1. Don't talk loudly when attending a banquet or eating in a restaurant. It is not advisable to talk to your neighbor for too long while eating, which wastes the conversation between the host and the guest.
2. When eating Chinese food, try to use public chopsticks to hold dishes or waiters to divide them.
3. Shut up and chew slowly when eating. Don't put on makeup or pick your teeth at the dinner table.
4. Don't cross the line or pick vegetables. Eat buffet, don't eat too much at a time. When you eat the second course, you should change it to a new one.
Napkins are not used to wipe sweat, glasses or knives and forks. Napkins should be on your knees, not on your chest.
Don't beat the napkins provided by the restaurant, it will scare the guests.
6. Don't kneel under the table to pick up napkins or things during the narration of meals, which will be mistaken for strange actions.
7. Don't shout or clap your hands at the waiter, but signal with your left hand.
8. When entertaining guests, the host and hostess should propose a toast to the guests first. The guest pays back the money once, and the host begins to respect him in turn. You can't skip a person, you should toast in order. Don't use a glass of water as wine to respect people. For those who are not good at drinking, you can use water or juice in return.
9. Women don't have to take the initiative to propose a toast to their guests. A man should not propose a toast to his friends at the next table, let alone leave the table and toast everywhere, which is suspected of usurping the role of the host.
10. There should be no bad behaviors such as boxing, forcing alcohol and offering cigarettes at a formal dinner party.
1 1. Take the knife and fork from the outside to the inside. Put the knife and fork on the far left and the far right to eat lettuce; Followed by knives and forks for eating fish or meat. A fork or spoon is placed horizontally in front of a plate for dessert, coffee or tea.
12. The order of western food is appetizer (fresh oyster, shrimp, assorted fruit or salad), soup, staple food (meat or fish or other), dessert (pudding, cake or ice cream) and coffee or tea.
13. Western drinks include pre-meal drinks (champagne, whisky, red liquor or mixed liquor). Rice wine (red liquor or Shaoxing wine. Red meat drinks red wine and fish drinks white wine. There is brandy, kaoliang spirit or sweet wine after dinner. Take a champagne glass or wine glass and hold the bottom of the glass with your hand. Hold the goblet at the same time. Hold the handle tightly when holding the beer glass. When drinking brandy, you should hold the cup in your hand. White wine and champagne should be refrigerated in an ice cone before drinking.
14. When eating western food, if you put a bowl of water on the dining table and there is a lemon or petal floating in the bowl, it is used to wash your fingers. Never drink it.
15. On the banquet table, cups such as water cups and red and white wine glasses are placed in front of everyone. Don't hold tea and coffee in a glass. Tea and coffee are served with saucers.
16. When eating western food, your bread is a small plate on the left. Tear a piece of bread and eat one.
17. It's not advisable to lower your head to drink soup. You should use a spoon to keep your mouth shut.
18. To eat meat or fish, cut a piece and put the meat or fish in your mouth.
19. after eating western food, put the knife and fork together on the plate, with the fork facing up and the blade facing inward; When not used up, the knives are placed on the left and right sides of the plate respectively.
20. When eating Chinese and western food, if you want to leave the table for a short time, you should hang your napkin on the back of your chair or fold it under the big plate in front of you.
2 1. A man has the courtesy of pulling a chair for a woman, or a waiter helps him pull it.
22. For a formal banquet, when you enter the restaurant, you should first look at the seat map placed at the door and find your own seat, so as not to find a seat in a hurry when you go to the table.
23. When attending cocktail parties, don't drink too much, or you will get drunk easily.
24. When a new person is invited by name in the invitation, if the wife is temporarily unable to attend, she can be replaced by her daughter, but the host must be informed first.
25. After receiving the invitation, if you can't attend, you should write a message to the host as soon as possible to express your gratitude.
Second, dress etiquette.
1. When holding a formal dinner, men should wear appropriate suits. Ladies wear appropriate dresses, dresses, suits or cheongsam. When eating in a hotel, you should dress neatly and look dignified.
2. Ladies should not wear long skirts or cheongsam at noon.
3. The length of a man's tie is limited to covering the waistband head, neither too long nor too short.
4. Men wear suits instead of cloth shoes. Shirts should wear white long sleeves or light colors, not red or short sleeves.
Men should not wear white suits for social activities at night. No matter day or night, it is best not to wear a black shirt with a black suit. (Latin American families wear all-black shirts and black suits)
6. Wear simple clothes when attending the funeral, and avoid wearing red clothes or a red tie.
7. When a man wears a double-breasted suit, he should always button it. When wearing a single-breasted suit to shake hands or get up to speak, you should button the first button to show politeness. Wear a suit with three buttons, and the third button can be left unbuttoned.
8. Men should not wear white socks when attending a dinner party or cocktail party.
9. When traveling, don't wear a suit, wear casual clothes and shoes.
10. Don't go out in pajamas, let alone receive guests in pajamas, let alone go out in slippers.
1 1. Before entering the banquet hall, you should take off your coat and give it to the waiter to hang in the cloakroom.
