February 2014 “Good People from Hubei” deeds in Wuhan City
Published on: 2014-04-29 16:22 Source: Hubei Civilization Network
Wheelchair The brilliant "starlight" in the sky - Cao Yigang
He was paralyzed due to cerebral palsy when he was 8 months old, and has been in a wheelchair since then; although he is severely disabled and has a difficult family, he saves food Jian Yong donated the money he saved; he is Cao Yigang, the founder of "Wuhan Starlight Hotline Service Center". Fate dealt him a heavy blow, but he used his unyielding will and selfless spirit to compose a splendid chapter of life in his wheelchair, allowing us to see the brilliant "starlight" in his wheelchair.
In 2000, Cao Yigang founded the "Wuhan Starlight Hotline Service Center" and opened three hotlines for free psychological consultation, career introduction, and matchmaking. Over the past few years, he has provided psychological counseling to more than 1,000 disabled friends, guided and persuaded the seekers with his own personal experience, helped more than 100 disabled people find jobs, and helped more than 200 disabled people find free connections. , more than 50 couples have been married so far.
He was enthusiastic and organized many disabled friends to go out to relax and hold blind parties to solve their practical difficulties. Therefore, he was affectionately called "Brother Cao" by his disabled friends. According to incomplete statistics, his various donations have reached more than 10,000 yuan.
In 2000, by chance, he read the bitter story of Sichuan woman Zhou Renju in the newspaper and donated 1,500 yuan to help her treat her illness. The other party only accepted 500 yuan, so Cao Yigang donated the returned 1,000 yuan to the hospital to build a bone marrow bank. After the news of the two donations was published in the newspaper, it caused a huge response, and people from all walks of life donated money to Zhou Renju and the bone marrow bank.
In 2008, during the Wenchuan earthquake, Cao Yigang, five disabled persons, Lin Houkai, Huang Chengmin, Wan Yi, and volunteer Zhang Chengzhi, gave the 2,500 yuan they had saved through frugal living to the disabled in Hanyang District. We contacted Director Hu Mingzhong and asked him to deliver it to the hardest-hit areas such as Wenchuan and Beichuan in Sichuan to express the love of disabled friends.
Cao Yigang said: "Because I am disabled, I can deeply understand the difficulties and feelings of disabled people. I hope to use my disabled body to help my friends with the same disability and other people in need as much as possible." People, let them face life stronger." He bit his chopsticks and typed on the keyboard for a while, tabulating, filling in words, printing... When the paper exuding the fragrance of ink was spit out from the printer, Cao Yigang's A deal is done. Now he chews the receiver every day, answers the hotline, bites the chopsticks in his spare time to type and make copies to earn a meager fee to survive, but he is still optimistic about continuing his path to stardom. "Three other friends and I are also planning to donate our bodies for medical treatment. Although I am a disabled person, one cannot come to this world in vain. One should always do something for society. Only that kind of life is meaningful. Besides, abandonment Everything can be reused, let alone people?”
Spring breeze turns into rain and creates happiness as the cornerstone of harmony - Lan Yuyun
Lan Yuyun, female, 75 years old, 45 Retired middle school teacher, lives at No. 67 Wenming Road, Wuchang District, Wuhan City. She has been engaged in education and trade union work all her life, and has provided a large number of outstanding talents to the country. She has three children who are now working as doctors, general managers, and senior teachers in the United Kingdom, the United States, and China. Her students are all over the country, some are teachers, and some are teachers. Doctors and some are business elites. For more than 50 years, she has volunteered to guide people and build a magpie bridge, helping men and women find their spouses in the vast sea of ??people. She has achieved remarkable results. So far, 600 couples of men and women have entered the marriage hall, and another 360 couples of men and women are in love. . She was rated as the number one "Super Matchmaker" in Wuhan City, "Top Ten Good Mothers in Jiangcheng", "Top Ten People Who Moved Hubei", "Model of Civilized Families in Hubei Province", and "Model Household of National Civilized Families".
