A mother chooses to have an abortion for several reasons: 1. Children are found to be unhealthy (some even have unfounded suspicions). 2. Children born out of wedlock (accidental pregnancy during student period, love period and extramarital affairs period). ) .3. Those born in marriage but not wanted for their own reasons (economic conditions, career development stage, unwillingness to raise this child, etc.). ).
No matter which of the above reasons, don't have an abortion (the first case is special, if you have it, you can ask).
Many people decide to have an abortion just because they don't know the truth and later regret it. (Especially in the third case, it's just a momentary thought. It's a pity to kill a child by mistake just because of ignorance! )
If you are an unmarried mother, please see the end.
The Truth of Life: Embryo is life, not a mass of tissue.
Ultrasound and embryo detection technology, let us clearly understand that from the moment of conception, it is a life, just going through different stages of development.
The first week: after 3-4 days of exercise, the fertilized egg reaches the uterine cavity and is implanted, which is called a morula.
Week 2: Spine formation. Brain tissue, spinal cord, nervous system and eyes all have a certain embryonic shape, and at the other end of the spine is a small tail. At this time, there are blood vessels, and the heart has not yet formed, but the part that produces the heart has a heartbeat. Yes, he still has a heartbeat at this time. This is the time when most unwanted pregnancies are confirmed, and expectant mothers begin to struggle whether to have this child or not.
Week 3: The embryo is 2 mm long. The baby has all the genetic materials he needs in his life-23 pairs of chromosomes, and the sex of the baby has been determined.
The fourth week, the baby's heart appeared. Yes, you are not mistaken, heart!
Usually, doctors will recommend abortion about 70 days after menopause, that is, life is about 8- 10 weeks. In other words, what was strangled was a "cashew-sized child with a strong heart and small fingers, trying to develop all kinds of complex organs in an all-round way". Not our nails/hair/tumor/fat and other cell tissues.
The Truth of Abortion: The Destruction of Mothers
Abortion has taken many names that make people feel relieved or unclear, such as "minimally invasive", "superconducting visual" and "painless". But in essence, there are only three kinds: suction operation (early pregnancy, within 10 week), curettage operation (middle pregnancy, around1-14 week) and induced labor operation (late pregnancy).
You may ask: Isn't there a "painless abortion"? Painless abortion = one of the above operations+intravenous anesthesia.
In order to achieve good advertising effect, painless abortion has been given many tall names and packaged with many reassuring advertisements, such as:
"In a dream for three minutes, the trouble disappears."
"Abortion is painless, and sleeping will relieve the trouble of unintended pregnancy";
"A new generation of abortion technology-taking embryos by hysteroscope-the highest guarantee of abortion";
"Superconducting visual abortion is safe and painless" ...
However, the fact is that anesthetizing you and then performing surgery is still high-risk and cruel. The difference is that people who are anesthetized can't feel pain, don't call at any time, and the doctor's operation method is not supervised. It didn't hurt during the operation, but after the operation, the anesthetic passed and it hurt like hell.
The following surgical procedures are by no means fabricated or alarmist, but from the authoritative Baidu Encyclopedia, which can be verified by itself.
Uterine negative pressure aspiration (early pregnancy, within 10 weeks);
The most common abortion in early pregnancy is usually performed on the fetus of 10 weeks. At this stage, the fetus has a heartbeat, fingers, toes, arms and legs, but the bones are not perfect and the body is very fragile.
The following is the medical procedure. It can be seen that sucking and scraping in the uterus is a must! Because doctors do this operation, the most important thing is to ensure that there is no residue, not that the uterus is not injured, so it is by no means a "minor trauma":
After the doctor opened the cervix with tweezers, he put a powerful straw with suction ten to twenty times that of the vacuum cleaner into the mother's womb to look for a baby with a heartbeat. The straw rotates and twitches up and down, and the baby and other placental tissues are all crushed by suction and then sucked out of the body.
Finally, scrape the palace wall with a curette for a week to check whether the baby fragments are clean. If it is not clean, put the suction head into the uterus and suck it clean repeatedly.
Women who have had gynecological examinations may have had such an experience: the equipment was rudely touched, you shouted nervously, but the doctor ignored the operation and called you a fuss. Although the textbook says that the operation in the uterus should be gentle and gentle, the fact is that when you are completely anesthetized and don't resist at all, the doctors who have endless operations will repeatedly treat your uterus, scrape and suck it to ensure that it is clean and there is no residue, which is really not much gentler than handling meat and vegetables in the kitchen.
