How to ask for a birth nanny and interview for a birth nanny
1, learn the basic background of Yue Yue, such as where she comes from and her family structure. , judge whether she is easy to worry about family situation, unstable;
2, baby care knowledge, such as how to care for the umbilical cord of the newborn, how many days will it fall off, how to ensure that it will not fester (festering will easily cause neonatal sepsis), how long it will take to retreat when the neonatal jaundice is the heaviest, how to retreat quickly, how to prevent the baby from getting red buttocks, how to clean the baby's ears and nose, and what special attention should be paid to when nursing the female baby; What happened to the baby's gums in the second month? How many Jin can the baby grow in the second month? How many hours does the baby sleep every day? What should the baby do when taking a bath (such as massage, etc.). )? For the twin baby's new moon, we have to ask her how many twins she has brought, how to bring them during the day, how to take them at night, how to rest, and how to ensure physical strength for a day. Some inexperienced new moons, if they encounter any situation of the baby, such as the umbilical cord doesn't know how to deal with it, temporarily call others for help, so how can the mother rest assured?
3. To know how Yue Yue takes care of her new mother, you can't ask her to give a general answer. She will take care of daily life such as eating and bathing, and observe lochia. She needs to find out who will cook the moon meal, and Yue Yue, the twin, clearly told me that it is impossible to have time to cook the moon meal with the twins. Then there is whether she is responsible for what she eats every day, whether the new mother takes a bath every day, how many days to wash her hair, and so on. If you need her to tie your girdle and wash your hair, you should ask clearly. For example, in order to let both the mother and the baby have a good rest, the new moon with the baby will be separated from the mother's room, so it is estimated that most of the mother's confinement is taken care of by the family alone, and the new moon is basically ignored. Judging from what I have observed so far, Yue Yue still mainly takes care of babies, but seldom takes care of mothers.
4. Pay attention to Yue Yue's responsibility and love. This is difficult to judge in an interview, unless you have read psychology or can read faces, it is difficult. But the second month will be slowly observed. If you don't love your child, it will be difficult to do it well in the second month, and the baby's affairs will be mixed up. Anyway, the new mother doesn't know much about it, and she has to rest and wait. Once she lets go, it's easy to go wrong. For example, the first month I invited was a very experienced month, but I didn't have enough sense of responsibility and love to give my baby a bath and massage.
It is also very important to know clearly whether there are any bad hobbies such as smoking and drinking in Yue Yue. Usually she won't tell you this, but pay attention to observation. It's really not easy to be a new moon and a nanny. 70-80% of them have a bitter history of tears. Therefore, some new moons or nannies have the habit of smoking or drinking, and they have to take care of the baby at night. It is said that cigarettes can refresh themselves, and they will secretly smoke in the bathroom. Be careful not to let the baby smoke secondhand smoke.