Teacher Lan often said: Family is the cell of society. It is very beautiful and sweet to see a couple of men and women meet, know each other, fall in love, and then walk into the wedding hall together to get a lifetime of happiness. From a small point of view, it brings them together. From a big point of view, it means that we have done something useful for society. We live a worry-free life and our children have grown up. Contributing to the happiness of others can be regarded as a source of support in old age. , I will always stick to this kind of thing, and strive to successfully introduce 1,000 or more pairs of people to hold hands and enter the palace of marriage. There is an endless stream of men and women who come to her to find friends every day. There are often 5 people going out and 10 people coming in. They have to queue up to register. At the peak time, there are people coming from morning to night, from 7 am to 22 pm. There are always people visiting and she has to work 18 hours a day. She never gets bored and works hard without complaining. She doesn't charge a penny and only hopes to "create" more happy love. She classifies their information and registers it one by one to match the suitable ones. She said, "When I see a couple introduced by us from strangers to acquaintances, from falling in love to getting married, I feel like Indescribable sense of accomplishment and happiness. In order for more people to have beautiful love, she will keep working hard and strive to successfully introduce 500 pairs, 1,000 pairs..."
She and her husband support each other through thick and thin. and***. During the Cultural Revolution, her husband was politically persecuted and persuaded her to divorce, but she flatly refused. When her husband was seriously ill, she personally did the nursing work and took good care of him, so that he quickly defeated the disease, and his wife was very touched.
She cares about the healthy growth of the next generation and works tirelessly for her children's schooling, family education, and improving student performance. Her family atmosphere is very harmonious. She often holds family concerts, sings popular and classic songs, dances folk dances, and practices Tai Chi. She has won several awards in literary and artistic competitions such as Jiajia Le held on provincial and municipal TV stations. She is enthusiastic about charity and contributes voluntarily. In the community's cultural activities for the elderly, she wrote and performed a number of literary and artistic programs. She planned every performance. The more than two-hour program included everything from organization and arrangement, program creation, directing, to the production of specific costumes and props, photocopying of materials, sound coordination, reception work, etc. She participates enthusiastically and contributes selflessly. The community won the Style Award in the "Song of Shouyi" competition in Wuchang District, and won the second prize in the Provincial Group Art Center Middle-aged and Elderly Karaoke Song Competition the year before last. The programs she coached won first prizes at the city and district level. Second Prize. She never collects remuneration for organizing the unit's program performances. Sometimes when the unit has financial difficulties, she takes the initiative to pay. In order to make the event smooth and successful, she sometimes contributes hundreds of yuan to the event.
She is an excellent mediator in the Huadi community. In the past two years, No. 45 High School decided to separate the family area from the school, which was met with strong protest and resistance from the family area. She did a lot of ideological work. No matter day or night, she took the initiative to publicize policies, upload and distribute ideas, communicate ideas, and discourage bad behaviors. Ultimately, she satisfied the families and the school successfully completed its tasks. She conscientiously resolved issues of concern to family members in a timely manner, made many suggestions for the dormitory of No. 45 Middle School, praised good people and good deeds in a timely manner, and provided timely reminders of safety and weather information. Under her management, the dormitory of No. 45 Middle School has been rated as one of the top five good families for many times, and her family has been rated as one of the five best families, which was broadcast on the radio. citizens". She often said: Everything I do is the obligation of every citizen in society to create a civilized city. Many ordinary citizens like me silently carry out their duties, actively participate in activities to create a civilized city, and strive to practice the basic ethics of citizens of "being polite and honest, united and friendly, diligent, thrifty, self-reliant, and dedicated."
A son-in-law in his 70s has taken good care of his paralyzed mother-in-law in his 90s for 20 years - Qiu Changping
“Everyone in our community knows about this good son-in-law. He is as filial to his mother-in-law as his own mother. , Even if Mrs. Xu has her own son, she may not take better care of him than him." Mentioning Qiu Changping, the head of the family, Han Shizhen, couldn't help but give a thumbs up. For twenty years, Qiu Changping insisted on taking care of his mother-in-law every day. Seeing how considerate his son-in-law was, neighbors often came to visit the old man. Some even helped the old man get a haircut, and some chatted with the old man. "Everyone said that this is a rare and good son-in-law. Having such a good son-in-law to take care of us makes us middle-aged and elderly people very envious."
