Only when a man is determined to make his career into the world can he build the world.
The function of a person's victory is to achieve something.
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A man, a man who becomes a son of man, a father and a husband, has no career, no economic income and no consciousness of struggle and entrepreneurship. Satisfied with the existing food, clothing, housing and transportation, whether it is given by parents or by his wife and children, so enjoy it and live every day. What a shame it is in the eyes of his wife and children.
He is healthy and young, but he does nothing all day, eating and sleeping. In this society where there are many strong people and this career belongs to men, how unbearable it is for his relatives.
A man, a failed man, or he didn't work hard at all in the past, so he lived like a loser. How he sets an example for his children and how to make his wife look up in front of others.
What a sad thing it is for a person who has no career and no progress. He can't enjoy the joy of success, and he can't get the respect of society. What's more sad is his family. A wife has no strong arms to lean on, and a child has no father's shadow to get.
A man's success represents a symbol of glory, status and hero. The success of a man's career is a symbol of family happiness.
If a man's career is unsuccessful, it is a failed life.
Today, let's talk about how to inspire and awaken men's fighting spirit.
Three keys to a man's success
First, their fighting spirit (determination to build the world)
Confucius said, "Five out of ten, I am determined to learn; I am thirty years old; Forty without confusion; At the age of fifty, I knew my destiny; I am obedient at the age of sixty; I am still obedient at the age of seventy; I didn't cross the line inside. " .
Confucius studied hard at the age of fifteen and set a goal in life at the age of thirty. At the age of forty, there is nothing confusing in life. At the age of fifty, he understood his fate. At the age of sixty, he can treat all kinds of remarks correctly without feeling uncomfortable. At the age of seventy, he can do anything he wants without breaking the rules.
This is Confucius' self-evaluation of his life at the age of 30.
A person's ambition determines the first step to success.
Tell you a little story.
One should believe that he is an eagle. He caught a young eagle alone in Ying Chao at the top of the mountain. He took the baby eagle home and put it in the henhouse. Eagles and chickens peck, play and rest together. It thinks it is a chicken. The eagle has grown up and its wings are full. The owner wants to train it into a falcon, but because it is mixed with chickens all day, it has become exactly like a chicken and has no desire to fly at all. The host tried all kinds of methods, all to no avail. Finally, he took it to the top of the mountain and threw it out. The eagle fell like a stone and flapped its wings desperately in panic. In this way, it finally flew! Sometimes I don't know how good I am without pushing myself. You can summon the power of success through tempering.
A man is an eagle.
Second, the realm of a lady (mind, support)
Whether a man can successfully inspire his fighting spirit and achieve stable success depends on his partner (the realm of his wife)
In recent years, micro-plastic surgery has become a common practice for women. Many women who love beauty go for micro plastic surgery, face-lifting needle, hyaluronic acid, breast augmentation and hip augmentation. It's not that beauty is bad, but that everyone loves beauty. Besides external beauty, internal beauty is more important for women, so I say.
Women don't always think about breast augmentation and buttocks when they are fine. They should learn to increase their breasts and endurance. Men love women with big breasts and fat hips for a while, while men love women with big breasts and bearing capacity for a lifetime.
When Ma Yun wanted to create Alibaba, Zhang Ying silently supported him. Zhang Ying is one of the world-famous eighteen arhats of Alibaba. Today, Alibaba has become the first e-commerce company in China, and Ma Yun has also become the richest man in China. Like every successful man, Ma Yun is very grateful to this "unknown woman" around him. "But she is not the kind of woman who is really unknown." He emphasized this point very seriously. "Her own career is also developing very well. She is a woman who takes care of both career and life. " There is undeniable pride in words.
Socrates said, "A good marriage can bring you happiness, but an unhappy marriage can make you a philosopher." I think that's just his comfort to marry a bitch. How much can people get from living in the world? There is a bucket of rice in "fertile land" and a "half bed" between "thousand buildings" Therefore, the "other half bed" in life is very important.
Ma Yun said many times in his speech: "The most important thing to return to China is to have a good bed with a good man on it!"
When Ma Yungang started his business, he had no money and needed to mortgage his house to start his business. Zhang Ying agreed without saying anything. In the early days of Alibaba's business, Zhang Ying was not only a wife, but also a "business backbone". It was Zhang Ying who negotiated the first "big bill" of 8,000 RMB for "China Yellow Pages". When Ma Yun needs support, she is always the first to stand up, which fully reflects the pattern and realm of Zhang Ying.
