As for the ugliness of the first image, is it a shortcoming? Yes, but you have to understand that the saddest thing is that people's first impression of you is "ugly", the second impression is "ugly", and even the last thing they remember about you is "ugly".
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When you are at the low end of the food chain, beauty can make most people feel good about you and give you some bread;
But the higher you go, the less beauty will bring you.
When what you want is not bread crumbs, but a throne, no one cares if you are beautiful.
Women are like this, not to mention men.
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Don't try to cover up your other shortcomings with low-value reasons.
four
I think most people underestimate the efforts made the day after tomorrow, and even underestimate the charm of personality.
five
What did the little devil tell you?
"If you are ugly, you should read more books."
six
What is the use of a good-looking programmer? You can't generate code automatically.
seven
Appearance is far less important than money! ! !
eight
Accept the fact that you have suffered. .
nine
Since the childhood, there is a deep-rooted concept in my mind:
Men are not ugly.
There are no ugly women, only lazy women.
But the reason why I am still a "Yan clan" who thinks that all problems that can't be solved by scientific reason are related to looks today is because-
I really feel ugly, mostly because I have a bad brain.
People with sexy brains simply have their own beauty function.
10
What is important in communication is elegant posture, decent speech, well-founded communication and comfortable scale, and the importance of face value ranks fifth.
These important factors can be improved and perfected through the efforts of the day after tomorrow.