I went on a trip within three days of the wedding, because my husband and I are both foodies, and we ate from Hunan to Hangzhou. I spent several days in those streets in Changsha City, Hunan. I felt that the Hunan food was very delicious and my appetite was particularly good (I didn’t know I was pregnant at all, because I was busy with work before getting married and my menstruation was not allowed for a period of time, so I didn’t forget it at all. Thinking about pregnancy). Then we went to Zhangjiajie and climbed Tianmen Mountain in one breath. My stomach hurt a little when I climbed it and I told my husband that there were so many steps and it was so steep. If someone didn’t know she was pregnant, climbing would not affect the baby in her belly. ah! I stayed in Zhangjiajie for three days and went to Hangzhou. At that time, Hangzhou was very warm and I felt very uncomfortable (I had pregnancy complications). I felt weak, dizzy, and had no appetite to eat. I thought I had a heat stroke, so I went with my husband. Said he wanted to go home. When I got home, I started to have stomachache and didn't want to eat. My husband took me to buy stomach medicine (we didn't even think about getting pregnant). It wasn't until I got to the drugstore that I felt something was wrong, because my period seemed to be more than 20 days late. I bought a pregnancy test and the result showed that I was pregnant. When I saw it, I felt dumbfounded. The two of us were so stupid that we almost didn't take the stomach medicine. The next day, I went to the hospital for a checkup and found that there was blood all around the fetal bud, which was completely surrounded. There was a risk of miscarriage, so I was told to stay in bed to preserve the fetus. After hearing this, I felt really bad, without the joy of being pregnant for the first time. When I got home, I lay in bed and cried for a long time. I felt that the bleeding was caused by myself, and I blamed myself very much. Because it was my first pregnancy and I didn’t understand it at all, I felt it was very serious. A week later, the bleeding was even worse during the reexamination. I was in constant fear every day. I especially regretted going hiking before I knew I was pregnant. Later, after three months, the blood slowly absorbed and the child developed very well, and I finally let go of my worries.

I was really a little confused at the time, because we had taken measures every time during the four years we were together, but that one time I was too lazy to get it and didn’t bring a small umbrella, so I failed. At that time, he even joked that he would name his child "Shenqiang" in the future.

Because my menstruation was delayed for about a month, and my chest felt very painful, it hurt when I touched it. Later, I asked my classmate who was pregnant and she said congratulations, I am definitely pregnant.

I still couldn’t believe it at the time, but later I went to buy a pregnancy test stick, but the result was unfortunate...

Because neither of them really wanted a child at that time, they were like ostriches. Di Anwen was sure that the stick was broken, so he went to buy another one, but...

Well, maybe all the pregnancy test sticks were broken, so he went to the hospital to draw blood.

When I got the result, I really felt very complicated. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to have a child, it was just that I was really not ready, but this child happened to come like this.

Both parents knew about it and were unwilling to take it away, so they gave birth to it naturally. She is now almost three years old, a very naughty little girl, but because of her, life has become much more interesting. !

Thank you Wukong for sharing such an unfamiliar question.

Of course, only the female surname is responsible for pregnancy.

Of course, both men and women have to bear the responsibility for pregnancy.

As for the feelings of men and women who are pregnant, there is definitely a huge difference.

Let’s talk about women’s feelings first.

If it is the first pregnancy for a legal couple, there will be many emotional changes such as nervousness, fear, joy, etc.

The nervousness is caused by the lack of experience in pregnancy for the first time and not knowing what to do. At this time, older women need to give more guidance and pass on some experiences or lessons, so that pregnant women can eliminate their nervousness and benefit the development of the fetus. You can also listen to the advice of your gynecologist to help you spend your pregnancy scientifically.

Fear mainly comes from the fear of childbirth. A normal birth would make her writhe in pain, and if she had a caesarean section, she would have to have a knife. This is why maternal love is great, and why children all over the world pronounce "Mom" the same way.

Joy is the many expectations for future children.

Men’s feelings about pregnancy are more about expectation and anxiety.

No matter how men and women feel, we all wish mother and child safety!

In 2018, my wife and I lived in different places. She was helping her elder brother who was an e-commerce company in her hometown, and I was in Yangzhou. We work at the construction site, we get together less and apart more often, and we often quarrel, but in the end we make up as before. Day by day goes by like this, and I never thought there would be any changes. It feels like every day is like pasting and copying.

Days like this lasted until the beginning of October 2018. At that time, I was chatting with my wife via video chat. She often felt nauseous and wanted to vomit. She would vomit almost anything she ate. At first, we all thought it was a common cold. It was caused by a cold or gastrointestinal discomfort, so I didn't think much about it. After a few days, it still happened. I asked her to go to the hospital for a checkup, but she refused to go and said that she didn't have to go to the hospital all the time.

The next day, I asked for leave from my boss at the construction site. Friends who have been construction workers should know how difficult it is to ask for leave at the construction site. I lied to the boss and said that my wife was pregnant and I had to go back to check. The boss even went out of his way to I was given an extra day off. Hehe, I went to find her as soon as I got home and tricked her into going to the hospital and had a checkup. The doctor said: You are going to be parents! This sentence almost made me stand still. I really couldn't believe it at the time. I almost jumped up with joy. When I walked out of the hospital, I still couldn't calm down for a long time. I felt that my hands were shaking. My wife even said that I was crazy! Now that I think about it, it does feel a bit like... Mainly I'm just too happy.

My husband and I fell in love online and had a flash marriage, and the reason for the flash marriage was that we were pregnant with our baby without knowing it! Dabao is now 17 years old, time flies so fast!

