Men have a desire to conquer and more or less want to be the first man of women.
Every woman in love wants to give her first love to her lover at the beginning, and then step into the marriage hall with her and live happily ever after.
However, love is changeable and uncertain, and the person you want to be with at first may not be as you wish.
Thousands of years of feudal system in China will make men care about virgins, and every man's attitude towards his girlfriend will be different if not for the first time.
Let's listen to the truth about these five men for the first time!
1: Xiaogang.
I'm not straight. I don't think it's the first time I care about my girlfriend. They are basically straight men. Although I hope my girlfriend will be with me for the first time, I can't force it if it's not for me.
It's not the first time for a girlfriend and it's not her fault. How many women in normal love now can really stay for the first time on their wedding night?
Who doesn't have several exes these days? Every sincere love and sincere dedication is what a normal love should look like.
If every man is puzzled by his girlfriend not getting married for the first time, then China is basically single.
A man cares too much about whether his girlfriend is the first time, so he will be very tired. This kind of fatigue will go hand in hand and make you feel even worse.
As long as my girlfriend is with me, she really loves me and treats me wholeheartedly. I don't particularly care if it's the first time.
2: Xiaotian.
I hope my girlfriend can give me the first time. If not, you have to accept it. I don't care how many people she loved. What I care about is whether she can give me all her feelings when she is with me.
We're getting married. When we were madly in love, it was not the first time that she took the initiative to confess to me, and my heart was sour. Actually, I know if it's her first time. She didn't say nothing, but I felt a little uncomfortable when she confessed to me.
I don't particularly care about her past, and this distress will be forgotten in a few days.
My girlfriend loves me very much and is considerate of me. If you regret it, you can only regret not meeting her earlier. Even if I know her in advance, it may not be her that I marry. Now is the best.
To look ahead, people always dwell on the past and ask for trouble.
3: Xiao Zhao.
Loving a person is really touched from the heart, and it's not the first time I've been with my girlfriend.
But it doesn't affect my feelings for him. The important thing is that I love her. Doesn't mean she was a bad woman the first time.
She is excellent, with good temperament and figure, very considerate of me, and we get along well together.
A man who always asks a woman for the first time should see himself clearly while asking others. Is this your first time? You're not. Why do you make such demands on others?
Asking so much of women will make life very tired. At that time, I entangled my girlfriend for the first time. It is better to manage my feelings well. Incomplete beauty is the true face of life. There are so many perfections in the world.
It's not the first time for a woman. It's no big deal. True love is tolerance.
4: Xiao Bin.
At first, I was like Qin Ying in the TV series Ode to Joy. My family education makes me feel that from love to marriage, my object must be a virgin. Because this is my first time.
I think it's the first time, and it's not the first time that my girlfriend is unfair to me. If I get married and know that my woman is not the first time, I will feel very uncomfortable. I can't stand her being with so many men at the same time.
I can't stand my woman standing naked in front of other men. So, when I am in love, I will put this question on the table.
If it is not the first time, I naturally have no reason to ask my partner to be the first time. I'm innocent, so I naturally want the other half.
Can you understand my feelings? It makes me sad to think that she slept with another man.
If the woman I marry is not a virgin, I think I will suffer for life.
5: Xiao Huang.
I don't have the concept of a virgin. It's not the first time with my first love. I think it is most important that two people are not tired.
Of course, I am looking for a girlfriend now to get married. It's good to find someone I love all my life. As for the first time, it really doesn't matter.
I don't know what men who value women for the first time think. When they were in love, they asked their girlfriends to have sex. On their wedding night, they asked their wives for the first time. This is not a deep-rooted concept.
I care more about the future of two people. Women are not virgins, nor are they the reason for those hateful men. It's not the first time to pester women. It's unfair to women.
Men have a past, and so do women. There is no need to care so much. Only the present and the future, both of them are good. In feelings, mature people can let go of the past, smart people don't ask about the present, and open-minded people don't ask about the future.
Whether a woman is the first time does not affect your's love. In fact, you don't have to care about this problem deliberately. You are looking for a lifelong partner, not something to solve your physical requirements. It is very important for young people to establish a correct outlook on love and life, have a healthy personality and maintain good interpersonal relationships.