Counterparty: We think this is an indifferent behavior. Yes, there are no parents who don't love their children, but for a young child, they don't have the ability to think independently and only look for dependence according to instinct. Second, his mother never hugs him, which will alienate him subconsciously and is not conducive to his growth. Moreover, the child is so young that his mother won't hug him and let him stand up by himself. This kind of behavior may be impossible at his age, and children will be easily injured. So we think this behavior of parents is an indifferent behavior.
Pro: Please pay attention to the students opposite. The mother took her young child for a walk, and the child fell down, kneeling on the ground and crying and shouting, "Mom, hug!" " "Mother didn't hug him. First of all, she can be sure that the child has the ability to fall and get up by himself. It is by no means a baby who can't talk for a few months and can only be fed in his mother's arms. Excuse me, is a child who can stand up by himself crying and asking his mother to hug him? If he falls every time, he will help her. If one day the mother is not around, will the child always lie there crying to win the sympathy of passers-by?
Counterparty: I want to ask my opponent first, did you learn to call your mother or learn to walk first? I think you should learn to call mom first. One shouted, "Mom, give me a hug!" " Are you sure the child has the ability to fall and get up by himself? Please be careful not to impose your ideas on the facts. Now there are many selfish mothers who vent their dissatisfaction on their children because they don't help them when they fall.
Dear: Please don't shift the topic of veterans to the age of children who fall, and don't always limit your thoughts to the situation that children can't walk and fall. We have always stressed that mothers should stand up for their children and ask them to stand up strongly. Do you think this is also wrong? A child who does not grow up in the arms of his parents is bound to be depressed and ask his parents for help when he is hit. If his parents help him, he takes it for granted. If his parents don't help him and he feels that his family doesn't love him, then he hates his family and society, he will give up on himself, feel incompetent, and some even have suicidal tendencies.
Counterparty: I reiterate our view that the mother's failure to help the child is a sign of indifference, rather than discussing whether the mother should help the child. Another debater has been stating what will happen if the mother helps the child. Please pay attention.
Positive: look at the essence through the phenomenon, understand that the mother does not help the child, and tell the child to stand up bravely, whether it is harmful to the child, and whether it does not love the child. We believe that the children educated by mothers in this "indifferent" way should be braver, stronger and brighter than the flowers in the greenhouse. That's all that matters.