The selfishness of human nature is not something you can change. Learning to adapt is king. Don't change your natural appearance just to please some people. Natural beauty is the real beauty. Establish professionalism. If you like your job, you should do your best to make more contributions. If you don't like it, you should try to adjust it, which is good for society and individuals. I spend most of my life dealing with work, and I can't let it become a chore.