Good son-in-law Qiu Changping: Being able to take care of the elderly is a gift. A Kind of Happiness
A couple who were over seventy years old, No. 401, Gate 3, Building A, Dongting Community, struggled to help an octogenarian old lady into a wheelchair. The wife was busy combing the old lady's hair, while the husband put on the old lady's shoes. The couple is Qiu Changping and Hu Aizhen, and the old lady in the wheelchair is Qiu Changping's mother-in-law Xu Jingxiu. To outsiders, this is a warm scene, but to Qiu Changping and Hu Aizhen, it is an ordinary part of life that they carry out every day.
The old man is willing to live with us. He thinks highly of us and should feel happy!" Qiu Changping smiled. Twenty years ago, he and his wife took over the responsibility of taking care of his mother-in-law, and they were twenty years old. In the first few days, Qiu Changping and his wife felt that it was good to take care of the elderly. After a few days, the couple felt exhausted. However, they encouraged and supported each other. Finally, the burden of taking care of the elderly was taken over.
The son-in-law took care of the laundry.
When Xu Jingxiu opened the door, he saw a small living room. There is a round dining table in the living room. This house of only 60 to 70 square meters is kept spotless. Even the cooking utensils in the kitchen are polished. The 93-year-old Xu Jingxiu has weak legs and feet due to a stroke. He has been ill for more than 20 years and cannot take care of himself. The old man's bedroom is not only airy and bright, but the bed is also spotlessly clean. The old man Xu Jingxiu is sitting in a wheelchair and wearing a light pink coat. He looks very energetic and points to Qiu Changping. "This is all due to my good son-in-law, who keeps the house clean. "The old man told us that in addition to cleaning the house every day, his son-in-law also washes his own clothes and diapers. "Actually, I really don't want him to wash it for me. For a big man, he insists on washing it for me. , is really more considerate than my daughter. "
When he heard his mother-in-law constantly praising him, Qiu Changping on the side became embarrassed, rubbed his hands and smiled naively. The 72-year-old Qiu Changping looked very simple in his clothes. His hair is now completely white. Qiu Changping was a retired employee of a Wuhan watch factory. After his retirement, his mother-in-law's health became worse and worse. He put all his energy into taking care of her. "My stomach is not good. Well, my son-in-law often makes millet porridge for me. Before cooking, he always asks me what flavor I want to eat. He peels at least one apple for me every day. When I have bad teeth, he digs it out with a spoon and feeds it to me. "Speaking of this, the old man's eyes couldn't help but turn red. Regarding his son-in-law Qiu Changping, the 93-year-old Xu Jingxiu said this.
The old man didn’t dare to drink more water and he was anxious
“In the past, in order to avoid causing trouble to my son-in-law and daughter, I tried to drink as little water as possible every day, or even didn’t drink at all.” The old man told reporters , she often likes to drink water as she gets older, but if she drinks too much water, she will have difficulty moving at night and often pee on the bed. The next day, her son-in-law has to wash the sheets and clean the bed, which is very troublesome, so she tries to drink as little water as possible. The son-in-law was very angry when he found out about this situation and patiently advised her, telling her to drink as much as she liked and not to endure it because it would cause trouble.
I saw next to the old man’s pillow that they had prepared a push-type thermos cup. The thermos cup was placed in a plastic box, so that it would not only be convenient for the old man to drink water, but also prevent it from spilling on the bed. There was also a row of diapers placed on the bedside.
While talking, he packed up the diapers and sheets hanging on the balcony, which he had just washed in the morning. The first thing every morning is to clean the old man's toilet bowl, then wipe the floor with a damp cloth, and open the window for a while to ventilate. In order to disinfect and sterilize, a small bottle of vinegar is specially placed in the bedroom.
Many years of hard work and suffering from various diseases
Taking care of the elderly requires a lot of energy and physical strength, which is really too much for the couple who are already in their seventies. Over the years, both of them suffered from various diseases.
