When the twins were born by caesarean section, the doctor laughed at his mother in a word.
A mother with twins heard from the doctor that her sister came out first during caesarean section. Mother frowned. She always wanted the boy to come out first and let her brother protect her sister. If the girl comes out first, the combination of her sister and her brother always reminds people of "chicken flying dog jumping"
Mother's subtle expression failed to escape the doctor's eyes. The doctor said with a smile, why don't you put it back and start over?
My mother was very nervous at that time. When she heard the doctor's words, she burst out laughing.
After reading it, netizens praised the doctor for his humor. Some people say: this graduated from Deyun Society, the level of this story is not ordinary!
Why is the younger sister-in-law group and the brother-in-law group more popular?
Mother's inner activities are right in the middle of many people's psychology. Many people want to have a "brother and sister" combination, but it is a headache for the "brother and sister combination" for the following two reasons:
1, brother and sister get along more harmoniously.
The combination of brother and sister is more warm and harmonious, and the elder brother is more willing to protect and care for his sister.
In many families where brothers and sisters are combined, it is rare for children to be jealous of their parents. Basically, the scene presented to everyone is that the whole family is spoiling their little sister.
2. Brother-sister combination is called the most worrying combination.
Brother and sister groups are more anxious than brother groups, and many brothers and sisters are difficult to get along with when they were young, especially those with little age difference.
Looking at the cases around me, I found that many brother and sister groups were "beaten" when they were young. It seems that sisters don't want a younger brother to guard them, and their young hearts are just full of hatred for their younger brothers.
Why is the "brother-sister combination" very harmonious, but it is difficult for brother and sister to get along?
An elder brother can tolerate a younger sister, and even wants to have a younger sister to guard him, and the younger sister hates him so much.
1, the difference between boys and girls
There are still great differences between boys and girls in personality. Many boys have shown a desire for protection since childhood, especially like to protect groups weaker than themselves. The existence of little sister just satisfies their desire.
Little sister doesn't have this hobby They just want to enjoy their parents' love and don't want a little brother to share it with, but if they have a little sister who plays games with them, it may be acceptable.
2. Environmental impact
In many areas, the concept of "son preference" exists to some extent. Even though the concept has changed, the form of son preference has changed, and girls are loved by their families, there are still great differences in the definitions of girls and boys.
Relatives and friends will joke with the little girl: I don't like you if I have a younger brother and a mother, but no one will joke with my younger brother that I don't like you if I have a younger sister and a mother.
The influence of the environment makes the younger sisters particularly hate the arrival of their younger brothers.
3. Girls are more sensitive.
Girls are more sensitive and vulnerable than boys. There are new members in the family. They are worried that everything will be taken away by their younger brother, so they have strong hostility towards their younger brother.
Compared with the sensitivity of girls, my brother is much more generous. They are not afraid that their toys will be taken away, and they will not worry that their parents will never love themselves.
The differences between boys and girls and environmental factors lead to this phenomenon. If children want to live in harmony, the key lies in how we as parents guide them.
In fact, children, regardless of their age difference of one year or two years, regardless of their parents' ranking, are still children. For some children with little difference, especially twins and twins, it is not recommended to rank children. Children should be allowed to help each other, instead of letting the first-ranked child take care of the last-ranked child.