My blind date was a surgical resident who was very busy at work. We chatted for a month and met three times.

For the first time, because of the special nature of the epidemic (we met while wearing masks), we walked in the park for an afternoon and we felt very happy chatting. He kept showing me his value. , I think he is really excellent. After the first meeting, he was very enthusiastic. He would send me WeChat messages in the morning and evening. Once he reported to me at 5 a.m. after getting off the night shift, until...

The second time we met, the background of the meeting was at the airport. Diversion, he might have to go to another city for support. I said I would buy him some food, but he said that was embarrassing, and he was not sure whether he needed to leave. But he came to me before a meeting in the afternoon, and he happened to be donating blood at a blood station near my home. I thought that he, a boy, was too embarrassed to accept my things. After all, he had never bought me a cup of milk tea. So after he said this, I said, I will send it to you after you have the results of the meeting. That day, I went to the blood donation car to find him, and he was donating blood. After all, it was the second time we met, so he was a little shy, and he worked in a blood station. The officer told me to go down and wait for someone. I was nervous so I said yes and I would wait for him outside the car. He didn't feel very happy after he came out. (Is it because I didn't donate blood? I was on my period, so I didn't donate blood.) As a result, within five minutes of meeting him, he rushed back to the meeting and sent me back to the gate of the community. There was no WeChat message on the night of the meeting or the next morning. I took the initiative to ask him at noon the next day if there was any result from the meeting. He replied to me three hours later and said he didn't need to go for the time being. He chatted about taking a ride and asked me what car I drove. I told him that I didn't know much about cars, I only knew it was a Volkswagen, and he replied okay and went to work. But I feel that when he gets along with me, his focus has always been on what my parents do? Do I live in the same house with my sister? What car do I drive? Never cared about what you like to eat? Do you like sports? Do you have any hobbies?

I wanted to give up at this time, but a day later, he called me again in the afternoon, but I didn’t show much enthusiasm at the time. I said I was driving, and he said he would call me in the evening. Chatting on WeChat, but when I sent him a WeChat message at 9:30 in the evening, he ignored me, but the WeChat movement was moving. The next morning, he said that he went to bed early the day before, and I didn’t expose him, but he wasn’t very enthusiastic either. respond. Later I thought maybe he was tired or helpless, so I let the matter go.

After that, every day I saw funny videos, I would send them to him, so we didn’t talk much every day, and we would only chat once or twice. Later, I suddenly discovered that every time we chatted, he said that he was busy or was going to bed, and advised me to sleep. I felt that he didn't want to talk to me. I always wanted to find an opportunity to have a good chat with him, and one night we were together. We had a serious chat about our vision for the future, and found that we both had similar ideas, and I also mentioned a couple of my value points. After that day, I felt that we were pretty good, and the next day neither of us had any idea. After looking for the other party, he asked the introducer to ask about my family situation. I thought it was a good idea, so he took the initiative to find me on the morning of the third day, and we chatted like this for two more days.

The third time we met, I took my little sister to play near his house. He was resting, so I told him to bring him some food, otherwise I might spoil it. He was also very happy. I drove to his house to wait for him. He said he was just driving out. I felt that he was afraid that I would invite him to play with me, so he said he wanted to drive back to the work. Maybe I was overthinking it. I handed the food to him and left. It might make people feel panicked, hahaha.

That night, we had a very happy chat. He mentioned that he felt that I was too formal, and also said that he could predict what would happen next. Please listen to the breakdown next time. I felt that the chat was quite good, and then the next The next day I called him again at 9:30, but he didn't reply. The third morning he told me that he had gone to bed early. He might have gone to bed early that day. I said I guessed it, early! But in fact, every time he doesn't reply to me, I can't sleep and I think about the reason. Then I stopped taking the initiative for a few days, and he also tacitly agreed not to send me any more messages. It was like this for 5 or 6 days, but I still followed his WeChat Moments. After two days, he set the WeChat Moments to three. Heaven can see, there are two days that are set to be visible for half a year like me. I thought that if he was as unhappy as me, I thought I would take the initiative, what the hell, be bold, I will test it again. I sent him another WeChat message saying that I knew I shouldn’t contact you, but I really wanted to know about the issue last time. He said he was still writing medical records, and I said you should be busy first, and I’ll wait for you to finish writing, and then go over. I asked him if he was done for an hour, but he didn't reply, but after another hour he sent a message on Weibo. (I have been secretly following his Weibo because I saw a girl he was chatting with on Weibo, and when people asked him when he would get married, he said it would be soon. I even suspected that he had a girlfriend, but I didn’t think so. As for going out on a blind date after getting married soon) I was angry, but I decided not to worry about it.

Later, when he passed the national postgraduate entrance examination, he exceeded the national level by 1 point. I sent him the results and congratulated him for getting online. He said that the independent score line was not released and he probably wouldn’t be able to get in. I was actually trying to comfort him by saying that I felt that getting into the exam was more important than what school he got into. He replied to me and said that he just thought he would do well in the exam. School is important, but I feel like he is very arrogant, angry with me, or dislikes me. But I still responded generously and said, I am very happy for you and wish you well. Then I saw a very negative status on his WeChat Moments. I commented, "Come on, but he didn't reply." A few days later I went to a shopping mall and he walked in and out, which was a coincidence.

I thought it must be fate, so I called him again. Without even saying a word, he said he would call me later, and then nothing happened...