I had just come out of school at that time and didn’t understand anything. When I met my husband online, I felt pity for him at first because he was in his thirties and was still unmarried. After knowing each other for three months, we got together, and now we are as young as People's speed is also a challenge. Maybe I was in a foreign land at that time, so a young girl who had just left school would be easily deceived, so I was deceived by him!

After being together for three months, one day I started to feel that something was wrong. I felt dizzy, didn’t want to eat, and had no appetite! I just feel like sleeping, as if I have a cold!

I planned to go to the hospital the next day, but my husband’s brother happened to come over and I couldn’t cook for him. Then he said he felt unwell and felt dizzy and lacked energy. As a result, his brother asked: Could it be that she is pregnant?

The words woke up the dreamer, and then the husband thought, maybe it was, so he went to the hospital the next day and did various tests, and he was really pregnant!

Pregnant women are the most beautiful

I can see that my husband is very happy, but I am very worried because I don’t understand anything and I am pregnant in my first year of school. , how should I explain it to my parents at home?

Then my husband took me back to my husband’s house for the Chinese New Year. I remember that his sister didn’t want to see me at that time. She probably thought that I was so different from her brother and it must be just for fun. At that moment, my heart became firm. a lot of.

Things come naturally, get married, get pregnant, give birth to a child, and then an older child raises a younger child. Therefore, my relationship with my son is not like a mother and child, but more like a classmate. He is a child in the process of exploration. , I am also exploring becoming a mother!

My first pregnancy was actually told to me by a bystander, which is quite interesting to think about! Responsibility

My wife is now 7 months pregnant. When I first learned that my wife was pregnant, I couldn’t believe it because we really didn’t plan to have a child so early.

We got married in October last year and planned to have another child next year. After my wife missed her period for two months, I bought a pregnancy test stick and tried it.

I got up really early that day, at 5:30, and my wife took it to the toilet to try it out. There were two bars, one deep and one shallow. We had done a lot of Baidu at that time, but we knew in our hearts that it was indeed done. Pregnant.

After my wife became pregnant, I understood that my responsibility was coming. I started to quit smoking, started to save money, and also started to think of ways to make money. This is a man's responsibility.

Now, my wife is seven months pregnant, and the child is very naughty, pushing back and forth in my wife’s belly. Now I can see the belly moving when the child moves in her belly.

I will be very happy every time I see it, because in this world, another little life is about to come. I hope that he or she can bring enough value to this society.

At the same time, I also hope that it can bring more joy to our little family.

Hello everyone, my name is @ Du Gu Ti Bi

There is a faint surprise, but at the same time a sense of responsibility and some unspeakable worry also well up in my heart. There are worries about the health of my loved ones and the burden of family responsibility in the future! All in all, this is the only way for most people, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself, prepare carefully, and just let everything take its course! [Shy]

My husband and I went to Qiandao Lake for three days during the National Day holiday. We got pregnant after we came back. I didn’t know it. I didn’t realize it until I didn’t have my period for two months.

I was confused at the time because I had never thought of having a child so early. My husband and I had just gotten on the right track at work. My husband didn’t say anything at the time and our family couldn’t sleep that night.

I didn’t want a child at that time. I felt that I was still a child, and I was not mentally prepared to be a mother. My husband also listened to me, so I went to the hospital and asked about abortion. The doctor said that abortion is not good for the body. My husband was hesitant because he was afraid that it would affect his future fertility, because he was afraid that he would regret it after having the surgery, or that it would affect his ability to have children in the future.

I was scared when I heard what the doctor said. I asked my husband what to do. My husband smoked several cigarettes in front of the hospital, and finally decided not to smoke anymore and keep the child.

The child is now seven years old and the family is very happy. I am very glad that he was not aborted in the first place.

After the wedding, I discussed with my daughter-in-law to try it without any defensive measures. I didn’t know if I could get pregnant, and then I went on a business trip. The next month, my daughter-in-law said that my aunt had postponed it and didn’t care. Later, several I always dreamed at night that my son was born and he looked like a little boy about two years old. Then I asked my wife to buy a pregnancy test and she was pregnant. I later found out that it was indeed a boy. Maybe this was telepathy. We are destined to be father and son. Unknowingly, my son is over 5 years old. Due to long-term business trips, we always get together and leave. I owe them a lot. What is left to him is more of the back of him carrying a suitcase on business trips! I hope he can grow up healthy and happy!

I still vividly remember my first pregnancy.

On New Year’s Eve that year, my husband rode a motorcycle and took me back to my hometown in the countryside to celebrate the New Year. I was wearing the red woolen coat I wore when I got married and sitting on the motorcycle. Why did I feel so cold? It was so cold that I really regretted not wearing a down jacket.

In the first year of junior high school, I visited various houses, and I always wanted to go home. It was too cold in the countryside, and I missed the heating at home so much. My husband also took me to visit a few classmates’ houses. On the way, I told my husband that I was pregnant and my period was overdue.

After returning home, I went to the hospital for a urine test, which showed positive. Sure enough, I was pregnant. My husband and I were ecstatic and wanted to know strongly, is it a boy or a girl?

Pregnancy is a surprise that surprises you little by little. You forget about it when you are busy, but when you are free, you feel happy when you think about it. These surprises are dotted in the moments of your life.

When you open your eyes in the morning, when you are cycling on the way to get off work, when you are cooking, when you are taking a nap after reading, when you are about to fall asleep, surprises are everywhere, and This surprise carries the unknown, becoming more and more real and bigger.

I remember that one time my husband suddenly remembered that I was pregnant, and he was very happy just thinking about it. He said seriously: "I will never lose my appearance in the future, I am going to be a father."