ZhangFeng yi not only refused to attend his son's wedding, but also refused to attend his son's graduation party before. As a father, it is a very regrettable thing that his son has been absent from the key places of his children. But for ZhangFeng yi, he has not been in the key place of his son for many reasons.
One reason: ZhangFeng yi and his ex-wife Lv Liping have serious conflicts. ZhangFeng yi and his wife Lv Liping are together because they collaborated on a TV series. In which TV series, ZhangFeng yi and Lv Liping fell in love because of the drama, and soon made clear the connection. And got married not long after establishing a relationship.
At that time, when they got married, they were also very quiet and simple. After ZhangFeng yi and Lv Liping got married, they had a very lovely son.
Probably because their feelings gradually changed too fast, they got married without fully grasping each other. After they got married, they found that each other's temperament in various fields was not suitable for them. Therefore, Zhang Fengyi and Liu divorced soon after their marriage.
For the reason of divorce, ZhangFeng yi clearly pointed out that the reason is that two people are not suitable, but as far as Lv Liping is concerned, he thinks that ZhangFeng yi has a mistress.
Moreover, Lv Liping actually caught the evidence of ZhangFeng yi's infidelity, so the divorce between ZhangFeng yi and Lv Liping can be said to be ugly. That's why ZhangFeng yi doesn't even want to attend his son's wedding, because he really doesn't want to see Lv Liping.
Because during their divorce, Lv Liping did great harm to ZhangFeng yi's reputation in all aspects. So Zhang Fengyi didn't want to see Lv Liping at all.
The second reason is that ZhangFeng yi doesn't like his son's extravagance, and ZhangFeng yi didn't attend his son's wedding. Another reason is that ZhangFeng yi doesn't like his son's extravagance. Because ZhangFeng yi has always been a very thrifty person, after knowing that his son's wedding banquet has 27 tables, he feels that his son's behavior is really extravagant and wasteful.
He himself is a relatively simple person, and feels that his son's personal behavior does not conform to his own, so he refuses to attend his son's wedding.
In addition, ZhangFeng yi didn't attend his son's wedding. On the other hand, ZhangFeng yi felt that attending the ball-picking wedding didn't have a happy result. He probably refused to attend the child's wedding for the sake of a better result in his son's married life. But I personally feel that this name is pale and powerless.
Whether ZhangFeng yi's first wedding has never had a good result, this matter still needs to be qualified. On the other hand, I think it's a bit of feudal superstition. Zhang Fengyi didn't attend his son's wedding. In fact, I feel that he doesn't attach great importance to this son.
After all, my son didn't always grow up beside him, and he didn't have particularly strong feelings. Although it won't be the result of a break between father and son, there are no particularly intimate oranges.
ZhangFeng yi and his ex-wife have formed a complete family. It is often said that I think ZhangFeng yi refused to attend his son's wedding because he had a bad relationship with his wife. There is another level, because the son has always grown up with his wife, and his relationship with himself is not particularly close.
Therefore, ZhangFeng yi's point of view, even if attending such a wedding, has no special practical significance. Now ZhangFeng yi and his wife have formed a family.
Another level is probably to better maintain today's home, and I don't want people at home today to feel that they have too many entanglements with their wives.
From an objective point of view, I think ZhangFeng yi's refusal to attend his son's wedding is probably nothing to ZhangFeng yi himself. But for the son, it is especially unacceptable.
After all, getting married is the most important thing in my life, and it is a great pity to miss my biological parents and father. And this kind of defect is difficult to fill home according to the compensation in the middle and late period.