in the past, only doctors really had the final say. Yes, we don't know how to treat patients, but just because we don't understand, we want reasonable explanations and reasons, but they just say, "What do you know, are you a doctor or am I a doctor now?" Others are more serious, which can explain why the relevant departments later stipulated that doctors must treat one patient every ten minutes.
Hospitals are profit-making organizations. To put it bluntly, the patient is your god, so sometimes you have to explain what the patient doesn't understand. This is not the attitude of the emperor and Laozi. This will intensify contradictions and trigger some violent incidents. Of course, most medical troubles are unreasonable, and we have to deal with those unreasonable people.
Some people have commented that students are also teachers' gods before. Wrong. In private schools, the teacher is the god of the principal. In public schools, teachers are the god of principals. If you want grades, you have to rely on teachers, but they just pretend to be emperors and force teachers to do this and that.
Doctor: I have contact with many classmates, friends and relatives. Many doctors usually fall into the crowd like everyone else, but I didn't know how cold surgeons and anesthesiologists were until my wife gave birth to a baby. My wife needs a caesarean section. The anesthesiologist is my classmate and comrade in arms. Usually, he is a good man. I went to see the amiable aunt in obstetrics and gynecology when she suggested that my wife needed a caesarean section. He only said two. I then asked him, and he said that I would go to the hospital at eight o'clock tomorrow morning to make preoperative preparations. His son and I are classmates. My name is uncle. He usually asks an elder a question when he sees me. Without even looking at me, he asks the nurse to push my wife away. They made me so anxious that my wife and children came back safely soon.
Last year, my father kidney calculi had an operation, and I stayed in the hospital for 15 days. Let me talk about my own experience.
Surgery, or on duty, may not be idle all night. A slightly better hospital is comparable to a vegetable market, and there will never be a shortage of food. They receive a large number of patients every day and deal with a lot of problems, which ensures that they don't pull their faces very well.
For example, the doctor said that smoking and eating too much sugar were not allowed during hospitalization, but some of them were really uncontrollable, and the doctor was helpless when he found that he had seen too much. Doctors are also habitually urging and urging, and they can't laugh.
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Some patients, or their families, may be out of caution, or they don't remember. It is always the doctor who has just finished talking about usage and dosage. In less than five minutes, the patient came back to ask questions, which increased the doctor's labor cost and consumed part of the doctor's energy, but he couldn't laugh.
A cold face, obviously arrogant. If some patients have a bad attitude when they meet, they will point the finger at wheat, which will easily cause unnecessary trouble and give each other a look.
We don't judge who is right or wrong. These incidents themselves make some doctors feel that no matter how hard and tired they are, they will not get the rewards they deserve. Let's work in an orderly way. There must be nothing wrong with this.
In fact, I feel that doctors are saving lives, not smiling. Their medical skills are not good, their smiles are particularly bright, and their attitude towards you is particularly good. What's the use?
As long as the disease is cured, don't take their attitude too seriously. Understand each other.
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I am a doctor, and I have seen a doctor myself as a patient. I want to be happy when I go to work alone, but if a patient comes, I will chat at home. It is estimated that the patients waiting behind will be mad, so when there are many people, I really can only be as brief as possible. If you come when no one is in the room, I still want to talk to you.
When my child is ill, I often go to children's hospital. At this time, the old director's number hung up, and a room full of people were like sardines. Several children are crying, and no one is allowed to go out. What a mess. Although the old director is 70 years old and it is cold, I really admire him. If you smile again in this environment, you have to bring a big speaker, otherwise you will be exhausted and the patient will not hear you.
Of course, some doctors may have a cold temper, but they just don't like to laugh. We have a famous knife in surgery, and our colleagues haven't seen him smile at anyone for many years. According to the small resident doctor who set up surgery in their department, during the operation, people are usually cold and taciturn, but there is nothing they can do. People's skills are leverage, so it is estimated that they have spent all their efforts on learning technology!
