Introduction: As the saying goes: Talking about money is the best way to see human nature, but disease can see clearly into marriage, people's hearts, and a family. A woman is a person with a foreign surname who has been stripped away from her original family and integrated into her husband's family. A disease is a touchstone for marriage and family.

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A few days ago, my cousin accidentally fell down, and as a result, she began to suffer from low back pain, soreness and weakness in her waist and knees. When she went to the hospital, she was diagnosed with a tumor on her waist, which had severely compressed the nerves. , the doctor suggested arranging surgery as soon as possible to avoid irreparable consequences.

Because she was married far away, her husband and parents-in-law took care of her in the hospital before her aunt arrived after the operation. Her mother-in-law was worried that her son would be affected, so she prepared a meal and sent it to the hospital to replace her son.

The aunt arrived at the hospital and saw her daughter lying on the hospital bed. Her daughter, who had been so energetic before, now looked thin and weak, so she couldn't help but feel sad and asked with concern why her daughter hadn't been discovered earlier. The doctor said that it should have an impact on the lower limbs. , and if it comes later, you may be paralyzed in bed for the rest of your life.

The mother-in-law sitting nearby interjected, "No wonder, I felt that this child had trouble walking from the first time I saw him."

The mother-in-law also asked her son to go to work when it was time. When I go to work, I feel relieved to have my aunt to take care of my cousin. I try not to stay in the ward for too long, otherwise I will get sick and go home. She also said that my grandson is still prone to getting sick when he is still young and goes to kindergarten, so he should not bring illness to his children.

Not only that, the food delivered by my mother-in-law is much worse than the usual ones at home. She always turns around and sits playing with her mobile phone with an impatient expression, or looks for opportunities to go home, or even just lies next to her. Sleeping in hospital bed.

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One day when my aunt was eating, my cousin wanted to go to the toilet and got up on her own.

The mother-in-law sitting next to her was stunned for a moment before going to help her up. Her cousin was relatively weak and couldn’t exert her strength. As a result, her mother-in-law shouted that she couldn’t hold her up as soon as she stood up. She let go and let her fall down again. Got to bed.

The aunt ran over in fright, asked her if she was okay, and used all her strength to help her up with a half-hug.

My cousin lay on her mother’s chest, hearing her rapid breathing, feeling the hot air on her chest, watching her wiping the sweat from her forehead while arranging her clothes, and vowed that she would get well soon. stand up.

My cousin said that she has been married for almost four years and has always been filial to her mother-in-law, even if she is not very satisfied with herself.

Once, when she went to the toilet, she overheard her mother-in-law asking her husband if the tumor was benign or malignant, so as not to lose both her life and money. At that time, her heart became cold and she wanted to stay away from her husband's family from the bottom of her heart.

You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can never warm the heart of a person who doesn't care about you. If it weren't for an illness, she would still not be awake, and she would never be able to see the true face of her husband's family.

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Paying too much attention to details in a relationship will cause extraneous problems, which will only consume the mind and feelings, and is not beneficial to family and husband and wife relationships.

However, an illness is when a person is most vulnerable and longs to be cared for, especially women. If the family takes good care of and shows concern, it is a panacea; if the family is indifferent or perfunctory, it is like adding insult to injury and even makes people feel miserable. Losing the courage to persist makes marriage and relationships unsustainable.

Before August 15th last year, my colleague Sister Wang found a breast lump during a physical examination at the company. She called her husband after receiving the report.

It happened that my mother-in-law called to ask them when she would be home for the Mid-Autumn Festival. When she learned that she was sick, she immediately called her eldest son to ask his classmates and friends to find the best specialist hospital in their city and take care of her. After seeing the doctor, the hospital arranged for surgery the next day after the diagnosis of breast fibroma.

We didn’t know that when Sister Wang asked for leave, she had already completed the surgery.

Sister Wang’s parents-in-law also asked their eldest son to take leave to visit her with his family. They also arranged things at home and prepared to take care of her in the hospital. They went to the infirmary to ask the doctor about her condition and rest. , Precautions in all aspects of diet.

Not only does she make delicious food for her every day according to the doctor's instructions, but she also does the laundry, cooking and shopping for her herself. He even cleans her body and takes good care of their whole family. When she was first discharged from the hospital, in order to let her rest well, her mother-in-law walked softly at home.

Sister Wang said that her husband's family was very kind to her, especially when she was in confinement, they did not let her touch the water for four months.

My mother-in-law always said that if you love your son, you should love your daughter-in-law first. Only when the daughter-in-law is good can the son be better. She often warns the two sons that being a son and a husband are fate, and they should cherish each other and be good to their spouse. It is to accumulate blessings for your parents and yourself.

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Home is a warm haven, where all frustrations and pains can be healed.

What a person needs most when he is sick is the care, care and comfort of his relatives. Everyone warms and cherishes each other, making you feel warm, strong and courageous, making you feel responsible for yourself, and more importantly, caring for you. Relatives should be responsible, face life with strength and optimism, and be grateful and hopeful.

It costs a lot to see a person clearly, because a person's character can only be shown in the context of great interests.

To see a family clearly, you only need to be in trouble and illness. People who are sick can feel the indifference and coldness of others better. An illness can measure what kind of family you live in. , this is the family affection that is rejected by blood, and is the sadness and helplessness of a woman.

As the saying goes: A friend in need is a friend indeed.

A disease requires the joint struggle of the family, the care of relatives, and financial support. For the family, a disease is a mirror for marriage. Birth, old age, illness and death are commonplace in real life, but they can make a difference. The true nature of marriage and family affection is exposed minute by minute, which is embarrassing.

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Marriage is the process of establishing a small family after separation from the extended family. However, the small family is the product of everyone’s incubation and is still closely related, especially when a large family lives together. son.

Whether we are close to each other and whether we are sincere can be seen through an illness. The impact of a sudden illness on a person should not be underestimated, but it is not as cold as the indifference, indifference and perfunctory attitude of one's lover and family members, which can make people feel as cold as water.

People who eat grains will suffer from all kinds of diseases. In all likelihood, they will suffer hardships, and diseases will follow them everywhere.

The warm greetings and superficial love in the past are not as good as the careful care, companionship and support and a meal before the sick bed. This is the true manifestation of the test of marriage and human nature.

When a woman marries as a wife, she is filial to her parents-in-law and takes care of the family. It is her husband’s family who pays for it. Marriage is bound by love. The vows of marriage and the earnest prayers of her husband’s family are not enough to withstand illness and hardship. With your persistence and companionship, those who truly love you will protect you, and your real family will care about you. There is nothing better than asking for warmth when you are a minor illness, and never leaving you when you are seriously ill. Even if you lose everything, this is a strong marriage and a real family.

Women, please be kind to yourself and take care of your body. Even if you value your family, you cannot completely rely on your marriage or your husband’s family. The only one who cherishes you in this world is yourself, and the only one you can rely on is yourself. It can only be you.

When the storm comes, no matter how beautiful the oath is, it cannot withstand the cruel reality.