Love does not need explanation, but it can explain everything. Although love is just one of many emotions, it is far more profound than others and comes helplessly.
Some people never grow old, and some people never get young. True love often knows no age boundaries, especially in this modern era, love with a large age difference has long been commonplace. In the perception of many people, the love between mother and child is still looked upon strangely by the secular world. Although this kind of true love is controversial, why would some people choose love between mother and child regardless of everything?
Long life may be the best way to express love. The two old people walking hand in hand in the streets, their hearts blending with each other, their eyes looking at each other, will inevitably make many young people envious, how wonderful it would be for me to have such a love. After all, ending up with you accidentally is a beautiful love that many people yearn for. I wonder if you still remember that in the early years, a 27-year-old black-haired boy risked everything just to marry a 59-year-old white-haired grandma?
From secret love to marriage, it can be said that it took a long time and even many ups and downs before two people who truly loved each other came together hand in hand. I believe many people are very concerned about this relationship. After all, after 24 years, what is their recent life situation like? Countless people will be very curious. How much did they go through, spanning three reincarnations in age, before they could insist on coming together regardless of worldly views?
Perhaps, for the 59-year-old grandma at that time, she just happened to meet a like-minded young man. Even she never thought that she could find true love in her sixties. After all, she is well aware of her past losses, which makes her know how to cherish a relationship, so she gives her 27-year-old boyfriend a warm embrace and spiritual support. Despite her 59-year-old age, she is just a person who has been around the world for a long time. Just a woman.
Nowadays, with the progress of society, people's minds have become more and more open. There has always been no shortage of couples with large age gaps in life, just like a poem written by Su Shi: "Eighteen brides and eight Juro, with pale hair and red makeup. Mandarin ducks sleep in pairs at night, with pear blossoms pressing against begonias. This style of painting has existed since ancient times. Many people think that the relationship between mother and child is very complicated. It not only has to face social pressure, but also requires a lot of courage. But ultimately, no matter what ingredients are mixed in the love between two people, they just love each other.
Is the love between you and me very important from a secular perspective? On the one hand, it cannot be denied that all people are created equal, and everyone has the right to pursue happiness. On the other hand, your life is your own, not someone else's, because no one will feel the same way. Throughout the ages, in many marriages, the husband is older than his wife, and the wife is as young as a bird, but this couple is reversed, with the wife being three times older than the husband. It is generally accepted that people born every five years form a generation, and there will always be some generation gap, let alone couples with a 32-year age gap.
The 32-year-old age difference will inevitably lead to many problems. The first one is the generation gap. Communication is a very important point. The word communication may seem very ordinary, but it plays a vital role in love. role. So how did the 59-year-old bride and the 27-year-old groom overcome many difficulties? After all, no matter how sweet their partnership is, they can’t escape all kinds of trivial matters in married life. This has to start from the wonderful time when they met. Talk about it.
In this marriage, the spirited young man is called Li Yucheng. He was born in Liaoning, Northeast China, in 1969 into a rural family. The current wife is Ma Yuqin from the same village. At that time, she was only 32 years old with charming eyebrows, at the most beautiful age for a woman. Ma Yuqin is a well-known actor in the Northeastern duo. What she didn't know was that Li Yucheng had been admiring her at a young age and once thought she was too beautiful.
When 8-year-old Li Yucheng entered school, Ma Yuqin had already become a married woman, and the charm of a woman nourished by marriage was still there. When Ma Yuqin performed once, Li Yucheng was also watching, and this chance paved the way for their future love. Li Yucheng was attracted by her excellent acting skills and unique charm. For the first time, he felt an unprecedented sense of envy and admiration. This scene left a wonderful memory.
After years of baptism, Li Yucheng has grown into a young man, and it is time for him to marry and have children. His parents began to arrange blind dates for him and introduce him to beautiful girls. But in his heart, how could someone marry someone else, so he made all kinds of excuses to fend off his parents. Even when he heard that Ma Yuqin was performing somewhere, he would follow him all the way. If Ma Yunqin had a performance, he would also notify him as much as possible. 27-year-old Li Yucheng joined the Caotai Opera Troupe she sponsored, and the two of them starred in the Northeastern Duo Duo together. They almost went in and out together and were inseparable.
Love is often so subtle, feelings arise inadvertently. After getting along for a long time, the two of them will have a good impression of each other. Some people will say that Ma Yuqin covets his youth and vigour, while Li Yucheng covets her money. The two of them just have mutual intentions. At that time, Ma Yuqin was like a dead tree with new flowers blooming. Her first husband passed away and returned to the West, leaving her alone to face the cold world. Faced with Li Yucheng's hard pursuit, her long-lost heart naturally couldn't resist it. .
The combination of the two has naturally been questioned by many people.
Li Yucheng's parents are extremely opposed to this. No family would agree to such a situation. After all, age is on the bright side. Ma Yunqin was well aware of Li Yucheng's difficulties and wanted him to forget her and leave his hometown. However, Li Yucheng only had her in his heart, just like ten cows that couldn't pull her back, and finally found her after many twists and turns.
Li Yucheng made a decision and took her directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register for marriage with her household registration book. When Li Yucheng's parents found out, it was already too late. The parents were ridiculed and discussed by their neighbors. In the face of doubts from others, they still recognized this marriage that was full of worldly sunshine. At first, there was another most important reason: Ma Yuqin's age did not allow her to have another child, but the love between the two still moved her parents.
After marriage, Li Yucheng doted on his wife very much. Seeing that her husband was still so young, he himself was already senile. She thought deeply for a long time, thinking that since happiness came to her, she must seize this opportunity of happiness. In order to be more compatible with her husband, she spent all her savings on plastic surgery to remove wrinkles. It can be said that she risked her life just for the beautiful love between the two of them. After the plastic surgery, the two of them were surprised. The effect was extremely good. They looked much younger for a while. From the appearance alone, they seemed to be a perfect match.
The two of them looked at their new faces and felt happy. However, the good times did not last long. Within two years, all the wrinkles on Ma Yunqin's face grew back. But she never regretted it: "I also lived a beautiful life just to be beautiful." After all, women only want to please their appearance. Who doesn't want to be beautiful when she meets love? This is her choice and right.
Some people will say: "There is nothing strange in the world." They once broke the traditional concept of marriage, and their relationship remains the same after 24 years of thick and thin. Although Ma Yuqin's face is full of wrinkles, Li Yucheng doesn't mind at all. Logically speaking, such a marriage that goes against the rules of the world will not go very far, but they have been in love for 24 years and have indeed proved to the world through personal experience that love knows no age.
Tu Lei once said: What gives a woman hope is not love, but a man’s responsibility; what gives a man a sense of security is not love, but a woman’s contribution to the family.
"Love kills time, and time also kills love." Perhaps true love does not care about your appearance. As long as the first two hearts remain unchanged, it is the best interpretation of love.
What do you think of this 32-year age gap?