In fact, there are still many places where doctors smile, such as many high-end private hospitals. As soon as she entered the door, there was a beautiful lady who was caring and attentive, served tea and water, and arranged for a special doctor. It can never be finished in three minutes, as long as you pay for it and serve you specially, let alone two or 24 hours!
Why are doctors in big hospitals so cold?
In fact, whether it is a big hospital or a small hospital, the service attitude of doctors is much better.
As before, I took my parents-in-law to the downtown hospital to see a doctor, and I felt that the doctors there had a good service attitude.
But do you think you will meet an ice-cold doctor? I'm sure it will.
There are many reasons, the most common of which are as follows.
Number one: Busy. Now the city hospital of traditional Chinese medicine has implemented registration, which is not bad. For example, in the emergency department of our county-level hospital, almost every doctor has to see about 1 10 patients within 8 hours every day, and he has to see a patient every 4 minutes on average, including making a checklist. You can imagine a patient coming in, and then you have to ask about his medical history, physical examination, think about his condition, make a differential diagnosis, and then do what examination and what medicine to use. All this takes only 4 minutes. If you don't speak well, you can't do it without proficiency. You have no time to think whether you are laughing or crying.
Moreover, the emergency department here is not registered, and there will be people waiting in line to see it, especially at night. The queue in front of the internal medicine clinic will not be shortened. If you look at one, there will be people waiting in line.
If you encounter an incurable disease, you need a consultation. If it takes more than 20 minutes, the people in the queue at the back will be noisy.
Some people say that since there are so many clinics, why not arrange one more doctor? In fact, there are usually six doctors in the emergency room at night, three in the middle of the night and three in the middle of the night.
Group of three, one clinic, one emergency, one get off. At most, you can take a look if the car doesn't leave, but almost all of them are on the way out.
If you are really too busy, call another group to help. But this situation is generally not suitable for outpatient service, but because of rescue.
There was once a doctor who saw 180 patients in eight hours ... it was terrible to think about it.
Second, I've seen too much. Maybe you think it's serious, but it's really a minor problem in the eyes of doctors. For example, two days ago, a patient with cervical cancer suddenly suffered from cervical cancer bleeding. Because the patient's bedsheet was covered with a rubber pad, the bleeding spread to the four sides of the whole bedsheet, and the amount of bleeding may be less than 100ml. However, a pool of blood on the sheets scared the family to call for help, and another woman fainted on the spot. As soon as the hemostatic needle was put on, the bleeding stopped. If the bleeding doesn't stop, we'll stop it. The patient stopped bleeding quickly, but the family members took a long time to wake up.
Third, no matter what industry, there are some bad service attitudes.
In a word, the service attitude of doctors and nurses is much better now than before.
You let doctors in big hospitals see a doctor with a smile. No Big hospitals accept doctors, and when they are busy, they are even nervous about drinking water and urinating. Basically, watch one every two or three minutes and listen to you. People are busy picking up test papers and then' next'. I once went to the emergency department because of abdominal pain. I went, and the doctor immediately prescribed two tests, and then I was busy drawing blood and waiting for the test results. Go back to the clinic with the test paper. The doctor will brush it and pay for the medicine and go home. There is almost no communication between doctors and patients. No wonder the doctor can walk in without asking, indicating that the condition is not serious. It's no use asking. Hospitals don't need to greet each other with smiles. This state is normal.
Doctors in big hospitals talk coldly? That's not necessarily true, is it Doctors can not only laugh, but also praise people. There is nothing wrong with my body. Usually cough and itchy throat. I'll ask you to examine the lungs and heart vessels carefully and have a blood test. Inflammatory leukocytes will increase. Once I told the doctor that the white blood cell count was120,000, and the doctor said with a smile that120,000 was leukemia, and1.20,000 was leukemia. Normal maximum is 9000. Another time, the doctor said inflammation. I heard it was cancer (inflammation). I said cancer was terrible, and the doctor said bronchitis with a smile! He also said that a man in his fifties had cancer, so he had to check it himself before. Another time was even more interesting, and the examination and diagnosis were all finished. The doctor also gave me a medical record and a receipt for the medical expenses. I was about to turn away when the doctor suddenly asked how old you were. I said I was sixty, and the doctor said I was fine. This sentence looks good and makes me nervous. Is it good health or good image?
