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Being a full-time wife is disliked and picky by her husband. How can I fight back?
My hometown is in the countryside and my brother is in high school. Both parents are farmers and their economic conditions are very poor. My husband and I met in a training class. We have been dating for two years, and it is not easy to get together.

My mother-in-law objected at first. Later, my husband was worried that my parents and younger brother would drag him down, and he couldn't walk halfway. I didn't think anything was wrong afterwards. Contact me actively and want to get back together with me. I think I still have feelings for him after all, so I agree to continue to get along.

My husband's home is in the city, and he always thinks I'm not good enough for him. After marriage, I am worried about giving money to my family.

Before giving birth to a baby, I had a stable income and worked as an accountant in a private enterprise with a salary of more than 4 thousand. I got pregnant after marriage and vomited badly. My husband won't let me go to work. I have a holiday in February and the company recruits new people.

My child is 6 months old. I want to go out and look for a job, and let my mother-in-law take care of my baby. Mother-in-law says it is not good for the elderly to take care of their children. You'd better take care of them yourself. I want to hire someone to take care of the children, my husband said, I am not at ease.

I asked my mother to come, and my husband said it was inconvenient to have outsiders at home. In desperation, I chose to be a full-time wife.

Being a full-time wife without help is really tiring. Pushing the baby to buy food, coming back to cook, mopping the floor, nursing the baby, washing clothes, and taking a nap in the afternoon.

Sometimes I iron my husband's clothes, and when the baby wakes up and cries, I have to put down my work. I remember once, my husband's favorite suit was ironed in half, and then the baby woke up, so I stopped working and took care of the baby quickly. Later, the suit was not ironed.

My husband asked me to find a suit that day, but I found it was not ironed properly. My husband was impatient at that time, yelling at me: Don't you go to work, stay at home all day, and don't even have time to iron a suit?

I'm busy enough with the baby, and I have to do housework, which will inevitably lead to negligence.

Isn't it just taking a baby at home? Are you that busy? This is just an excuse.

Then he changed into other clothes and went to work, slamming the door. I brushed away my wronged tears. I think, that day, I traveled with a group and left the baby with you. You have no idea how tired women are!

That night, I told my husband that tonight, you look after the baby. I will sleep in the small bedroom by myself. I haven't slept well for a year. It's your turn.

My husband said, I have to work tomorrow.

You can ask for leave. I resigned. There's nothing wrong with asking for leave. This child is not mine alone. Why should I make such a big sacrifice!

My husband looked at me seriously and agreed.

However, the baby cried in the middle of the night, and the husband couldn't coax it. I have no choice but to get out!

When the baby is 8 months old, the breast milk is not enough to eat, so simply feed all the milk powder!

Just after my baby's first birthday, my husband gave me a slap in the face for giving money to my brother. I secretly hugged a tour group and quietly prepared to bring something.

When my husband got off work, I told him that I would travel and come back in a week. The house must be clean when you come back, and the children can't lose a catty. Now it's 18 kg. In addition, remember, children can't send their mother-in-law, and they can't let their mother-in-law come and take care of the baby. You can take care of it alone. If I come back and find that I didn't do what I said, I will continue to travel, and I can't say when I will come back.

My husband was about to stop me. I took the suitcase, pushed open the door, and went straight to the meeting place without looking back.

Travel during the day and take photos at night. After drying my circle of friends, I turned my phone to mute and fell asleep. It feels good to sleep till dawn! Happy!

The next morning, I turned on my mobile phone and found my husband's message: the child cried again in the middle of the night, looking for you. I can't take care of the children as a big man, wife, come back!

I don't answer, keep traveling!

At night, as usual, I fell asleep after drying my circle of friends, and my mobile phone was silent. The next morning, I found the baby video recorded by my husband, crying my head off, and my home was in a mess.

Husband also came to the voice, saying that he was eating instant noodles and had no time to eat delicious food. He hasn't cleaned the floor for two days, so eating some fresh vegetables has become a luxury. If you don't come back, I can't hold on!

I remain silent. On the seventh day, the trip was over. I hurried home and pushed open the door. I was shocked: the sofa was full of messy things, including clothes, toys and instant noodle pockets. The kitchen is full of instant noodle dregs, the big stove is dirty, the trash can is piled high, and the toilet has not been brushed for a week, which stinks. If I don't come back, my husband will go to his mother soon.

Put the baby on the scale, half a catty is missing. My husband and I lost our temper and you didn't go to work. Isn't that just taking care of the children at home?

Why don't you wash clothes, clean the floor, cook and brush the toilet? What did you do?

My husband finally admitted that it is not easy for me to take care of the baby at home. He never lost his temper with me again, but took the initiative to help me work and take care of the baby!

It is said that men are the pillars. In fact, women pay no less than men. It seems that women can't make money by sacrificing their career and income and taking care of their children at home. In fact, women save a lot of nanny fees for men. Many men can't see women pay, and they don't like women with their palms up. Women all over the world should remember that a full-time wife is always the most dangerous job for women. A woman can't cure a man. He will never know how difficult it is for a woman to be a full-time wife!