This is the sentence I have heard the most in the parenting experience of the older generation.

I remember once on the bus, my aunt quietly leaned over my ear and said, "Look at the man in front, the bag behind his head is so big." His mother certainly didn't give him a crew cut when he was a child. How ugly! Look at the man in the first row. The back is flat and flat. It's beautiful! "

I disagreed with my aunt and replied, "I think the round one looks good, but the flat one is not so good!" " ! Hearing this, my aunt said with an unhappy face, "What do you know? Our experienced people's aesthetic vision can't be wrong, and your child will sleep flat in the future. "

Hearing this, I can't help shuddering. I really want to cry at the thought that my child will suffer such torture in the future. What is the difference between this and ancient women's "foot binding"? It is difficult to get rid of this bad habit through reform and opening up, but I still want my children to enjoy the deformed beauty of "sleeping flat". Even if I am killed in the future, I will not let my child's head become like this.

Why do older people always give their children a "flat head"? In fact, the reason why "sleeping flat head" has been passed down from generation to generation is inseparable from the ancients. Next, I will solve the mystery for you.

1. The ancients designated "the sky is full of Fiona Fang" as a blessed person.

In the ancient people's ideological system, Fiona Fang was the blessed one only when the heaven was perfect, so everyone deliberately made their children such blessed people, and sleeping in a flat head just met this demand.

When sleeping on your back, the tissues in the back of your head will be squeezed by gravity, and these tissues can't disappear, so they can only shift to the sides of your head, so that the temples and Tang Yin on both sides will be highlighted, which in turn conforms to the appearance of the beneficiary.

Manchu recorded such a sentence in "Chinese national customs": "When a baby is born, a hard pillow is used for the pillow, and beans are used for the pillow. It is necessary to level the bones in the back of the head, so it is hard and unsightly, and the customs are natural. " It is said that newborns should have hard pillows when they are born, and it is best to put some beans and the like in the pillows, so that the bones in the back of the head can disappear, so as to get good luck.

2. Ancient hairstyles, costumes, and flat heads are relatively matched.

As we all know, men stayed in big braid and women made buns in Qing Dynasty. They just don't think these two hairstyles look good. In addition, men and women in ancient times were all robes, so they preferred sleeping in a flat head, which was more in line with their temperament.

At that time, if you had a round head, you would be laughed at by others. You can imagine how proud you were to have a crew cut.

Therefore, sleeping in a flat head is a tradition handed down from the Qing Dynasty, but this is the new century. Men don't have to have long hair, and women don't have to have curly hair, but we still regard a flat head as beauty, which is the most ridiculous.

The deformed beauty of "sleeping flat head" is comparable to the ancient "foot binding". Can you let the children go? In ancient times, people regarded "three-inch golden lotus" as beautiful, so they began to bind their feet at the age of 6 or 7. In our opinion, we don't think it is beautiful. On the contrary, we think ancient women are too miserable. Foot-binding all the year round not only bears unimaginable pain, but also makes it extremely difficult to walk normally. This feeling is really hard.

In fact, isn't a child sleeping on his back a replica of a woman's foot binding? As parents, elders and children's closest relatives, you are willing to let children suffer such pain. Can you put their heads down? "Sleeping flat head" can cause flat head syndrome. Do you know these hazards?

1. Your eyesight will be impaired.

There is nothing wrong with the elders wanting their children to be blessed, but the wrong way is improper. From a professional point of view, sleeping in a flat head will lead to the oppression or deformation of the visual nerve, which will reduce the vision of children and slow their development.

2. Affect the development of the brain

If you want to sleep with your head flat, the child's pillow will be hard, and the whole process will deform the child's head. In severe cases, it will affect the development of head muscles and cause mental development and motor disorders. If the child's sleeping posture is not correct, it is also possible to sleep with his head tilted, with one side high and one side low, which really affects the overall image of the child.

3. The facial features and face will be deformed.

Sleeping with your head tilted affects not only your head, but also your face, such as crossed eyes, asymmetrical ears and deformed mouth. Perhaps a beautiful child sleeping on his back will be affected, which invisibly reduces a person's face value level.

Flat head is the most ignorant aesthetic concept of modern people, but some people still insist on their own opinions and want their children to continue to be victims of this deformed aesthetic. Wake up, if you don't want your child's back to become a tablet computer, please let them go and let their little brains grow freely. This is the best love for them.