Therefore, as a man in the world of mortals, I have a say in this issue to some extent. Below, I solemnly express my views:
(A) Yan value-externalized in the line, "for a face to raise a wound."
The first factor that determines whether two people can be together is the face value. Many women (and some men) despise men who only talk about "color", but it is undeniable that face value is a resource, and it is said that face value can create value. When recruiting front desk, public relations and other positions in the workplace, both men and women must attach great importance to it, because it is pleasing to the eye, as long as customers are happy, money will naturally be available. As ordinary people, facing people with high value, even if they can't bring us direct economic value, they are at least "delicious", so they have the saying of "eye-catching".
The above emphasizes the universal importance of face value, and it is no exception in love relationships. We often hear that someone has a girlfriend. The first question is "Is it beautiful?" A girlfriend with high face value can give a man a full sense of happiness and gain. But face value is natural, which is the primary reason why many people with natural beauty are not short of boyfriends. In that case, what should a girl who is not born with beauty do?
I believe many people have heard that the appearance before the age of 20 (some people say 25/30) is given by parents, and the appearance after the age of 20 is their own responsibility. This means that after the age of 20, you are responsible for your own face value. And starting from the age of 20 is really a good start for us girls to talk about marriage.
So how to be responsible for your own face value? The most important thing is to face it squarely. You must not fantasize that your boyfriend is out of touch with the world. Whether unkempt or squatting, the boyfriend will stay with himself for life and death.
As an excellent girlfriend, you should keep healthy. In JJ Lin's Cultivating Love, "Take care of a wound for a face". I guess this sentence is based on Chinese medicine. As a person, if the body (internal organs) is riddled with holes, it will definitely be reflected in the face. For example, the face is greasy and covered with acne, which may be the result of endocrine disorders. Therefore, as a girl, we should take good care of our health. Of course, to maintain a healthy body, we can mainly start from two aspects: diet and exercise.
Over time, you can ensure a good mental state and a good figure. With suitable skin care products (cosmetics) and mito artifacts, I believe every girl can show her charm.
Of course, I don't encourage or recommend cosmetic surgery for the sake of beauty. Although we don't talk about "parents affected by the body" now, after all, the risk is too great and unnatural. Nature is the most beautiful.
(2) Self-cultivation-internalizing in the heart, "Others have love, we can't imitate it."
Deciding whether two people can be together mainly depends on the face value, and deciding whether two people can be together for a long time depends on self-cultivation. As for self-cultivation, there are many traditional virtues in our country, such as filial piety to parents, love of labor, courtesy to people, and going to the kitchen under the hall. As everyone knows, I won't describe them here. What I want to say is that as an excellent girlfriend, you should learn not to take other people's love, but to compare it with your own.
There are too many loving scenes in various soap operas and variety shows now. Many girls who are poisoned too much mistakenly think that it is true love, but they don't know that fairy tales are lies. Love can be romantic, but it will be dull in the end. My very direct judgment is that Korean dramas have been raging in Chinese mainland for many years, which has aggravated the divorce rate in China. Therefore, I think that both boys and girls should make a careful choice and stick to it in the future. What they have is the best. In the long years, constant companionship is the most real romance.
Cultivate love, and wish every couple a happy ending when Valentine's Day comes!