“I used to have to turn over and massage the elderly every day, as well as buy groceries and carry heavy objects, etc., but I suffered from lumbar disc herniation!” Qiu Changping said that when he got sick, he felt no pain at all. I couldn't sit on a chair, and sometimes the pain was so painful that I could throw the bowl out.
In addition, stubborn insomnia also tortured Qiu Changping. During the day, he had to take care of the elderly, but he could not sleep at night. His insomnia all night caused his mental state to suffer an extreme decline. "At that time, I felt like my head was made of cement mixed with garbage. I felt dizzy and pin-pricked!" According to Qiu Changping's recollection, while cooking, he suddenly felt dizzy and quickly raised his hands. He held on to the stove so he didn't fall. Qiu Changping and his wife also suffer from high blood pressure due to years of hard work.
To respect the elderly, we must have the "Four Spirits"
"The old age is the stage in life when people need the most care and help!" Qiu Changping said that the help the elderly need is divided into three categories: For both psychological and physiological aspects. Physiologically speaking, the physical functions of the elderly are far inferior to those of young people, and they need the care of young people in their daily lives; psychologically speaking, the elderly will have a strong sense of loneliness in their later years and need the company of young people.
In Qiu Changping's view, the party is the destiny of the country, and parents are the destiny of the family. Many elderly people do not receive careful care from their children in their later years, and it is very painful when they leave this world. It is said that "there is no filial son before the bed for a hundred days." Many young people cry bitterly after their parents pass away, but this is not as good as feeding them a meal when their parents are still alive. Some people burn a lot of paper for their parents after they die, but burning all the paper in the world is not worth washing a diaper for their parents before they were alive.
Qiu Changping believes that taking care of the elderly is very hard, but in order to take good care of them, one must have the "four spirit" of not being afraid of hardship, not being afraid of suffering losses, not being afraid of fatigue, and not being afraid of complaining. "As long as the old man is willing to follow us, my wife and I are willing to take care of him!" Qiu Changping said.
Striving to be an "expert" in medical mediation disputes - Wang Peilan
She is a "heart-warming and worry-relieving person" in the hearts of the people, and an "expert and fire extinguisher" in mediation ”, full of deep love for this land and water. In the face of medical conflicts and disputes, she is as moist and silent as water; in the face of tense situations, she is as tenacious as a mountain, making people's mediation the first choice for people to resolve medical conflicts and disputes.
Wang Peilan, the 58-year-old director of the Hanyang District Medical Mediation Committee in Wuhan City, has been the chief mediator since the Hanyang District Medical Mediation Committee was established in 2010. With a strong sense of work responsibility and social mission, she has Take root in medical adjustment work. In the past three years of work, *** accepted 108 medical disputes and successfully mediated 108 cases, with a success rate of 100%. Mediated 25 major medical disputes, prevented 18 conflicts from intensifying, signed 108 polling agreements, and the agreement implementation rate was 100%. The amount of litigation involved was more than 5.5 million yuan, and the compensation amount in the mediation agreement was 2.38 million yuan. He has successively won the honorary titles of "Outstanding Communist Party Member of Hanyang District" and "Excellent People's Mediator of Wuhan City". It played an active role in resolving medical disputes in Hanyang District, creating a safe Hanyang, and safeguarding the rights and interests of doctors and patients, demonstrating the excellent quality and style of a model mediator.
Using "infatuation" to practice unique hard skills to become an "expert" in medical disputes
Wang Peilan is an ordinary retired cadre of Hanyang District Health Bureau, but she uses His actual actions paint an extraordinary picture. Having been rooted in grass-roots jobs all her life, she was unwilling to live a comfortable retirement life. With her rich legal and medical knowledge, she resolutely devoted herself to the mediation of medical disputes, so that she could continue to shine in her later years. She is passionate about people's mediation work, is proficient in mastering and applying relevant laws, regulations and policies, and is good at adopting targeted mediation methods and measures to deal with different types of conflicts and disputes. In her work practice, Wang Peilan summed up a set of her own mediation methods, namely "calming anger, listening to talk, accurate analysis, and proper resolution", and demonstrated excellent coordination and adaptability in the mediation of medical disputes.
