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Old love and new love

There is such a love story.

T (Kang Tae-ha) is the owner of a construction company. He and H (Han Yeo-reum) fell in love at first sight while traveling by train. H was still a college student at the time.

The two have been in love for five years. During these five years, T worked day and night for the company, and H went through a psychological process of obsession, doubt, sadness and disappointment. She especially could not forgive T. When she needed him most, that is, when her father passed away, he was not by her side and didn't even answer the phone.

H was dumped by T out of anger, causing T to lose the fiancée he had already recognized and was at a loss what to do.

H dumped T and missed her father very much. She was depressed for a long time. In order to help H get out of her emotional trough, her mother funded the establishment of an interior design company for her, allowing her to fight for her ideals and do what she likes. She has good friends in the studio, and her mother also rented a house for them, and asked them to pay the meager rent every month.

H’s company is in a recession and his income is not high, so he meets N (Nam Ha-jin) on a blind date. N is a colleague of H's friend. He is a very dedicated and caring plastic surgeon who makes people feel very down-to-earth and warm.

He was forced by his mother to go on a blind date, but no one fell in love with him. Although he and H had only been in love for a year, he already regarded H as his fiancée in his heart. No matter what happened, he would They all chose to believe H. He didn't even care about his own privacy. He gave H the password to his mobile phone and room, so that H could come and go freely.

His kindness to H can be said to be considerate. No matter what time, his shoulders can be relied on, his chest can be hugged, his hands are held tightly, and he is even willing to H and T fight.

If this story develops like this, I still agree with the values ??of the screenwriter of "Discovery of Love". After all, that's how life is, don't live in the past, but live in the present. Instead of being tortured to death by the so-called failed "love", it is better to cherish the people in front of you and live your life well every day.

Maybe the screenwriter deliberately wants people to understand the difficulty of falling in love, or maybe the reality is more complicated than imagined.

Because of the company's downturn, H couldn't even pay the rent, so she wrote an IOU to her mother, which allowed her to enjoy N's good things while rejecting N's proposal.

It just so happened that the old love reunited at this time. Not only did T want to compete with H's current employer, but T and H also had a working relationship.

In the process of working, two people who had hurt each other often couldn't help recalling the past and constantly getting to know each other in depth. Little by little, answers came to those things that had no time to communicate and explain in the past five years. , allowing them to bury the hatchet. With T's help, H's financial situation has become more and more independent, but this has made the relationship between N and H become more and more floating.

In my eyes, N is really a warm man. Although he is not sure whether H really loves him, he is sure that he wants to marry H, so he has repeatedly tolerated H's mistakes. H was unwilling to let go of her relationship with N, let alone hurt N. She agreed to N's proposal when she was very conflicted. For this reason, T also very wisely planned to quit. He was made like a fool by his own feelings, but he still did not want to admit that he had lost. He regained H's trust on the pretext of achieving H's career.

Every time H and T work and don't return to him, N wonders if H really loves him. He doesn't understand why H stays alone with T for so long and sheds tears in front of T when he is with him. He knows that T also likes H, but he doesn't understand their relationship. So sometimes he was afraid to talk to H about his life experience, fearing that he would be abandoned and looked down upon. This kind of depression caused him to have a headache and had to take medicine. Every time he didn't get an answer and had to admit defeat, he suppressed himself.

After his proposal was successful, N found a collection box in H's room and solved the mystery in his heart. N finally learned that H had been in love with T for 5 years and then broke up, but they still had each other in their hearts. He wanted H to stop working with T immediately, but H was unwilling.

N understands one thing, it is impossible to love a woman who cannot forget her ex. No matter how good he is to H and how much he trusts H, if he is unhappy, he will always feel insecure. He hates himself for not wanting to break up, but he also feels that he is the one who should really quit.

The finale is that after N and H broke up, H went to find T a year later.

The reunion of T and H makes many people think it is reasonable, but it disgusts me, not only because it is unfair to reunite with an old love, but also because I think people who understand love should not let people who love themselves get hurt.

If I were a screenwriter, I would not write it like this. I would write that after H was abandoned by two people, he worked hard for his career alone. It may be a bit cruel and unfair to the two male protagonists, but if it is truly a discovery of love, the person H should fall in love with first is herself.

In this drama, H seems to be a happy person, but in fact she doesn’t understand and love herself very much, so when love comes, she will like someone inexplicably, but she doesn’t like her very much. She doesn’t know what she really loves about him (T), but she’s not sure what he likes about her; when she really meets a very good man (N) and feels fairy tale love, she doesn’t know what she should do. Only by accepting it can you feel at ease. There seems to be a lack of tacit understanding, but you feel that you deserve it. And when T helped her find her original dream and untie her knot, she made up her mind to become the person she wanted to be, or to face her own heart.

The love in fairy tales is fake, but the love in real life is real.

After the "fiancée" in the fairy tale meets the prince, all her troubles disappear, but the "fiancée" in real life is where all the troubles begin.

The trouble is not that women are trouble, or that men are trouble, but that two people regard each other as beings when they do not really understand the meaning of "marriage", or when they are still in love. It is impossible to become an "old married couple".

The "emotion" of an old couple can never satisfy unmarried men and women, because it is too deep and real, so real that you are afraid that it is true.

In a nutshell, the relationship between an old couple is asking for trouble - I know clearly that you have short legs, you look ugly, you lose your temper, you are self-centered, and you have a history of love. I still support you and love you, because we no longer regard each other as a trouble, but an indispensable part of my life. I feel at ease when you are here. Two people must think this way before their left hand can touch their right hand.

Many times, people take the "love" of marriage for granted, thinking that time will make "love more real." However, this real love does not need to be as "cautious" as in love, it is just "plain" .

Just like the two male protagonists of this story. T felt that H should understand how busy he was, so he hung up the phone before H finished speaking, did not answer H's calls, or even showed up. Instead, he complained that H was too clingy and childish. N feels that if he wants to get married, he should find someone he has feelings for, give her H care and love, and just be obedient no matter what happens. However, he is always worried that he cannot know himself and his enemy. In the end, his single dedication and patience make him hate in his heart. Choose to give up.

In fact, love is language and love is action. It will never exist, I’ll know it if you don’t tell me! Never exist, I can understand you even if you don’t appear! It doesn't exist, you don't give me sincerity and you still let me fall in love with you.

In the world, there is no kind of love called "the love of an old husband and wife", but there is a kind of love called "the love of an old husband and wife." The so-called heart-to-heart connection is just falling in love again and again. The so-called love is just knowing that we will fall in love again. Once active communication stops, no matter how old a couple is, it will be difficult for them to connect with each other, and they may even be unable to maintain their relationship.

In this movie, what I hear most often is not "I like you" or "I love you", but "I'm sorry". Between husband and wife, between lovers, the right feeling should be "thank you". Thank you for your sacrifice for me, thank you for making me feel so good about myself, thank you for appearing in front of me when I need it most...

Just like all the good things in the world, we need to work hard to create them. , the same goes for love and marriage. If two people sincerely work together for tomorrow and are willing to take the time to understand and communicate, even an old love can become a new love. Otherwise, even a new love will become an old love.