Mom always says you are ugly, which makes you feel inferior. But it's not your fault whether you're ugly or not. And it’s not my mother who has the final say whether she is ugly or not.

First, I have the same experience as you.

When I was a child, my mother always said that I was ugly, which also made me feel very low self-esteem. But it turns out that I am not ugly in the eyes of others. From time to time, people would praise me for my good looks in front of my mother, with eyes full of envy.

Now that I have grown up, I sometimes jokingly say to my mother: "When I was a child, you always said I was ugly, so why didn't you make me prettier? And in the eyes of others , I'm not that ugly!"

My mother also smiled and said to me: "No matter how good your child is, you can't just praise your child! You only praise others. And, children, remember: in the hearts of parents, their children are always the best!"

This is true! Maybe it’s a characteristic of my mother’s generation, maybe it’s in line with China’s thousands of years of cultural tradition of being humble!

Second, whether you are beautiful or not depends not only on your face, but more importantly on your temperament.

Perhaps not all of us are naturally beautiful, and it is impossible for everyone to have a face as beautiful as a fairy, but everyone can improve their temperament, and everyone can achieve their own beauty from the inside out. beautiful. This kind of beauty will not be drowned by time. The more it goes through the precipitation of time, the more radiant it becomes.

Thirdly, celebrity faces are not born, most of them are created by makeup.

Every star on the screen looks glamorous because of their makeup and costumes. When celebrities take off their makeup and fancy clothes, they still look like ordinary people. Some celebrities are frighteningly ugly without makeup.

So if you want, you can also use makeup and clothing to modify yourself and increase your confidence.

Fourth, you can develop your other abilities.

When God closes a door for you, it will also open a window. Even if you don't have a beautiful face, you may still have extraordinary abilities. You can learn what you like, and you can give full play to your talents. You don't compete with others in appearance, but you can compete with others in intelligence.

In short, there are many ways to improve your self-confidence. You must learn to use your strengths and avoid weaknesses. Don’t compare your shortcomings with others’ strengths. Try to make your strengths longer. As long as you On the one hand, if you can surpass others and be far ahead, you will still gain a confident self!

I am Vanilla Pearl,

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