If a worker wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools.
The interests of the masses are no small matter. With the development of society, the interests of all parties have become diversified and complicated. In order to cope with this situation, Wang Peilan keeps up with the times and continuously strengthens the study of political theory. After work and life, she seizes all the time, puts pressure on herself, and carefully studies the "People's Mediation Law", "Medical Accident Handling Regulations" and other relevant laws. Laws and regulations should be used to establish morality through learning, increase wisdom through learning, apply learning through learning, and innovate through learning. By learning new knowledge about law, medicine, and people's mediation, we will continuously improve our business work and adaptability, and become an expert in polling work.
Use "sincerity" to open the hearts of the masses and strive to be a "heart-warmer" in medical disputes
Hanyang District has a total area of ??108 square kilometers, 12 streets and 112 The community (village) has a total population of 580,000 and 328 medical institutions. In recent years, with the continuous improvement of people's living standards in our country, the public's awareness of medical safety is increasing. The objective limitations of medical technology are far from meeting people's high expectations for disease diagnosis and treatment, causing the incidence of medical disputes to increase.
One night in April 2012, Luo was admitted to the brain surgery department of a hospital for treatment due to "maxillofacial laceration and skull base fracture". On June 8, the patient suddenly suffered respiratory and cardiac arrest and died after the hospital's rescue efforts failed. The patient's family members were very dissatisfied with the hospital's treatment and rescue process. They believed that the hospital's rescue efforts were not timely and the methods were inappropriate, and they requested the medical institution to give the family an explanation. The medical institution asked Wang Peilan to help analyze and mediate the matter. Faced with the trust of the parties involved, Wang Peilan was obliged to do so. Through the analysis of the case, she felt that if it was not handled properly, it would most likely develop into a legal-related petition case. Wang Peilan began to investigate carefully and learn more about the whole incident. After investigation, the cause of death of the patient was sudden death, and the doctor also implemented emergency cardiopulmonary resuscitation and other rescue measures in a timely manner. The patient's family members were so excited that they threatened to block the hospital door with corpses. Wang Peilan patiently communicated with the patient's family, hoping that the deceased would rest in peace, the living would be strong, and the family's emotions would be stabilized. After the patient's family members calmed down, Wang Peilan tried his best to explain legal knowledge to the patient's family in a simple and easy-to-understand language. Using medical professional knowledge to analyze the cause of the patient's death with the patient, he explained that the hospital's emergency procedures were not at fault in principle; on the other hand, Wang Peilan actively communicated and coordinated with the doctor, pointing out that the patient had passed away and the damage caused to the family was irreparable. It is hoped that the doctor will, in a humanitarian spirit, provide certain humanitarian help to the patient's family and reduce part of the patient's hospitalization medical expenses. In the end, Wang Peilan used this "key to the heart" of reasoning and law to completely open up the crux of the problem between the two parties and avoid a mass riot due to a medical dispute.
Use "love" to mediate the true feelings of the world and strive to be the "resolver" of medical disputes
In order to maintain social harmony and stability and protect the legitimate rights and interests of both doctors and patients, Wang Peilan joined the Jianzhang Starting from the establishment, she is not afraid of hardships or grievances. When faced with the incomprehension of both parties involved, she has no complaints and focuses on resolving conflicts for the masses. It is precisely because she is dedicated and diligent in her work that she has achieved the results of easing the doctor-patient relationship, stabilizing social order, and building a harmonious society; it is precisely because she built a doctor-patient communication platform step by step that she has established a communication platform between doctors and patients. It is precisely because she strives to be the "concern reliever" for conflicts between doctors and patients that she is able to handle every medical dispute in a practical and effective manner, so that small disputes do not expand and big disputes do not intensify. , resolved conflicts one after another, settled disputes one after another, and made positive contributions to maintaining normal medical order and social harmony and stability in the jurisdiction.
