I'm just like you. This needs to go to the hospital for surgery. Nobody paid attention to it before, and then it got bigger and bigger. I have also been to many hospitals. Later, an operation was performed, and then an injection was given to prevent recurrence. Ears will deform, but it's better than you can't tie your hair now. You have nothing to be afraid of, it's already like this, so you can only go to the hospital to have it aborted.
If you don't operate immediately, it will grow bigger and bigger, and the ear deformation will be more serious. Because it has become a scar constitution, that is, cartilage hyperplasia. Don't worry, if you find a good hospital, you will get an injection after the operation, and the recurrence rate is very small.