What hidden dangers will our bodies leave after such an operation?
From a medical point of view:
1. The uterus that has experienced severe trauma may leave a gynecological disease that will haunt you for life: adhesion of the cervix or uterine cavity; Bacterial infection in uterine cavity; Hematocrit in uterine cavity; Cervical trauma; Uterine perforation;
2, the trauma of the uterus may bring more serious consequences: incurable gynecological inflammation may accompany a lifetime; Habitual abortion; Ectopic pregnancy; Lifelong infertility.
3, incomplete abortion, the incubation period is very long: if the operation/drug abortion is incomplete, a small amount of fetal tissue remains in the uterus, which may affect the uterine contraction and cause continuous bleeding or adhesion and infection. If not found in time, it will directly affect the next pregnancy, or cause new diseases after years of latent;
4. Unexplained "endocrine disorder": Pregnancy is a very complicated physiological change process. In order to adapt to the growth and development of the fetus, the mother's endocrine will change greatly, preparing to lay the foundation for the birth of the fetus. Abortion directly prevented this process. The normal development of body function is destroyed, and it is easy to produce various incurable diseases. Although everyone can be explained by the name "endocrine disorder", unfortunately, medicine can't effectively solve this problem. Many women with abortion have decreased resistance, dark yellow skin or acne, uterine fibroids, breast problems, etc., which are closely related to abortion. Medicine is far from deciphering all the mysteries of the human body. Only by obeying nature can the body obey our wishes.
5, causing psychological problems: Abortion will make some mothers feel guilty, suicidal impulse, retreat, regret, lose self-confidence, lower self-esteem, hostility and anger, despair and helplessness, hate people related to abortion, end the relationship with their partners, lose sexual desire, unable to forgive themselves, cause nightmares and other psychological obstacles.
From the perspective of causal cycle:
Even people who don't know anything about Buddhism before can understand this passage through simple logical thinking:
Sakyamuni Buddha was a prince of India before 464 BC, and later became a Buddha. He is not a fictional character. Just like Confucius and Mencius in China, he really appeared in history. In the book "The Sutra of Buddhism Entering the Uterus" (56 volumes of Dabaoji Sutra, the 14th Sutra of Entering the Uterus), he announced in detail the whole process of human conception: from the first week/kloc-0 to the 38th week after birth, the weekly development and changes of the fetus in the uterus, which was completely impossible to know at that time. Later, with the step-by-step development of medicine, it was proved that what the Buddha said in the "Vivid Sutra" was an amazing and accurate prediction.
It is in this Buddhist sutra that it is clearly pointed out that human beings need to have three conditions (three karma and three combination) to conceive: sperm, egg and divinity (yin body). Instead of what we usually think of as "sperm+egg". God knowledge is to be reborn. It can get a person through millions of robberies, and abortion will ruin its chance to get a person. Therefore, abortion is killing people, not their loved ones! There are very serious secular results and reincarnation results. After abortion, both men and women will encounter all kinds of "bad luck": physical illness, emotional breakdown, unsatisfactory career, repeated economic losses, disasters and so on. These are just the results of this world, and the results of future reincarnation are more serious.
Moreover, people involved in promoting abortion have the same criminal career. On the other hand, if you try your best to dissuade and even successfully save a life, then your good career is better than building a seven-level pagoda!
Some people may say that so many people who have had abortions around them have a hard time. First of all, everyone shows their brightest side in the circle of friends, and you may not know what is really hard to say. Secondly, her present blessings are accumulated in the past, and the consequences of abortion will definitely appear in the "future"-if she does not sincerely repent. This future may be the second half of life, or it may be a complete robbery after death.
Pay a little attention, search and consult. There are too many examples of the cause and effect of abortion, all written by people who are disillusioned with compassion, hoping to awaken more people not to repeat the same mistakes. You can't send a link here. I'm afraid I can't send you more examples of articles. I hope you can find them yourself. )
If you are an unmarried mother or under other special circumstances, you can seek the help of non-profit organizations. Good people are doing it with their hearts. They helped many unmarried mothers for free. There are two places to try for help: 1. How's life, nurse? 2. Shandong Yuanjue Temple. (You can't send a link here, please copy the search directly. )