He and I also have reactions to our parents. In fact, many times, after the domestic violence, some of his mistakes to you are false. Therefore, only when his elders come can he truly realize his mistakes in domestic violence, apologize to me in front of them, and realize how serious his mistakes are.
If the circumstances are serious, you can call the police, and such behavior can still be recognized by people now, regardless of the attitude of washing your dirty linen in public.