When two people are in love, they will encounter some small frictions and contradictions.

Whenever this happens, most women will choose to be spoiled or perfunctory, while men always have different views on the problem. They always want to reason and solve problems.

However, this is not suitable for two people who love each other. Love is not a mathematical formula, and there is not so much logic.

Many times, when talking about problems that can be solved by feelings, women will not want to listen to your reason.

Whether you are unreasonable or not, when you try to reason with a woman, you lose, because all your reasons, in the eyes of a woman, have changed a taste and become proof that you don't love her.

So smart men will not reason with women in love, and they will have better ways to deal with the problems between two people.

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He Min had never been in love until he graduated from college. In the eyes of friends around her, she is a very rational and objective person. No matter what happens at ordinary times, everyone can be calm and rational. She never seems to get angry or quarrel with anyone.

Not two years after graduating from college, she met her current boyfriend, Wang Menggang. They are inseparable and very sweet.

But in the eyes of friends around him, He Min has been importunate since he fell in love and never listened to other people's opinions.

In the eyes of friends, the relationship between He Min and Wang Menggang is simply that He Min is working and Wang Menggang is constantly coaxing. Every quarrel ends with Wang Menggang's concession.

Wang Menggang's friend advised him that women should never become accustomed to it, and they should reason with her at ordinary times, and he Min should not be allowed to continue to importune. How can they live like this all day?

However, Wang Menggang enjoyed the feeling of indulging He Min. He told friends around him that he knew very well that women in love were not suitable for reason, and most problems could be solved by getting along, not by reason.

So even to outsiders, He Min became very strange when he was in love, always unreasonable, but in fact it was all under Wang Menggang's control.

Wang Menggang clearly knows that getting along with a woman in love should never be reasonable, but should talk about feelings.

-03-

No matter how rational a woman is, she will become very emotional when she is in love. She can't hear all the truth, just store what she wants in her mind.

Therefore, if a man wants to get along well with a woman, he should give up reasoning with her. When there are contradictions, it will be better to talk to her about feelings.

Admit mistakes at the first time.

Some men are particularly macho, thinking that they have done nothing wrong, that is, they have done nothing wrong, and they will not bow their heads in front of their parents, friends or girlfriends to admit their mistakes.

However, love and affection and friendship are different. Love is when two people change from rational individuals to emotional bodies, and many times rationality can't solve the problem.

Therefore, when two people encounter contradictions, as long as the man admits his mistake at the first time, the woman's attitude can be eased.

In fact, many times, the key to the problem is not who is right or wrong, but an attitude of men towards women when they encounter things.

As long as your attitude is acceptable to a woman, or just what she wants, her heart will be relieved instantly, instead of being entangled in the contradiction itself, and she can seriously think about it later. What is the problem?

Just coax one more woman.

Most women want to be spoiled by men in love when they are young. Even though they have worked and become adults, they still want to be each other's little princess in love.

Therefore, if a woman does something wrong, or if there is any contradiction between two people, if a man just blames her blindly, or reasons with her, it will make a woman feel unloved, and even feel that a man regards her as the object of criticism, not a lover.

Once you have this knowledge, women will be more angry and sad, and even more restless.

In fact, women are really simple emotionally. If you coax her and say something nice, her attitude towards you will change.

Even if she was stubborn before and refused to admit her mistake, if you coax her, she will start to reflect on herself after she calms down.

Never reason with a woman. Women in love are irrational.

Let her understand the problem with practical actions.

Talking is the easiest thing, just like many women will keep talking when men are driving, but in fact they can't help driving.

Men and women are the same in reasoning. Anyone can talk about reason, but it's not necessarily as simple as what reason says.

As a man in love, if you really find a problem between two people, you should use practical actions to guide the other party to find the key to the contradiction and correct the place where you really have problems, instead of just saying nothing and doing nothing.

After all, no woman will like a man who just talks and doesn't do it.

-04-

Everyone has a different definition of love, and the expected love state of two people is also different.

Some people may be the old couple's mode of getting along, and some people may be in love for a long time, but both love and marriage have a common feature, that is, don't reason with women.

A woman in love is emotional and blind. Many times they don't know the truth, but because they like it, because they love it and ignore the thing itself.

Therefore, it is enough to talk about feelings with them in feelings, and there is no need to talk too much about those big truths.