The profession of doctor is very special and important, which can be regarded as a special service industry. But hospitals are not service enterprises such as restaurants, hotels and airlines. How can they have the mood and time to serve you with a smile, just to take care of your illness? What are you being hypocritical about?
I used to think that the doctor's expression was cold and impersonal, but I don't think so since I stayed with my father in the hospital for several months and had more contact with the doctor. What I saw in the hospital was that doctors were busy almost all day, even from morning to noon, and some doctors didn't even have lunch until one or two or even two or three. In the morning and in the morning, especially in the morning, the doctor almost trotted all the way, feeling like a war.
My father's attending doctor is the deputy chief physician, very young, and there are many patients in their department. Every morning, we should prescribe medicine for the patients in charge, write medical records, make rounds and go out to the clinic. I am so busy that I have little free time. Every time there is a problem, it depends on whether she is busy or not. I go to her when I'm writing a medical record or when there are no patients. I don't know how many patients she sees, how many cases she writes and how many drugs she prescribes every day. Anyway, I seldom see her when she is free. This kind of workload has long been unbearable for ordinary people. Questioners also hope that people with this kind of work intensity will smile at you and answer your various questions in detail. Your demands are too high. It is suitable for you to go to a private hospital and find a doctor who only sees a few patients every day. Not suitable for public hospitals.
Doctors are used to life and death, and all kinds of diseases are not a big deal for others. How many diseases can ordinary people get in their life? Diseases are important to you, but doctors are exposed to them every day. You also want people to sympathize with you and value you. You are not a relative or a friend. Do you think it's possible?
There are about 4.5 million doctors in China, and there is a serious shortage of high-level doctors, and most of them are concentrated in big hospitals like 3A hospitals. Every doctor treats a large number of patients every day. If a patient has been watching for half an hour or more, how many patients can be treated every day, how to improve the efficiency and make the questioner wait outside the clinic for a few hours, will you scold the mother? Doctors will have a basic judgment after understanding the condition. If you go for an examination, you will be further diagnosed. After the diagnosis, the treatment plan may be formatted, or it may be adjusted according to the patient's physical condition. I don't know the details, but in the clinic, there is so much time. You ask too many questions. What about the other patients? Doctors not only serve you. Of course, it is not excluded that individual doctors deliberately let you do some unnecessary tests or even prescribe drugs for economic benefits, but most doctors are good. As a doctor, try not to keep a straight face and answer as many questions as possible from patients and their families if you have time.
Doctors and patients should be considerate of each other. If patients and their families are too fragile, they should go to an expert to see a doctor. This kind of expert number should take a long time to see a doctor and ask questions in detail, but it is difficult to find the first one.
Because doctors are not waiters, they save lives.
I hope all the doctors I met in the hospital are gentle, firm, serious and professional. I don't need them to laugh. I don't like that hospitals are service industries, because services cost money. I have also been to some private hospitals, which are pure services. It can be said that from the moment you walked in the door, you were like God, and someone helped you with a smile. After you emptied all the money in your pocket and didn't get cured, people smiled and told you that there was a good maintenance plan that was more suitable for you. Really, there is nothing wrong with that kind of service, that is, all kinds of all-round services. Maybe you don't believe it, you can even pay back the money.
When you go to a public hospital, there are as many people as fighting. You can only talk to the doctor for two minutes a day in line. After staying in the hospital for a few days, I wanted to kick you out and said I could go home and rest. There are not enough beds.
Although I feel very tired, I still want to go to the latter hospital.