If you don't do it, you are really asking for trouble. Persuade people with wisdom, not with body. I don't think you can do better than the original. You don't ask if you agree to carry a handsome boy. If someone says you are more beautiful, you should first ask whether your body agrees, whether your back can move, how long you can carry it, and so on. You can't say that you treat yourself as a person with a purpose, or that you look better than others.