On May 4, 2013, He went to a clinic for treatment due to coughing and discomfort. When the skin test was negative, the doctor injected him with cephalosporin antibiotics, but he later suffered from anaphylactic shock. , the doctor immediately transferred him to a higher-level hospital for rescue, but the patient eventually died due to ineffective rescue. The patient believed that the doctor had made a major mistake and demanded compensation of more than 770,000 yuan from the doctor. His doctor believed that there was no major fault in his medical behavior and required an autopsy and medical accident appraisal to find out the cause of his death. Since the patient did not agree to undergo an appraisal, the appraisal process could not be started. The conflict between the patient and the patient became increasingly intense, to the point where the patient's personnel surrounded government agencies. After the District Medical Commission intervened, Wang Peilan considered that the patient's family was very difficult and had three underage children. Without appropriate compensation, the patient would not be able to accept it. There is also legal support for the doctor's refusal to pay the patient up to 770,000 yuan in compensation without conducting a medical malpractice appraisal. Wang Peilan knows that mediation work cannot be forced. She can only communicate with them heartily and emotionally, put herself in their shoes, think about the problem from their perspective, and finally find a balance point to promote successful dispute mediation. To this end, Wang Peilan always insisted on coordinating the interests of all parties and always put the interests of both parties first. After more than 10 days of continuous efforts and coordination, she finally reached a mediation agreement that provided compensation and assistance to the patient of more than 300,000 yuan. , properly resolved a difficult medical dispute. It has been fully recognized by the leaders of the district committee and district government and highly praised by doctors and patients.
Use "public heart" to solve difficult disputes and strive to be the "fire extinguisher" of medical disputes
In order to improve the medical safety awareness of medical staff in the jurisdiction, Director Wang Peilan regularly visits various medical institutions We conduct professional knowledge training on laws and regulations, doctor-patient communication skills, etc., closely combine the medical dispute cases we have handled for many years, and integrate boring theoretical knowledge into practice in a simple and easy-to-understand way, so that it can be easily understood and mastered by medical staff, and they can gain It has achieved good training results and won wide acclaim from medical institutions.
"A Lan Fang never tires of the secluded valley, and a gentleman never seeks fame" has always been Wang Peilan's motto. She does people's mediation work not for fame and fortune, but because of her passion for mediation work. . To be a medical people's mediator, it is not only enough to have a smooth tongue, but also to work with emotion and heart, and with a fair and just conscience. Only in this way can you win the trust of both doctors and patients. The patient Jiang was hospitalized in a tertiary hospital in May 2012 due to gastric cancer. During this period, when the nurse was transfusing Jiang with autologous stem cell immunotherapy, the wrong blood transfusion was given to Jiang from other patients with intestinal cancer. To this end, the doctor and the patient's family negotiated a compensation agreement of 100,000 yuan. The dispute that was thought to have subsided suddenly escalated one month later when the patient suddenly died of a massive right brain infarction. The family believed that the patient's death was directly related to the wrong blood transfusion, and requested the doctor to pay compensation of 1.2 million yuan. The doctor believed that the patient's death was caused by cerebrovascular disease and did not agree to provide any further compensation. When the claim was unsuccessful, his family wanted to take extreme measures and printed more than a thousand copies of the complaint. From the outpatient department of the hospital, The top floors of the building dropped indictments to retaliate against the hospital. In order to prevent the incident from further spreading, Wang Peilan communicated with her family many times. When both parties were agitated and did not cooperate with the mediation work, she was not afraid of hard work and visited the family several times to provide counseling. At the same time, she actively performed medical work. With Wang Peilan's unremitting efforts and more than two months of coordination, the two parties finally reached a mediation agreement with a compensation of 80,000 yuan, avoiding a medical incident.
Life has no definition, but each of us must give it a definition. Wang Peilan feels a sense of accomplishment every time she sees parties involved in conflicts and disputes finally turning hostilities into friendship. Faced with the mission she shoulders, she will continue on without any regrets or hesitation, and is willing to be the "messenger of harmony" in medical disputes.