First, create a good personal image.
(1) Daily modification: shave, trim eyebrows, cut nose hair, and keep nails short, clean and tidy;
(2) Personal hygiene: Don't smell when bathing, brushing your teeth, changing clothes, etc.
(3) clothes: clothes would rather be a smaller size than a larger size.
(4) Matching, the matching color of belts and shoes is the same.
(5) Shoes and hairstyles are the most worthwhile places for you to invest.
It is related to men's fashion magazines such as color matching, clothes style, shoe type, personalized hairstyle and Mr. Fashion. All these questions have answers.
Second, cultivate body language.
It is more important to express whether a man is confident than what he says. Maybe some people don't notice these body languages themselves, but when you deal with women, these small details will make a huge difference.
The body language of male leaders who embody value is confident and relaxed. Bad body language makes people feel stressed and insecure.
1, several points to note:
Relax, hold your head high, keep your back straight, relax your shoulders and lean back. Every movement should be slowed down and taken slowly. When walking and standing, your feet should be shoulder-width apart, your arms should be relaxed, your sides should naturally droop, and you should walk more slowly than usual.
When sitting, stretch your body, spread your legs naturally, take up more space, and still keep your shoulders back, which makes you look comfortable.
2. Some points to avoid:
Lean forward, keep your head down, don't stand up straight, do some small gestures (such as shaking your hands and shaking your head), put your hands in your pockets, or cross your arms, shake your legs when sitting, or curl your feet under the chair, and suddenly have a big movement, showing nervous energy, fidgeting, fidgeting and uncomfortable expressions.
Third, intonation, eyes and smile.
1, intonation
Most people speak too fast, which shows that a person is not confident. First, try to slow down and make your voice low. Remember to pause when you speak. Deliberate pause can arouse suspense and attract attention.
2. Eyes
When you make eye contact with a woman, keep this communication. If she looks at you, you avoid it first, which means you are not confident. However, be careful not to stare at each other all the time. We can try "triangle gaze": slowly see her right eye from her left eye, and then reach her lips, creating implicit sexual tension.
Step 3 smile
Smiling is a powerful weapon for chasing girls. A smile shows that you are a happy person, and you always keep a confident and optimistic smile.
Fourth, love sports.
Embody the masculine temperament of men to the fullest. 82% of the women interviewed think that men are very sexy when they exercise, especially when they participate in competitive sports. Others said: "His sweat after exercise always makes my heart beat faster and makes me feel so masculine.
Fifth, cultivate your sense of humor.
Humor is the expression of men's wisdom, but this kind of humor is not a vulgar and explicit joke, but a humor that is inadvertently revealed. In the survey, 70% of women believe that a man's sense of humor often represents intelligence, good communication and strong viability.
Six, * * * tenderness
Although women like rough and masculine men, they think that "rough and violent" is not the embodiment of "masculinity". On the contrary, * * * is single-minded, gentle and patient, which makes you "man enough".
Seven, work hard
In the annual ranking of People magazine in the United States, most of the top people are professional men. They care about politics, are confident, have career pursuits, and have a good performance in their careers. In the survey, half of women think that "men at work are sexy".
Eight, mature and steady
In recent years, "uncle" men have become popular all over the world, mostly middle-aged men aged 35 to 50. One of the reasons why women like older men is that they are attracted by their calm, tolerant, fair and responsible personality. In the survey, 60% of women think that men who do things calmly are "manly".