Hormones in a mother’s body change drastically during pregnancy. Gaining weight, acne, and darkening are all possible. Many mothers who were originally beautiful will sigh after giving birth to a baby: they have sacrificed for their children. Beauty.

And this mother will definitely be glad that she gave birth to such a little angel!

Recently. A video went viral on Twitter. A mother was sitting in a car, looking at her face after giving birth to a baby and feeling doubly sad.

When the daughter in the back seat heard this, she suddenly said to her mother: "No, your nose is not deformed! You are beautiful."

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"Even the acne on the face is beautiful!"

I saw my mother's face changing from sad to relieved, to Surprise, then relief, and finally said to the child with tears in his eyes: "Yes, I shouldn't have said that about myself." And thanked the child:

With such a warm-hearted child, so what if we encounter many difficulties in order to welcome her arrival?

The younger daughter can respond as soon as her mother expresses it and provide comfort. She must have strong empathy and be able to sense the emotions of others.

An empathetic child can always gain recognition and love from others, so how do parents cultivate this ability in their children?

If a child has never tried the feeling of being understood by others, it will be difficult for him to understand others. Only when a child has experienced being empathized with by others, will the child understand when others encounter difficulties. Understand others like your parents do.

In the process of communicating with children, we also need to let the children know what their current emotions are, so that they can keenly perceive the emotions of others.

Therefore, when a child feels frustrated due to difficulties, parents should not say: "You can't even do something so simple."

Instead, say: "I know you worked hard, and we can work harder."

When the child feels scared, Dad Mom, don't say: "There is nothing to be afraid of."

Instead, say: "I know you are scared, but I believe you can overcome it in the end."

When a child's toy is taken away, don't say: "There's nothing to be angry about, I'll just buy you another one."

Instead, say: "I know you are angry, let's go together to seek justice."

Only by having empathy for children can children have empathy for others. Empathy.

In addition to children’s natural sensitivity, empathy can be cultivated through training.

In life, we often encounter people with various emotions, such as happy children, irritable employees, or various characters in TV series.

When seeing these people, parents can ask their children: What emotion is he in now? What kind of help do you think he needs?

When children can regularly think from others’ perspective, empathy will be developed.

What heart-warming words has your child said to you? Share it in the comment area!

I am the scholar, see you next time!