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A mother in Xuzhou has terminal cancer. Her 69-year-old son holds her mother while watching a movie. Why does the mother not want to go to the hospital for treatment?

In fact, I can understand this mother's choice. If such a thing happened to me, I would not choose treatment. You must know that cancer has always been said to be an incurable disease. It cannot be said that all people who have cancer have no possibility of cure, but most people are already in the middle and late stages of cancer after they are diagnosed, and the probability of cure is indeed not very high, so Many people give up on treatment at this time.

Just like this mother, some people may say that her children are unfilial, but I personally do not agree with this view. It is true that some families do not treat the elderly because their children are unfilial, but in this family I don't think there is such a phenomenon. If the son is really unfilial, he will not go to the theater with his mother in his arms. You must know that her son is no longer young. He can actually be taken care of by his children at the age of sixty-nine, but he still has to take care of his mother, so In my eyes he is filial. Next, I will talk about why this mother is unwilling to go to the hospital for treatment.

First, I don’t want to spend money in vain. For most cancer patients, one of the major reasons why they are unwilling to receive treatment is because they do not want to spend money. After all, in the process of cancer treatment, the medical expenses are really high, which not all families can afford. In addition, I have terminal cancer, and even if I get treatment, it may only delay my survival time, and there is no way to cure it. The most important point is that I am already very old. My son is already sixty-nine years old. My mother is over eighty anyway. At this age, I don’t want to cause trouble for my children, so I can’t do it without spending this money. it took.

Second, I don’t want to suffer. Of course, in my opinion, another factor in not wanting treatment is not wanting to suffer. As we all know, cancer requires chemotherapy, and chemotherapy will cause rejection, which makes the body really painful. This mother was quite old and certainly did not want to suffer such a crime again, nor did she want to stay in the hospital for the rest of her life, so they gave up going to the hospital for treatment.