If you become more and more indifferent, you think you have grown up, but you haven't. Be gentle when you grow up and be gentle with the whole world.
We expect others' approval so much that we finally realize that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others.
Everyone has a forest of their own. The lost people are lost, and the people they meet will meet again. -Haruki Murakami
Don't disappoint people when you love, the scenery when you play, the bed when you sleep, and yourself when you are alone.
6. All the surprises and good luck in the world are your accumulated gentleness and kindness. Be a gentle and virtuous person with a strong heart, warm yourself and illuminate others!
7. Don't listen to other people's bluff, but rely on your own ability to complete every step of your life. I have no material in my stomach, no skills in my hand, and it is useless to know more people.
8. Sometimes, we live very tired, not because life is too mean, but because we are too easily infected by the external atmosphere and influenced by other people's emotions.
9. Remember, never threaten anyone with leaving, because in the end, you will find that you are really not that important.
10. Live yourself as a beam of light, confident and frank, radiant, unwilling to do things, unwilling to persist, unwilling to be kitsch, unwilling to go with the flow.
1 1. No matter who you are too enthusiastic about, it increases the probability of not being cherished. If there is no excessive joy, there will be no extreme sadness. -Osamu Dazai's "Human Disqualification"
12. We may always miss many people and grow up in tears, but I hope you can always be yourself, have a clear conscience and love and be loved without reservation.
13. I feel more and more that life doesn't need too many rules. On the premise of not violating morality and principles, you don't have to define yourself in some way, just be happy casually.
14. Every time I want to find someone to accompany me, I find that some people can't find it, some people shouldn't, and some people can't. I realized that the person who accompanies you the most is yourself.
15. When you are constantly worried, it means that you need to go out and see the world. See different scenery, meet different people and things, and you will know that your fault is to think too much.
16. True purity is neither simplicity nor ignorance of the sinister environment. But after seeing all kinds of hardships and ugliness, I still retain my original kindness and innocence and stick to my own principles.
17. Turn back if you can't walk. If you can't let go of love, if you can't get enthusiasm, you will stop. Don't treat wishful thinking as loneliness and boredom as playing hard to get.
18. In winter, it's the takeaway brother who delivers your meal, the comedian who makes you laugh, and the drip driver who picks you up all over the world. So for the rest of my life, money is enough.
19. Let bygones be bygones. No matter how bad things happened today, you shouldn't feel sad. Life is not long, live a happy life with a willing mind.
20. Your humble request will only bring the pride of the other party and your own sense of powerlessness. It is better to turn yourself into a worthy person than to keep someone who wants to leave.
2 1. The biggest lesson I have learned from my life in recent years is not to face life positively. Don't eat if you can't eat, don't sleep if you can't sleep, don't chase if you miss it, wait if you can't get it, and persist if you can't die.
22. How many people left midway and how many people changed trains midway; A few hearts can concentrate, and a few feelings will never leave. After wind and rain, we can see through the truth and falsehood of people's hearts; Adversity and * * *, to understand the mood of the cold and warm.
23. No one knows what you want without opening your mouth; If you don't do it, any idea will only wander in your mind; If you don't take a step, you will never find the way forward. In fact, you are strong, but laziness helps you.
24. The cruelest thing brought by growing up is not to say goodbye to someone you think will never be separated, not to experience the messy scars in your heart after those setbacks, but to touch you once, and then you will never be moved again.
25. Don't expect too much about what didn't happen, and don't be too anxious about what didn't happen. Doing what you should do well, no matter what the result is, maintaining a carefree attitude is the best state of life.
26. You still have a long life. Don't explain everything beforehand. Enjoy the scenery while walking. Everything should be done slowly. In a tired life, there must always be some gentle dreams. May everything truly live up to your expectations, may all efforts be rewarded, and may everything be as you wish.
27. Most people who live a good life in this world are ordinary people. They want to eat and drink, dress up, read books, pursue certain basic materials, and then spend money to make themselves happy and grounded.