In the video, a woman shouted "Apologize! Apologize! Did you hit someone, stand up and apologize! " The tone was aggravated again and again, and the almost hysterical questioning touched the nerves of many netizens.
As a treasure mother, I am very sensitive to such events. After all, there are primary school students in my family, and similar things have happened. It is understandable that this precious mother wants to seek a fair mood for her child after learning that her child has been bullied.
The woman sent a video in the class group, which exploded.
There is a more provocative response: "You wait for me!" Could be the parents of the defendant's child.
I can also understand the reaction of this parent. In public, my child was born like this, and was asked by a stranger pointing his nose. No matter what the reason, anyone will try his best to protect the children first.
In the end, the school called the police, and both parents apologized to each other at the police station and also apologized to the school.
According to the person in charge of the school, the two children had a little dispute over the game currency, and the parents of both sides had some differences in communication at first.
This is a small contradiction between children, which the children can't solve, and neither can the school teacher. This time, the parents lost control and roared at the classroom, which had to make people look askance. Personally, I think there is something wrong with school teachers and parents.
In the crazy video, the boy sat in his seat and whispered "I'm sorry", but the anger of the female parents did not subside.
She yelled at the boy over and over again, and all the other students in the class were scared, which made people really worried about the children.
Although the teachers in the classroom want to persuade parents, they feel powerless. Ask parents how they came to school. They can't yell at their children like this, saying it's verbal violence, but they don't take practical actions to stop female parents from disturbing the classroom.
Many netizens don't understand.
What the female parents send in the class group is also the hospital inspection report, which at least shows that the dispute between the two children is not new. Why don't schools and teachers come forward to deal with it? If it is properly solved, how can parents growl at the class and say that the school doesn't care?
Or the school teacher didn't know about it at all, and the female parents were too excited to go directly to school?
When my son was in the second grade, he came home from school one day with two obvious tears on his face.
Ask him what happened. At first, the child was very wronged and kept silent. Later, he cried and said that he accidentally fell down the stairs after school and didn't stand up. A boy stepped on his face and called him a stupid pig with a smile
At that time, the fire flew into a rage. My own children don't want to talk to him loudly at ordinary times. How can I tolerate such bullying by others?
Looking at my son's wronged face, I asked him in detail what happened at that time. He still didn't make it clear, but he probably knew who the boy was bullying him, and I also knew the parents of the child.
I led my son directly and found his home. However, there was no singling out, no shouting, and no arrogant threat to hit another child.
Instead, he gently asked his parents, "Your child's name is XXX. He stepped on my son's face after school in the afternoon and called him names. Is it true? "
The child's parents know nothing about it. They called the child and asked him, and the child answered yes.
Without saying anything, the father threw it in his face and slapped the child. The mother of the child also said that their child should not step on others like that and educated the child to apologize.
Seeing this posture, I was shocked and embarrassed to let other children be beaten.
Hurriedly pulling the child, said aunt didn't want to scold you, also didn't want to hit you, just want to tell you that we are good friends, in a school, can play together. Don't quarrel, don't fight.
Of course, peace is the most important.
It is easier to communicate with such reasonable parents who know how to educate their children first.
When solving problems and dealing with things, let go of your emotions and speak frankly, which can get twice the result with half the effort.
If you look for the other parent angrily from the beginning, the other parent may have rejected what I said before the matter was clarified. Even if I am reasonable, I will eventually be labeled as an unreasonable and aggressive parent for my children to learn. Is it not worth the loss?
My son had a conflict with other students in the fourth grade, and he didn't even know it.
One night, a friend contacted me and said that a parent in her class asked who knew my son in the class and said that my son pushed her grandson, which caused her grandson to break his knee.
I asked my son if there was such a thing first. My son said he didn't push anyone, and he didn't know.
I asked my friend to find the contact number of the parent and call him to find out the situation.
Grandma always said that my son pushed her grandson, and his pants and knees were torn, bleeding a lot and scabbing. He stuck to his trousers and couldn't get it off. That's a real pity.
It sounds serious, but my son said he didn't push the boy, so I made an appointment with the child's grandmother to meet at the school gate some time before class in the morning to see how to deal with it.
In the morning, my children and I waited at the school gate on time. The child's grandparents have never met anyone. Later, I asked the security guard, and the security guard said that two old people went to school early to find the principal.
I guess it was them, so I took my son to the principal's office.
In fact, that night, I just heard that my son pushed someone else, so I got to know what it was like first.
After sending the children to school that morning, several children were pulling other people's clothes, and you chased me to play. My son also pulled other people's clothes. The child broke free too hard and knocked on the stairs. The outdoor stairs are cement, not tapping.
I explained in the principal's office that children play together and fall together, but the child and his grandparents have always stressed that my son pushed them, and her grandson can't lie.
Because it was the first class, the headmaster asked me to write him the name and class of the child I witnessed, so I wrote it to him, but he didn't respond and I didn't have the following (the matter was not serious, and I didn't investigate how the child fell).
I asked my son if he pulled people's clothes. The son said that at that time, everyone played together and pulled them. Maybe he fell. The child fell in the morning and didn't tell the teacher about the bleeding. He didn't tell his family until he got home in the evening.
I told my son that although you didn't mean to, you also have a responsibility and need to apologize to others because you pulled his clothes and he broke his knee when he broke free.
The son nodded in agreement, bowed his head and said sorry to the child, but could not conceal the tears in his eyes.
The boy's grandmother insisted on filming, so I took them to the hospital. The doctor examined it and said it was a scratch. It's scabbed. The child can jump. Nothing will happen. It will be all right soon. There's no need to make a movie.
Grandma said she couldn't be the boss until her father came home from work at night.
I gave two boxes of milk and 50 yuan's money for trousers to my grandmother, and then I went home. When I called again in the evening, the father said that the child was fine and didn't need to go to the hospital again. He said that I handled it so well that they didn't feel the need to bother me anymore.
In fact, who is not a parent for the first time and who is not learning to educate their children for the first time, everyone is concerned about their children's affairs, but they are too concerned. Sometimes simple things get complicated.
Conflicts between children, first of all, let children understand clearly, such a situation is too much joking, or deliberately bullying, normal or accidental, different in nature, different in ways to deal with problems.
If you think it's no big deal, you can handle it yourself. Please remain calm. If you can't calm down or solve it, you must ask the teacher or the school for help.
If not, there will be police. Children always have to learn how to deal with problems correctly and appropriately, and use force to fight violence. We don't advocate it, do we?
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