Third, the wisdom of the tutor (good teacher)
A person's success is inseparable from a good family style, innate talent, acquired efforts, and even more inseparable from a good teacher.
Read thousands of books, take Wan Li Road, read countless people, famous teachers show the way, and distinguished people help.
I recommend you to watch a TV series "A Generation of Big Businessman Meng Luochuan".
Meng Luochuan, a first-generation businessman, tells the story that Meng Luochuan, the hero, inherited the ancestral firm "Ruifuxiang" from the age of 18, and developed it into a national brand with his own courage, showing the demeanor of a generation of Confucian businessmen.
Meng Luochuan eventually became a great businessman. First of all, he could not do without his talent and wisdom. At the beginning of the story, he helped the three brothers divide the treasure skillfully, indicating that he was born with intelligence, but it is not enough to rely on innate intelligence, but also on learning and practice the day after tomorrow. As the saying goes, intelligence can't do great things. It is because of Meng Luochuan's innate intelligence that he is so arrogant. When he set up shop in Beijing, he was young and frivolous. Instead of unsealing the store, he was fired by his father-in-law and humiliated by Cheng Baylor. The shopkeeper in Beijing also swallowed their anger and died. Meng Luochuan, who was young and frivolous, suffered various blows. He collapsed and refused to come down from the cliff. His mother Linda Gao gave him two choices. One is to jump down and throw it away. The second is to stand up like a big businessman. Meng Luochuan chose the latter and stood up bravely.
Later, I realized my mistakes and really studied. Not enough learning, not enough learning. Finally, under the guidance of Mr. Li Shipeng, I learned some knowledge needed to become a big enterprise. This also reflects a problem. In the process of growing up, family environment and educational background are extremely important for personal growth.
How important it is to have a good teacher!
Teacher Li Shipeng said in the first class: "The ancients said: If you want to teach it, ask its ambition first." As mentioned in the play, a big businessman should have the ambition of the whole world and the spirit of devouring the universe. His knowledge is connected with the road, and his work is connected with the country; Its potential is shocking, and it cries;
To do things, we must first have lofty aspirations, and then have clear goals. When teaching, the teacher said: Tao is a river, art is a boat; Tao is the rudder, and art is the paddle; No river can carry the next boat, and it is very sad to have no boat; Without rudder, there is no direction, without paddle, there is no power; Therefore, "Tao" is the direction method and "technique" is the method strategy. When the teacher asked if he wanted to study Taoism or study first, he chose surgery first. The teacher was very disappointed.
Later, the teacher told Meng Luochuan the importance of morality, and slowly guided Meng Luochuan to learn the way of great cause, and always gave Meng Luochuan the twelve-character mantra:
Tao and technique
Accept and give up
Constants and variables
merits and demerits
Square and circle
Life and death
Finally, Meng Luochuan became a great businessman, and the first national flag of the people of China was made by Rui Fuxiang.
A good teacher can not only show you the direction, but also help your career.
Anyone, any industry, with or without teachers, grows at different speeds, and the results must be different.
It doesn't matter who you are, but who you are influenced by. The level of the coach determines the performance of the players.
Nobody needs a coach. Bongo owes his success to the coach behind me. Since the age of 19, he has studied with more than 50 top coaches in the industry and has his own mentor.
In fact, today, Bongo is everyone's coach. Through studying in the monkey club, Bongo said that studying 36 member classes every day is also helping partners grow up and answer questions. Of course, he is not your life coach. Partners have the opportunity to study Bongo in depth and participate in the course offline. You are my student and I will be your coach.
When I become a friend's coach, I still have to test your enthusiasm for learning, whether you know how to persist, whether you are modest, whether you know how to respect and be grateful.
So, I hope everyone will keep studying. After the epidemic, everyone is welcome to come to the site for in-depth study after the open line class.
All right! This is today's daily life, Bongo said. We must remember that this is not how much we have learned, but how much we have done. Learning is more important than learning. In the monkey school, Xue Bangge said that the monkey club wrote the National Day class and practiced it in life, eventually forming a virtuous circle of perfect ending.
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I'm bongo. See you tomorrow!