First, don't lose yourself and forget your original heart.
Now is the era of freedom of marriage and love. Since we have chosen each other, we should attract each other. Think about what attracted your partner at the beginning, and then think back to the original intention of holding hands.
When the marriage breaks down, when you are "attracted again", you can find the key point to attract your partner again, and then you can further enhance your charm and attract your husband's attention again.
Second, face up to reality and find each other's advantages.
Since you have chosen each other as your life partner, you should accept the reality. You can't expect Wu Dalang to be Pan An or Ximen Qing to be Liu Xiahui. After all, some things have become a reality. It's no use complaining. It is better to face and accept the problem.
When you recognize your partner, you will find that your partner is not as bad as you think. Recognizing your partner and not complaining can make couples get along more harmoniously.
Third, change yourself and improve the relationship between husband and wife.
Change yourself, externally and internally. Externally, it is mainly an image problem. Not cosmetic surgery, but you can make up properly or make yourself look clean. Don't think it doesn't matter what kind of image you have. Marriage and love need you to keep fresh regularly.
In saving marriage, on the one hand, we should foster strengths and avoid weaknesses in the image, cultivate our temperament acceptable to our partners, and attract each other's advantages. On the other hand, it is to enrich one's life, build self-confidence and optimism, and make oneself more temperamental.