12. Don't take off your suit at will during the banquet, at least ask the host's permission.
13. Please read the dress code carefully when you receive the invitation. If you are asked to wear casual clothes, you shouldn't wear a suit to the party. The dress code is written on the invitation to the formal banquet.
14. In our daily life, we should dress according to our age, status and season.
15. Women should not wear sunglasses on their heads. It is not advisable to wear sunglasses on cloudy days and indoors.
Third, living etiquette.
1. Close the door softly when entering or leaving the hotel or your own door.
2. guests go home? It is best not to ask guests to take off their shoes when entering the door.
Don't turn up the indoor radio and TV too loud, so as not to disturb the peace of the neighbors.
4. Live in harmony with neighbors, help each other, and greet each other when they meet.
After entering the elevator with the passengers, face the door immediately. Don't talk to people, smoke or eat in the elevator, and follow the principle of first in and last out.
6. When a woman enters the elevator alone, if a man is present, she doesn't have to turn her back on the man, but stand sideways just in case.
7. When staying in a hotel abroad, don't forget to put a dollar or two under your pillow before you go out every morning. The same is true at home.
8. Remember to close the bedroom curtains before going to bed at night.
9. Don't put shoes, shoe cabinets and insoles outside the apartment building.
10. Domestic garbage is classified according to regulations.
Fourth, the etiquette of the line
1. When driving, the owner comes first on the right, second on the right in the back row, third on the left and fourth in the middle. The third man got on the bus last.
2. When the driver is driving, the right in the back row is the first, the left is the second and the middle is the third. The driver is the fourth on the right. The fourth person got on the bus last. When riding a bus, you should give way to your elders, first get on and then get off.
3. Take the public escalator, stand on the right and cross on the left.
4. Take the MRT or bus and follow the principle of getting off first and then getting on. Don't talk loudly and smoke in the car. Give your seat to the camera.
5. When walking with ladies, old people and very old people, let them walk on the right.
6. When going up and down stairs, let ladies, senior officials or old people go up first and then down.
7. If three or more people travel together, don't walk sideways, so as not to occupy the road and hinder the passage of pedestrians behind.
8. When walking alone, walk on the right side of the road and obey the rules.
9. Don't honk your horn while driving.
Five, speaking etiquette
1. When attending a cocktail party, you should take the initiative to talk to the guests, but when talking to others, you should introduce yourself first. Don't interrupt when talking with many people.
2. Talk to people and learn that they are alumni. You should call each other a senior, not a junior because you are old.
Don't blow your own horn when talking with people. You come to interact with me. Talk more about each other's advantages and the conversation will be smooth. It never hurts to say nice things to others.
When talking with people, don't put your hands in your pockets, don't chew gum or betel nut, and don't wear sunglasses to talk with people.
When talking with people, it's pleasant to smile.
6. When talking with people, don't rashly ask personal privacy questions such as age, salary and marriage.
Sixth, the etiquette of meeting and introducing.
1. Introduce men to women, young people to distinguished people, young people to older people, and guests to the host.
2. When introducing, wait for the lady to reach out before the man can shake her hand; Old people reach out first, and young people can shake hands with them; The person with the highest rank reaches out first, and the person with the lowest rank can shake his hand.
3. When shaking hands, look at the other side with a smile. Don't shake hands too hard, don't shake hands at all.
4. When shaking hands, men take off gloves as the principle. Ladies can shake hands with gloves, and shake hands slightly with respected people or elderly people. However, it is advisable to take off gloves.
If you need to hug and kiss your face, kiss your right cheek first, then kiss your left cheek.
6. When introducing, if the other party submits a business card, it should be sent back. If there is no business card exchange, it is appropriate to apologize in person. In communication situations, in order to expand interpersonal relationships, it is best to exchange business cards.
Seven, other etiquette should be paid attention to.
1. Remember to turn off your cell phone when flying, attending concerts, important meetings or lectures.
2. When watching golf on the court, players should turn off their mobile phones when hitting the ball or kicking off, and do not make any noise or shout loudly.
3. When visiting friends, you should first agree on the time and place, and it is not appropriate to drop in casually. Don't be late or too early when you visit or eat.
The younger generation should take the initiative to invite the elders, and it is not appropriate to ask the elders to play casually. The elder said to visit, don't refuse.
5. Don't invite people to take photos in social occasions.
6. Remember to bring appropriate gifts when attending the gathering of relatives and friends.
7. Give your name before you call, and make a long story short.
8. When attending a formal dance, take the initiative to invite the lady next to you to dance, but pay attention to etiquette. In principle, it is to invite friends' female companions to dance. It is best not to invite them rashly if you don't know them.
9. When talking about mobile phones in public, keep your voice down and don't disturb others. Please refer to it.
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